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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

I'm fed up of feeling sorry for myself, but cant seem to forget about him! Help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - This isn't a question. I am just going through a difficult patch and was wondering if anyone had any advice. I fell in love with a guy towards the end of last year (October/November time). He made it very clear that he didn't want anything se...

Ex ignores me after initially crying to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ex broke up with me a month ago...went into no contact right after. She cried about being friends and I said no since I still had feelings. We dated for 5 years and were each others first...in everything. i knew I was going to see her at the c...

Hurt and confused, was it all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Today makes a week since I last spoke with my ex and I am really taking everything hard. I feel like I'm the only one hurting, like I'm the only one who cares as he is just moving on with his life happily. Long story short, we met through mutual ...

I know I shouldnt be with him but I am so alone and only answer his calls so I have someone to talk to....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay, you all probably heard all this before! I have been with my ex for about 2 years! We have been going down hill from the second month! He treats me like I'm worthless and brain less and so much more! It has got to the point where I cant ta...

Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy pet...

Do these dreams mean I'm still not over my ex?

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28 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone i gotta lil problem soo me and this guy was together for about 2 1/2 years it was a LDR we lived about 2 hours away. My only problem with him at the time was that he never came 2 see me in pa but one time and i was constintly going ba...

I absolutely have no idea where I stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship with another woman ever since we broke up. Now the thing ...

How do I forgive and let go of an ancient relationship that still haunts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with a guy 6 years ago. He was my first love and I can't let him go. I have tried etheric cutting of the cords, I have travelled, I have had children since and many other blessings in my life. The break up was sudden and unresolve...

Iv stood by this girl in every way, yet now she's back to her ex who used to abuse her physically and emotionally!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months, when all of a sudden she started to ignore me. The relationship was going great, we got along great, we had fun together, nothing was going wrong. She had been ignoring me for about 2 week...

I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 1...

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...

My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...

What does this text mean? is his feelings genuine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - well ive been meeting a lad who lives with his ex girlfriend, i have asked other questions relating to this...if you would like to have a look? his ex girlfriend only lives there because she has nowhere to live till she gets herself sorted. they ...

I know he's no good for me, I need to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So it's been like 3 years since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I've been so hurt that I've been doing things that I'm not supposed to do. We've only been together for 6 months but he is my first love, on the last 3 months of our relationship we ...

A question mark text...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Call me naive but, I'm a little confused as to what my ex is trying to say in a text message he recently sent to me. I have not spoken to my ex in 9 months. Since he left me and became involved with someone else. It was my idea to sever all ties ...

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About ...

Is my ex really over me or he's trying to see me hurt? I'm really confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I hope to hear some of your opinions on my problem. It's been going for nearly 2 weeks since we broke up. We were together for nearly a year. It was a mistake from both sides. We had been in this distance relationship and haven'...

Ex boyfriend in jail keeps writing to me saying he's changed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Hi i have another question after my ex boyfriend doing all that messed up shit to me and now being in jail i havent talked to him or wrote to him but he has been writing me for months already telling me hes sorry and that he changed and he wants me ...

My ex is trying to hook me up with one of his friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Why would my ex do this? So my boyfriend and me broke up a month ago and well he had this guy who is a friend of his text me and well then the guy told me that him and my ex were talking about me and that he asked to see what i looked like and my e...

Broke up with my BF. He calls to say I miss you/nice things but wont apologize or invite me out.Why is he being like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I recently broke up with my bf (On wednesday the 23rd). Today would be the 6 mo. mark. The last few mo (ever since he was put on suspension w pay from his job (he still has income from the military tho) - hes been diff. Also we started school last ...

My ex is gone again,she never calls. I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Hi thanks for looking at my page I need advice on this relation ship. Ok to start of I have meet this girl on a on line web site and I really feel in love with her. We have know each other for two yrs now. Every thing was great we hit it of good ...

Husband texting his ex personal info on facebook, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - My husband and I will be married 15 years tomorrow. We have three beautiful children together and are expecting our fourth this summer. Today, he received a friend request from a girl he used to date in high school on Facebook. He once told me that ...

Exs and rebounds

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - Will an ex come back after a rebound if you use no contact? What are ur experiences with this?...

My boyfriend's beautiful ex girlfriend who happens to resemble Mila Kunis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for a bit over six months. I never cared about his past at first. He told me he was with a girl for around five years and had a nasty break up. Lately I keep thinking about their relationship. I have never even seen her...

How do I get rid of this anger I have towards men because of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I feel really angry towards my ex, even though we split up over a year ago. We were together for 2 1/2 years. He was the sweetest, loveliest man I had ever met, until he started acting really out of character. We were in a long distance ...

Should I go to my friend's birthday party even if my ex is invited?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - so one of my friends Birthday is today and his girlfriend and I planed out a surprise Birthday party at a restaurant, the problem is that he made friends with my ex and she invited him. Honestly I cant stand my ex because he talked a lot of ugly ...

Is it possible to fall in love 2 months into the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Is it possible to fall in love with someone after only 2 months? I realize everything is all good in the beginning. I broke up with my long time boyfriend of 9 years to pursue a relationship with the new person. I've convinced myself that I'm in ...

Will our relationship ever get back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am dating this guy that is 38 and i am 26 he has two wonderful children. He is going through a divorce. He has now been separated for 1 year 2 months. I love him very much. We have been togather for 1 year and 2 months. I have met his kids his ...

I still feel the same way for my ex as I did when we were together! How do I get her out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - hi im in a prety dire situation...as all out there are..i had a good loving relationship going for me before i could even realise that it was over..my supposedly ex-girlfriend brought an abrupt end to our relationship that we were so passionate ...

How can such a terrible person be doing okay while I'm so unhappy and insecure?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My mind is in a fog. I've written on this site countless times hoping for different answers. Hoping one of which might somehow help me. Hoping that someone has been where I've been and can give me hope and help me to better understand what my issue ...

How did my boyfriend move on so fast? I can't even forget him! Please Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) have been dating on and off for a year.The first time we broke up was over me being on vacation and him having trust issues and him wanting me to come home early so we decided we wouldn't talk for awhile .Well ...

A month has passed, but I still love my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up almost a month ago..he has moved on, but I still love him! He has been "talking" to other girls, which is like technically dating, and has done something with another girl. He has said some very, very hurtful things to ...

How do I get back out into the dating field?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex 8 months ago and although i feel like im over him i still dont have my life back, im not going out much and i spend alot of time on chat websites. Im only 19 and i cant believe my life is like this already. i really want to m...

I am gay and still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. Also, I told a crush that I liked him, but he is straight. HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, Let's say my name is WD. I'm in high school at a small, preppy academy, and I'm gay, but I didn't fully come to this realization until the day before Halloween of last year. A guy, let's call him FC, came out to me; we had been fli...

Dear Creepy Ex, Thanks but no thanks.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

24 February 2011 (?) - Ok so, my ex (not the classiest fellow at the best of times) just sent me a picture of his junk on facebook, with the message, "miss me?". This definitely seals my decision NOT to get back together with him. I thought of replying and kind of calli...

Is this normal behaviour after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - It's now been about 3 week since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. We would talk occasionally through emails or texts the first week it ended but the past 2 weeks I've texted him almost everyday and he hasn't responded to any of my texts. I know I ...

Am I stupid for wanting to wait for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello. I am in a dielmma and need some advice. I recently connected with my first love through facebook and we got together. It went so well but the problem is now that he is going through a legal nightmare from years ago and is now in jail. He ...

How do I face up to my ex girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - I always get the hots for my former girlfriend,but I am afraid to meet her ,so I began to get away from her .for example ,I am annoyed to attend the reunion of my high school classmates just in order not to meet with her . I don't know how I sh...

I lost my confidence after my first relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend used to abuse me and scold me so much that I have lost my confidence completely . Whenever I try talking to girl , my body starts crumbling and I can’t figure out what to say and what not to. I am so low on confidence that I f...

Should I attempt to get my ex back, even though he's married and I was the one who left him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I left my ex husband/bf (we lived together as husband and wife for 7yrs but we weren't married)for another guy just because I got bored with the relationship. He was totally heartbroken when I left. We were eachother's first true love. I met him ...

I don't feel as desired as his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating this great guy for about 7 months now. He is really really sweet and gentle and mature. Before we started to date, we had discussed our pasts.He said his ex looked bad and was really just a cry-baby and would keep fighting with ...

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...

Should I keep contact with my emotionally abusive ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Can someone please give me advice on whether or not to keep in touch with my ex? We dated for 5 years he is 30 i am 25. Most say it was emotionally abusive from his part(calling me fat, no good, yelling) et but there were good times. He ended the ...

Still casually sleeping with my ex, but he sees us as "just friends"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Why do I have no self control when it comes to my ex? We broke up over a year ago and I am still casually sleeping with him. I can't stop thinking about him as I'm deeply in love with him. He on the other hand wants to be single but also h...

Are these guilt driven texts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My Ex left me about 5 months ago for another woman. He pretty much moved right out of our place and into hers. We were together 6 years. I did what most shocked dumpees do and attempted to get him back for about 2 weeks or so. Went pretty much NC ...

Can you get over an ex when you haven't found a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me two years ago after a 3 month relationship. We meet online (on an interest site not dating) so before we meet in person we'd spoken a lot through chat and on the phone and knew each other quite well. Because of this our ...

I feel they are divorced so they should act like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for well over a year, we are both divorced with kids. He still hangs out with his ex to do "family time", they go to dinner, movies all day outings and even sometimes they stay at each others houses. The other day he told me ...