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writes: I need help i was with a guy for two great years. we ended up breaking up cause he started having feelings for another gir and i guess he stoped loving me.I wanted to keep in touch but he did not semm to. But now he want he calls me but only cause he still want to keep in touch (he still likes the other gir). I dont know if i should keep in touch with him? Why should he want to?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I do respect him for breaking up with you while confused on his feelings as many people carry on in their current relationship while they test the waters on the next thing out there.
Personally if you still have feelings for him and find it all hard then I wouldn't keep the contact up with him as you will get more hurt by this, but when it comes to it only you can make the decision on what is more important... is having him in your life somehow anyhow more important than you moving on and getting someone better for yourself?
I spent a year trying to keep in contact with a guy that had hurt me over and over and I did it because I didn't want to lose him completely and I felt something was better than nothing, but because I kept the contact going I never moved on from it and continued to get hurt by him even though we was 'mean't' to be friends and nothing more, not only that I couldn't get with anyone else because I was always hoping that something more would start back up with me and him.
Don't be somebodies back up incase what they really want doesn't happen or work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): hey babesOk in my personal opinion if he has done this too you once he could easily do it again.Im a lil confused as to why he broke it off with you for this other girl yet nothing has happened there. Has he asked her out and she turned him down so now he is coming back to you? If this is the case babe you are worth so much more than him.I can also understand tho why you may want to consider getting back in touch. Some of your feelings may have never gone away and a part of you may want him back no matter what.Its hard but from what I can make out he still has feelings for this other girl and until these have gone I dont think that you could enjoy a relationship with him.You need to do whatever you feel is right for you. How about making a pro's and con's list about getting back with himTake care and good luck
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