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writes:So here's how it is. My ex is my freind; my best friend. We text all the time, and stay up 'till the early hours of the morning on the phone. We've even had phone sex. We broke up because he cheated on me. But after we broke up we still acted the same around eachother. He's broken up with the girl he cheated on me with, but I think they'll get back together. However he said he they broke up again, he'll date me. Which means I can't really move on.He comes over to mine, when I have an empty house. Even if we say we'll stay downstairs, we always end up in my bed. I'll go up to my room to get something, he'll follow me up. We'll be on my landing then he'll be all "Ooo cool you got a new poster!" and step into my room, then "I love your bed, it's so comfy..." and then sit on my bed. I'd sit down next to him, then bam he's on top of me, we're making out, dry humping, going to 3rd base, exchanging love bites, removing clothing. (We don't have sex though, but we want to.)I really love him and want to be with, I feel like I may be being used. I need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): You are being used... trust me! He's cheated you before, he's doing it now. I was in the exact same spot. I really liked him, enough to let him manipulate me into bed over and over after I broke up with him for cheating. It worked out very well for him because he could still continue to cheat on me (said he wasn't, that he wanted me back, but it was a lie) but I couldn't do anything about it, because we weren't dating! So, he got her, and me and no relationship boundaries. It sucked... I became a girlfriend without the girlfriend benefits of security, love and trust. He knew me well enough and could get in my bed so easily. I had to stop talking to him and build up my self esteem. I'm now with a great guy, he treats me like a princess (never had that before, didn't know I wanted it) and would never cheat on me. It took me a while to build myself back up, but now I realize I deserve so much better than that jerk. It was hard though, you need to have a lot of self control to get out. Don't answer the phone, keep it casual and light if you run into him, don't let him disrespect you like that!!! You deserve someone who will love you and only you and not lie to and manipulate you!! BE STRONG! good luck!
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reader, Linnea  +, writes (26 June 2011):
Get away from him. He's bad news.
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