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writes: i have an x bf that is nice to me half the time and nasty to me the other but i still love him he says he is not intrested any more and then he starts acting like he wants me again what can i do i really love him and want him back ? Reply to this Question
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reader, luckylevi  +, writes (21 May 2011):
well, talk to him about it and ask why he's being like that and depending on what answer he gives you is what you will make your decision on. hope it works out:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): Dont go back with him, he obviousally doesnt care that much about you to treat you crappy half the time. Read the book "He just isnt that into you" I read it and it is so true. I learned alot from it and most importantly never to settle for anything less than the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): its all the same with me just give him space n yh he'll think wha av i lost here
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): You want him because you can't always have him. Grass is always greener. If exactly the same guy wasn't so hard to hold onto, then you would be a lot less crazy about him. The reason he has the power to make you feel so good some of the time is because it is him that is making you feel bad the rest of the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): I have split up with my ex well she split up with me I am also half nice half bad but only when she provokes me. Best thing you can do is chill for a while and if he wants you he will be back rest assured but if he doesnt at least you might be able to be friends or at least say high at some point in the futur. but if you insist on keeping in contact dont bite!!! this is what he wants as this is the only way of knowing that you still care just be nice and he will think feck what have I lost trust me I no!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2007): I have been through the same thing. This isnt Junior high, Just because you broke up does not mean you cannot be friends. However, it has to be just friends or you will end up getting hurt, if you want to be more and he doesnt then I suggest gettting away. As for the half of the time being sweet other half being nasty, let him know you will not stand for that. If he really cares and want you in his life he wont treat you like that and sometimes just not talking to him and leaving him alone will make him realize that he cant treat you like that if he wants you in his life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): he is not worth the bother chick my ex is like this all the time its because boys think it will make them look soft if there nice all the time believe me he does not mean it xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Why are you in love with a man who treats you nasty, half of the time? Do you feel that you aren't worthy of being loved and treated nicely, all of the time? He treats you bad 'but' you love him. In that one word 'but', you say a lot about yourself and what you are willing to tolerate, to feel loved by someone. Play close attentions to this word 'but'. It's giving you a signal something is wrong. The problem is not really the ex bf..it's your lack of self-worth for tolerating his crap. Stop ignoring the 'but's' and start empowering your life and yourself as a strong, confident young woman, and kick this guy's ass to the curb, once and for all. He's not worth it, hun and you need to learn to take a hard look within and ask why' you allow others to treat you so horrendously. Start believing in yourself and know...you deserve someone who treats you with dignity and respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): If he is your EX-bf why are you still in contact with him?
Once you break up with someone, it means the relationship is finished, done with, over. You go your way and he goes his.
In any case, why would you even WANT him back when he acts like this?
Forget him, get on with enjoying your life, and eventually you might meet someone much better.
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 Do you really want to be with someone that treats you this way? It sounds to me he doesn't really know what he wants from you and therefore mixed signals but until he stops throwing mixed signals at you and stops being nasty towards you I wouldn't even contemplate getting back with him.
Good luck :o)
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