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writes: i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around her friends she treats me different she swears she will change if we get back, but I am depressed and confused everything says walk away but i stress and am insecure about everything what to do.
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reader, Toria +, writes (29 September 2006):
 I've always believed that everyone within reason deserve a second chance, if they don't prove themselves that time then you know they never will as they've lost you once and it's not pushed them to actually follow through with changing to make the relationship work.
Only you know what you really want but if you still love her and want to be with her I would give her the chance to prove she feels the same and will make the changes needed to make you work.
Good luck :o)
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reader, fallenman  +, writes (29 September 2006):
 As a good rule never make a decision in a crisis. You could do well to look at what you think is triggering the depression, is it the hopelessness, anxiety, saddeness or a mixture. If they are only triggered by your relationship with this lady, then may be you should think about saying bye bye and moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2006): You say she acted differently towards you when you was around her friends.What about if you both agree to have your own time with your own group of friends.This will cut out some time that you would have to be around her friends.But if you have already tried this or it isnt praticle then give yourself some space to think over what you want and whether to carry on with the relationship.
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reader, camille +, writes (29 September 2006):
 I don't want to give a long reply as all I want to say is, listen to that voice inside. If everything is saying walk away, that's probably what you should do.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (29 September 2006):
 ah these situations are never easy, i suggest you tell her you need some time to yourself, and take a few weeks to get back on track with yourself, and start eating properly etc, then make your desision weather you want to get back together, you shouldnt make the desision while your in that state your in, have some time to yourself and think about stuff, will do you good. hope everything works out
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