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writes: Ok, my problem may seem silly, but was hoping for some advice..I met this guy online last week (he lives in my town) and we hit it off so well that we decided to go on a date, it went well, and so far we've seen each other 2 more nights this week already. The thing is that he is a great guy- sweet, funny, good job, nice looking...he texts me all the time and seems to like me a lot, and we get along really well. HOWEVER I feel no spark, no butterflies, I don't look forward to seeing him, and I don't really enjoy kissing him (his kissing is different than what i'm used to, but that's another story). Tomorrow he's going away for a week long break so I have a bit of time to decide whether to continue seeing him or not. My friends and my mum can't understand why I would feel this way as he is such a great guy, and I wonder myself if it's only because I've been under a lot of stress lately due to work, and also I may not be over a recent ex. I just don't know, I don't want to give up on this guy, but what if my feelings don't change?
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reader, agony ang +, writes (20 September 2006):
maybe you dont feel that way yet as you have not given the relationship any time or maybe your not ready for a relationship yet if you still have feelings for your ex! dont string the guy along tell him that your not looking for a serious partner. Feelings for your ex will get in the way of any feelings you have for a relationship. give yourself time and enjoy yourself. You will know when the time is right.
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reader, camille  +, writes (20 September 2006):
 If you think that you need butterflies and a spark and they're not there, it's going to cause you worry. But that's not always there from the start though, you could grow into this relationship if you genuinely like him. If you have recently broke up with someone, perhaps it is too soon. You only met him last week so maybe slow down. Kissing him already may not be the way forward. Take your time to get to know him properly. What's the rush?
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