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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up almost a month ago..he has moved on, but I still love him! He has been "talking" to other girls, which is like technically dating, and has done something with another girl. He has said some very, very hurtful things to me. I don't know why I still like him, but I need help on how to get over him!! How do I get over him!? Please help(:
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (25 February 2011):
 When you are with one person long enough you actually become chemically addicted them. Regardless of whether or not they are a good person for you to be with.
The only thing that helps is time and to make a clean with them. No contact, no texts, no emails, no nothing. It may take a few more weeks but eventually you will start to feel better. In the meantime try to keep yourself as busy with positive activies as possible. Schoolwork, friends, hobbies... anything that keeps you busy and from thinking about him.
At your age relationships aren't not going to last forever. So be aware of that going into them and avoid the temptation to give up everything else in your life for some guy. Otherwise you will be lost everytime someone breaks up with you.
Try to look at each of them as a life lesson that can teach you something about relationships. A lesson that is steadily leading to towards the guy you will meet one day and want to spend the rest of your life with.
Its all a part of growing up everyone goes through it. And its hard while it lasts but it is NOT forever so don't ever give up.
There is a whole world out there waiting for you and you'll never know what its like untill you get there.
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reader, inluvwlaw +, writes (25 February 2011):
this is definietely a challenge but only time will heel this situation from my own experiance its a out of sight out of mind deal got rid of the evidence that we exsisted so pictures letters all those little things we collect over the period of time together its a must o let them go if not your obviously holding on to something that is not real move on with yourself it will hurt but ignore any situation and do not put yourself in those positions to bo hurt you know the out come
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): Do what he is doing... if he is talking to girls then you can talk to boys, only then you would know what he is feeling. simple
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