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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex is nice to me one minute nasty the next, but I still love him!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i have an x bf that is nice to me half the time and nasty to me the other but i still love him he says he is not intrested any more and then he starts acting like he wants me again what can i do i really love him and want him back ?...

My gf's ex is back from bootcamp in 2 weeks and she's not over him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - Im currently 18 years old, my girlfriend is 17. I know what love feels like, and I am very much in love with her. I was not happy for the first part of our relationship because I was not over my previous girlfriend, but after some closure I fell ...

I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...

Are you back with your ex or have you remarried your ex? Looking for real life case studies for a magazine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - Are you back with your ex or have you remarried your ex? Have you been in a realtionship, broken up for a significant amount of time and then got back/remarried your ex? Or do you know of anyone who has? Hi I'm a writer for a national weekl...

I want my ex bf to stop liking me so I can move on with my new bf. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - dear cupid okay i have been dating this guy for two months and we really care deeply about each other. but my ex boyfriend is really not liking it and he has never acted like that before he told me we are only friends and nothing more but my family ...

My ex gf's bf is being possessive because he won't allow her to hang out with me! Is this right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - Is my ex-girlfriend new guy being possessive? He won't let her hang out with me when it's just me and her. I wanted to take her out to a baseball game for her birthday and she said sure, but she'd have to ask him first. Well, it's a no go, he ...

Ex husband wants me back but I fear we may run into the same old problems! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 33 year old single mum of 4. I have had 2 failed marriages. My first split up due to physical and mental abuse. My second split up because of constant arguments and trust issues. I have been divorced now for 3 years. I have tri...

33 and torn between two men, past and present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi All I've posted questions about this "lurve" problem before, but I still need some help... I fell madly in love with a neighbour - we knew each other as friends for 3 months, and then got together. We were both totally smitten with each other....

How can I get it through to my ex, that its well and truly over!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

27 September 2006 (?) - I am hoping that some of you can help me with this problem – you see I was with my boyf for 9 years, for 2 of them we were engaged to be married, we broke up 18 months ago after I found out he had been sleeping with my supposed “Best Friend and ...

We act like a couple even after past history of breaking up, things are great, but we are not a couple and she's moving out! What should I do ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE Hi there, I am in a right old mess. I was with my gf for four years, lived together for much of it. We had usual ups and downs and had a baby last Xmas. Our ups and downs took a toll on her and her feelings cha...

Married, but unhappy. I found some happiness and then paid the price. Is my wife looking for revenge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Basically, I was in a unhappy marriage for the last 8 years and we could never really talk about anything. As soon as I would try to talk about how I felt, she would turn it around and make it about her feelings or would just say I was wrong and ...

How do I get him back, Surely he wouldnt come around to help out if he were not interested ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - Hi its me again from yesterday i asked about my ex b/f who left me. Now he is saying he just wants his stuff and i cannot ever have his love anymore that i pushed him away. he wants to come over to do the yard but i told him thats okay i can do it ...

Im waiting for he current relationship not to work, so I can get back with her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

26 September 2006 (M) - I'm trying to work my way back in with my ex, will it work? Please read my last post first: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-love-and-want-to-marry-this-woman.html Well, as I mentioned, we have been talking a lot lately, mostly me contac...

Is it a good sign or a bad sign that my ex finally answered the phone and spoke to me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

26 September 2006 (F) - I posted a note on here a week ago about my bf/ex bf being so distant. He has been ignoring all my texts/phone calls for about a month now besides 2 texts he sent that were basically telling me he'd call me when he wanted to get back w/me and that I ...

I cannot get my ex out of my head. It's even harder now because he has a new girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - im not sure but i think im falling 4 this guy, ive known him 4 2 years and we used to talk and we liked each other but i ended up falling in love with his work colleague. We then broke up (me and the colleague) and then i found out he had got ...

Does he care about an US or is he just curious??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

25 September 2006 (F) - My ex of 6 years and I have been done for 4 months. He has a new gf, of 3 months. He told me that he was tired of me complaining about bills, work and my debt. We lived together for two years. We didnt have sex for a year or so. I thought that we ...

Does he think we couldn't be together because I dated one of his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - I was seeing a guy for a month and a guy I had been texting for 6 months finally wanted to meet me - I had seen one of his friends casually for a time, so that complicated things and he wanted to be cautious. When he found out I had a boyfriend he ...

Why can't my ex tell me why he is snubbing me in this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6637 days ago

24 September 2006 (F) - my ex boyfriend lives in australia, but when he left he said he'll only be gone 4 a year and he'll neva fall in love with anyone else or sleep with anyone else (i didnt believe this as he is a guy) But 4 the first couple of monthes he was calling me ...

How can I get my lying, cheating slapper of a girlfriend out of my head?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

24 September 2006 (M) - Ever since getting together with my girlfriend, there have been problems. All she basically has ever done is lied, flirted, broke promises, totally disrespected me and slept around. Me being me, I took her back over 60 times, yet she still continue...

After making love with my boyfriend, I usually cry and start thinking about my ex of 7 years. Why is this happening to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

23 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years broke up with me about a year ago. I have a new boyfriend but there is a problem. After we make love I start thinking about the loss of my other relationship and get quite upset...I usually cry. I just do not understand ...

Sex with the ex feels so good, even though I am cheating on my boyfriend. Please help me understand it's not right.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - Please give me some advise! I am currently involved with this guy we been together for couple of years,but we recently been arguing alot and for little things.I feel that he may be cheating on me. About a month ago was speaking of this with my ...

I have a boyfriend, but now I am back in contact with my ex husband of 6 years. What can I do? I dont want to hurt anybody.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - i have recently gotten a divorce from a man who i have been with for 6 years. i love him with all my heart and still love him. his work became more important than me and his parents out ranked me. after 2 years of marriage i left. i couldnt come 3rd ...

We broke up because he had feelings for another girl, now he wants to resume contact, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

22 September 2006 (F) - I need help i was with a guy for two great years. we ended up breaking up cause he started having feelings for another gir and i guess he stoped loving me.I wanted to keep in touch but he did not semm to. But now he want he calls me but only cause ...

She is so rude to me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

21 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend was divorced before I met him. He has a daughter who now lives with his ex-wife. My boyfriend and I will take the little girl out during the weekend and spend some time with her. I get along really well with her, which I'm glad. When w...

I cant deal with her ex, and feel she should not have got involved with me without closure! I need him out of her life to be able to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

21 September 2006 (M) - Hi, I got some good advice the other day about my current relationship, and have heeded the bits about being treated like a doormat. My ex constantly talks about her exes and her previous one in particular. He has recently been back in contact about ...

What makes someone withhold their number and then hang up on you!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I’ve broken up with my boyfriend of a few months and I’m sure that he is the person whose been blocking his phone number and when I pick up the phone the person doesn’t say anything. I know he’s harmless but what makes a person do such a thing? ...

Met this great guy and things great when im with him, but I still think about the ex and how I wanted it to be! How can I move on and stop hurting ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6641 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Hello all,I'm a 24 years old female and I've posted before.My situation is that a few months ago my boyfriend who's 17 years older than I am broke up with me because he thinks that the age difference would be a problem.I loved him with all of my ...

My ex wants to see me as a friend, but he wont accept we are over, is it possible to be friends in this case ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I ended a relationship with my lover because i felt it wasn't going anywhere and i told him that.We couldn't agree to compromise so i walked away.Trouble is my ex will not accept this and says he misses me alot.He wants us to remain friends and just ...

Hes a really great guy, and we hit off, but I dont get butterflies about seeing him, or get excited when meeting up, is it because im not over my ex ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - Ok, my problem may seem silly, but was hoping for some advice..I met this guy online last week (he lives in my town) and we hit it off so well that we decided to go on a date, it went well, and so far we've seen each other 2 more nights this week ...

Is my new guy just being overly jealous that I want to meet up with my ex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

20 September 2006 (F) - I met a really nice guy a few months ago, and although it has had it's ups and downs, we get on well. My ex got back in contact about some furniture he had left around mine and wants to come and pick it up. He also has a front door key that he ...

I was mean to my ex and want him back. Should I keep trying or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and met someone else who I know now was a rebound. I did not really end the relationship with my ex that nicely. The rebound guy insisted that I call my ex and tell him goodbye while Mr rebound was ...

My bf blames me for everything, we broke up, I had a miscarriage, he treats me bad but I love him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Wrote earlier when I was pregnant. My bf blames me for everything. I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks. My bf blames me for telling his parents that I was pregnant. I know I did not do it but he blames me for it. His parents got sick because of it. ...

How do I get the ex to leave me alone ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Hi. I dated a guy about 4 years ago, then he moved across the country and is now back. He contacted me shortly after getting in the area to get together and I told him that I was married. Then suggested that he and I get together. I said okay, ...

I live with my boyfriend, but his ex wife is constantly in contact Im so worried he will get back with her! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6487 days ago

19 September 2006 (F) - Please Help, I am so sad. I have been living with my boyfriend for 9 months, and i love him very much. Recently his ex wife wont leave him alone. She makes every excuse to see him, even using thier children to black-mail him. they are not little 16 ...

Am I reading too much into it or does he want to get back together ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago now and we have still remained friends. Two days ago I was speaking to him and he was concerned about where I've been because I haven't returned his call from the night before. Then, during our ...

He made me feel so cr*p, trouble is we share the same friends and will see each other at Uni.. How will I cope ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - hi, my bf of almost 2 yrs split from me a couple of months ago. we're at uni and lived together there for 1yr. To begin he was slightly geeky but a sweet guy, but he is now obsessed with being cool. He cheated in a club one night and on returnin...

What does it mean when the girl breaks it off but says she wants to be your best friend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

18 September 2006 (M) - What does it mean when a girl breaks off with you after 4 months and wants to be your "best friend" and writes a msg saying i care soo much about you and i'll alwayz be there for you? thanks...

I met up with my ex and had sex, now hes ignoring me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - i met my ex of a year and a half last tues,he is my 1st 4 everything and i do really love him,we met up and had a really good nite n we ended up having sex but now hes ignorin me for no good reason?i dont get it.one min he wants me and the next he ...

I'm obsessed with his Ex! and need help to deal with it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

18 September 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, i have used this site before and had some really good, helpful advice - wondered if anyone has any tips for this problem?? Basically, my problem is that although I have been with my boyfriend for two years, i cant stop obsessing...

We split after 9 years and now...he with his cheating ex gf! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

17 September 2006 (F) - hi ive just split up with my boyfriend after 9 years.to days later i found out he is back with his ex who cheated on him.i feel like my heart has been ripped out. dont no why he done this....

Some of her exes keep professing their love for her. I think she should cut the ties with these ex's. What do you all think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

16 September 2006 (M) - My ex-fiance and I are trying to get back together to make it work. After being back with her for a couple of days i'm starting to withdraw from her again because of one important issue i am having problems with. Her and her ex's. From the moment t...

My bf has to marry his ex gf because he got her pregnant. It's tearing me apart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

16 September 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend early this year, but we have known eachother all our lives. He breaks up with me because he has a moral duty to an ex girlfriend he got pregnant. He now has to marry her. My boyfriend comes from a strict christian...

Should I tell my ex that I still love him after a year ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a little over a year and i still love him. I never stopped loving him. We broke up for many different reasons. Some tings were my fault and some things were his fault. I do not talk to him anymore but I ...

We opened up one night about our sexual pasts, I now dont feel sexual towards her!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - My wife's sexual past is hurting us both. My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. I've always been reluctant to discuss our sexual pasts, largely because I was "afraid to know." Well, she breeched the subject one night b/c she ...

Had a long distance relationship for many years, it ended, then he got back in touch asked to get back just so he could have sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I was in a long-distance realtionship for many years. I fell madly in love with this guy, but sadly it was an on/off affair, due to his lack of commitment,distance etc. He did tell me he loved me, but we split earlier in the year because I found him ...

Im constantly being compared to the Ex, I cant cope anymore what can I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

15 September 2006 (M) - I am in the early (honeymoon) stages of a relationship and most things are absoluetly fantastic, however one thing really bothers me and despite talking to my partner I seem not to be able to get a common understaning. I am compared regularly to ...

Survived the break up and have moved on, but Still feel embarrased at how I acted!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6646 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - Last year I was dumped for someone else. I was heartbroken and it took me months to get over it. I put a few posts on here and got really good advice, the best being that time will eventually heal the wounds. And it did, I got used to seeing my ex ...

Im keeping myself busy, but still cant get over the hurt of my break up.. please help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

15 September 2006 (F) - I broke up with my ex 5 months ago. I am doing all the right things - keeping busy, seeing friends. But I still cry when I am alone, and I still miss him so very much. I really believe he was the love of my life and I don't know how I will ever get ...

We split and now he has someone new and I want him back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6647 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - hi i am 16 and I split up with my bf a month ago, i went out wiv him for 4 months but now he has got someone new, he is happy with her but this leaves me still wanting him. Everytime i see him i want him back and i think how stupid i was to let it ...

His ex called him on his birthday and now I don't want to talk to him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 September 2006 (F) - Hi there. My bf just had his 25th birthday and the both of us went out with his family and friends to a restaraunt and we were having a great time up until the end of the evening when one of his exes called to say happy birthday to him. I didn't ...