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writes: My ex of 6 years and I have been done for 4 months. He has a new gf, of 3 months. He told me that he was tired of me complaining about bills, work and my debt. We lived together for two years. We didnt have sex for a year or so. I thought that we had a huge problem. I thought we were too comfortable with each other, to me we were more like friends than bf and gf. A couple weeks after i told him that, he came over and told me that he didnt want to talk that he wanted to have sex instead. I asked him one? and that was, "do you want an US"? he said he did stupid me gave in and then after he told me that he tought we needed space. I knew that he meant it, but we saw each other everyday. I got very used to talking to him everyday, so giving him the space that he needed was very difficult for me. so because of me we broke up. I heard a couple months ago that he was thinking about starting over with me, but the issues in the beginning of the post were getting in the way, so he changed his mind. He told my sister-in-law that we are done forever, and that he doesnt think that he would ever call me again, because he says that i have been lying about what happened and about him. About a month has passed and then this; his gf came in to my work the other night and was talking about me like i wasnt even in the building. My sister-in-law called him the next day and told him about what happened. He asked her how i was doing. that same night i could have sworn that i saw him pulling out of the parking lot at 11 p.m. I cant get him out of my mind. I still love him, miss everything about him, there has been a few times since we have been done, that i really could have used him beside me. I dont know what to do. I am too scared to email him. I would like to have a second chance. or at least have him be a small part of my life again. I dont know if he still cares for me, thinking about there being an US again, or if he is thinking of trying to be friends. or just curiosity.
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Before you do anything you need to think about whether you really want someone that has done all this and made you feel the way he has back in your life.
If the answer is yes then you need to take the chance and contact him and see where he is seeing you and him and if he sees a future for you both until you do that you will never know whether you are wasting your time sitting round thinking about him instead of trying to get on with your own life.
You need to stop listening to what other people say he has or hasn't done or said and talk to him yourself, thats the only way you will know the complete truth about everything.
Good luck :o)
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