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writes: dear cupid okay i have been dating this guy for two months and we really care deeply about each other. but my ex boyfriend is really not liking it and he has never acted like that before he told me we are only friends and nothing more but my family keeps telling me its something more. i really love my boyfriend iam with now and i just want my ex to stop what should i do sign sissy
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): Your ex-boyfriend is your ex. That means you - and he - are free to date anyone else you want.
Whether he likes it or not, is another question. He may not (and evidently does not) LIKE it. Too bad. It is not his business any more. Tell him ONCE and once only that you and he are no longer together and he is not to contact you. If he does call or text you, there's no need to respond. You'll have given him notice (that you're not dating any more). He has to respect your choice.
This is one reason why its often better for "ex's" NOT to try to maintain a "friendship" once you've broken up!
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 You need to talk to him and tell him that you love you boyfriend and are very happy with him, also telling him that even if you was single yours and his relationship is over and would still stay that way.
You just have to be strong and clear about this.
Good luck :o)
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I don't understand. You need to be a little more clear on what it is that he is doing. If he's just not liking it, thats something he has to deal with. How long has it been since you all broke up and why did you all break up? Be a little more detailed.
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