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I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with my ex again

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Question - (29 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I haven't been in many relationships - only two. Neither of them were that serious. I only fooled around a bit with my second boyfriend who I dated two years ago for three months while I was a senior in high school. We never went further than having oral sex. It was fun but I didn't love him so we broke up. It was a mutual decision. We're still friendly but not friends. We talk every once in a while. He has a girlfriend now whom he's been with for about a year or so. He loves her and I'm happh for him. Lately I've been fantasizing about him and reminiscing about all the fun we had.

Sometimes I wish he had taken my virginity but I remember that I want my first time to be special. I would never give it to someone I didn't love. I do love him but like a friend now. I still remain a virgin but a part of me wishes that I could fool around with him again. What does this mean?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2011):

It means that you are missing sex and closeness with a man. Time to start looking for someone else.

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A male reader, dougbcoll United States +, writes (29 June 2011):

dougbcoll agony auntdon't rush things , you have something you can only have once. my advice is make sure it is for the right person in your life. it is easier to have regrets later, for your self & who ever is in your future.

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A female reader, IheartCherrios United States +, writes (29 June 2011):

its your hormones. dont give in! you want him so badly but trust me, in the end, its not worth it at all. find someone new, someone you love and you wont even look at another guy.

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