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writes: I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago and met someone else who I know now was a rebound. I did not really end the relationship with my ex that nicely. The rebound guy insisted that I call my ex and tell him goodbye while Mr rebound was sitting right there. My ex called a few times to talk and I always told him I was too busy to talk. Mr rebound and I broke up and I tried to reconnect with my ex but he will not talk to me now. I see now that he was a good guy and I was quite mean to him. I would like to be friends but he seems too proud and will have none of it. I feel guilt about the way I treated him and miss him somehow. Should I keep reaching out or call it a day on this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): In life, everybody makes mistakes, we are not perfect.
I was in a very similar situation as you were, just that i was the ex. My gf broke up with me a month ago and is constantly treating me really bad till the point where i just couldn't take the pain anymore and needed some time without any contact with her.
In situations like this you have to ask yourself, do you really still love your ex?
If you do, there is always a second chance, people make mistakes and whats important is that you learn from your mistakes. You made the mistake of breaking up with him, if you really want him back, try texting him and telling him how you feel. But don't text him too much or bother him too much or he will just get annoyed...
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