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writes:hi im in a prety dire situation...as all out there are..i had a good loving relationship going for me before i could even realise that it was over..my supposedly ex-girlfriend brought an abrupt end to our relationship that we were so passionate about...i really dont know as to what made her do so...attempts to get it out of her have failed...i do understand that there is no point in hanging onto this any more but i have really not been able to get this whole thing out of my head...i feel for her with the same passion as i used to while we were together(its gonna be close to an year since our break up)... and i do know that it is not about its because im lonely thing...i am not being able to reciprocate to a few propsals that came my way(pretty fortunate enough in this regard)...please do help me out ...your input will be highly appreciated!!!!!!!!!
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 "i am not being able to reciprocate to a few propsals that came my way(pretty fortunate enough in this regard)" This is wonderful! Force yourself to accept these 'proposals' and force yourself to make a few 'proposals' of your own.
Force yourself to go to lunch, coffee, drinks, short walks in the park, concerts, movies, etc. with as many different women as possible. Realize that your ex, like every woman, is 'one of a kind'. The more experience you have seeing the many different combinations of personality traits that make up an individual the happier you will be to know you can feel passion for other people and activities. I know it's 'easier said than done' but 'try not to dwell on' your ex by forcing yourself to 'do other things'. I hope you find peace soon and truly wish you all the best.
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