A
female
age
26-29,
*mbiieex
writes:I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see my girlfriend today or his Facebook status will say, "when one of us leaves earth our love will still be there" and he tells me she's the love of his life. They've been going out for a while now, but how do I get him back?
View related questions:
broke up, facebook Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 You don't. Since he feels he has found not just another gf, but " the love of his life " , there's no game .
Besides, I think perhaps you want him back precisely because he has moved on. People always find more fascinating what is out of their reach.
Lastly, imagine this : Your bf loses interest in you and breaks up with you . You lose weight , get fake boobs, get an hotter figure, - and immediately he is interested again.. What would you think of a person like this ? That he is immature and shallow. I hope you don't want to be an immature and shallow person yourself.
A
female
reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 Nooooo. Don't. Not cool.
And how much would YOU trust and appreciate someone who dumped you who pursues you again because they 'changed their mind'?
NOT cool.
...............................
A
female
reader, Rain Flower  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 I am in the middle of the same sitation right now, my beatfriend dumped this guy and now i'm dating him. i madly in love with him. She is acting like a child, remember this girl never broke his heart, you did. so maybe, she's better for him. i agree you should move on
...............................
A
male
reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (28 February 2011):
Ur young dont tie yourself to one guy! Trust me u have plenty of time for tgt. Enjoy life . I was always.in a relationship and now.im 20 single and ok. Besides he is clearly trying to piss u off . He needs time to grow up
...............................
A
female
reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (28 February 2011):
 You don't. You dumped him, and he moved on and he's glad he moved on and just because he got hot doesn't mean you get him back. Don't be childish!
...............................
|
