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writes:I am dating this guy that is 38 and i am 26 he has two wonderful children. He is going through a divorce. He has now been separated for 1 year 2 months. I love him very much. We have been togather for 1 year and 2 months. I have met his kids his sister knows of me. His parents dont. His soon to be ex wife wants him for everything. We used to live together but then things changed. I moved out so he could get things in his life done. And i miss all the time we spent to gather. I was wondering if things will back the way it was before.
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reader, maine +, writes (26 February 2011):
maine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd my boyfriend has told me how nice and good I am to him. He says he has wanted a woman like me for a very long time. He started to cry, told me he loves me, and he is trying so hard to get his divorce done. I don't ask him about it alot sometimes I do. This man I am with is like an angel from heaven. I miss him so much when we are not together. When I tell him how sweet and kind he is he says thanks honey. It's so hard for him to open up to me. Is their anything I can say or do to get him to open up. I just feel like if I talk too much or ask too many questions it will upset him. Please help me.
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reader, maine +, writes (26 February 2011):
maine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI love being with an older guy, he is so good to me. We have a lot in common. I moved out because he said we were moving to fast. He has a really good job. We are still together and we see each other alot. He is going through a second divorce, I know it sounds crazy. But the first wife didnt want him around anymore. The soon to be ex treated him like shit and is trying to get him for alot. They both were going to have a disolotion but now she wants a real divorce. And the baggage I knew about when we first started dating, he told me everthing. He is worth waiting on. I try to talk to him about our relationship. I helped him move out of his soon to be ex wife's house they had together. He wants to take our relationship slow. He told me one day he will call me and say it's time to come home. I think he is really stressed out. He works 12 hour shifts. He loves his kids very much. I do not know his kids really. I wish I did. I will never hurt this man. I want to have a future with him, yes I am young and so is he. I do not party, drink, or smoke. The party life is not for me. He doesn't do anything. All he does is spend time with me his kids and work alot. One thing that bothers me is I have not met his family and that hurts me alot. But he has been hurt alot in his life. I am not with him to hurt him. He knows I love him, I am wondering how much longer it will take to get his divorce
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reader, TEM +, writes (25 February 2011):
 I'm wondering why, after living with him for over a year, you had to move out so "he could get things done." I don't know what that means. It's an odd situation. Did he explain what was happening in your relationship when he asked you to move out? Did he tell you it is over?
I don't have a crystal ball to tell you whether or not things will go back to the way they were before you moved out. I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about that. After a year and two months, he owes you an explanation as to where your relationship is going, or if it is going anywhere at all. He is probably preoccupied, with the divorce, but you must find a way to get straight answers from him.
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