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writes: Dear Cupid,I am a 33 year old single mum of 4. I have had 2 failed marriages. My first split up due to physical and mental abuse. My second split up because of constant arguments and trust issues. I have been divorced now for 3 years. I have tried the dating scene both personally and via internet dating services and was hurt again. My second husband and i still have regular contact because of out kids. We get on now a lot better than we did. I have had several health issues of late and have been very down. My ex husband has been a great help and support to me. He has asked me to move back in with him when he moves to his new house, and i don't know what to do. I still have feelings for him, but am worried that we will slip back into the old routine of mistrust and arguments. What should I do????Please help!!!!!
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I would firstly work through yourself and work out what you do still feel towards him making sure that your feelings are straight and its not just the fact that you've failed at finding someone else to make you happy and he has been there throughout.
I believe that everybody (within certain reason) deserves a second chance but you need to sort your own issues out before you can even consider making a go of a relationship with your ex.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 Did you receive counselling after the breakdown of your first marriage? I don't know if there's any one particular thing that happened that led to the trust issues of your second marriage so I can only guess. Was it you who didn't trust your husband? If so, this is probably be a symptom from the first husband and these are issues you need to resolve before contemplating getting back with husband 2. If you go to a counsellor, they will help you work through this and you can thenm move onto a fulfilling relationship, whether with your husband or a new man in the future. Good luck.
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