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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

What are the chances he'll come back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked t...

My man's mega spend on liquor. How can I address this casually while still voicing my concerns?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My husband enjoys drinking beer and will have 3 cans most nights and more on the weekend. I have just discovered the supermarket has an offer on and he has went and bulk bought spending almost £350 on beer. I'm quite alarmed to the point of sic...

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she aske...

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that fee...

The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great fathe...

I've been on the couch for a week because wife goes through my account and sees things she doesn't like

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Ok, so a few years back, an old girlfriend looked me up on Facebook. At the time I didn't know how to not accept it. I just keep clicking "ignore". After about two weeks of clicking ignore, I got tired of the message always popping up so I accepted ...

I'm experiencing weird feelings towards a male married coworker! What does this mean and what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - This is going to sound bad probably but I need advice or someone's thoughts. I am married, I've been with my husband for a few years. We have had ups and downs like all marriages, though sometimes I wonder if we are suited to be together forever, we ...

How can I make him realize the amount of distance his lying is putting between us?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4269 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my husband for 19yrs. We have had our plights and problems. I left him about 5 yrs ago, for about 2 years, over a problem he covered up with a mountain of lies and betrayals. I continue to work with forgive and forget issues. He ...

Dealing with my wife's past...need help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

28 March 2013 (M) - I’ve been married for 6 months now and I have been with my wife for 1 ½ years. We are both Christians, but we met while we were in our previous marriages. I found out early in the relationship that she had an affair about 9 years earlier with a ...

My husband constantly criticises me. How can I get him to stop and show me more respect?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

27 March 2013 (F) - I have married and moved in with my husband within the past year. I'm finding he constantly criticises me, mimics what i say or actions i do (sneeze, cough). I'm nearly scared to speak. I've told him to cut it out but he just laughs says if I did ...

She's detached, doesn't like sex, won't work on counseling, doesn't want to split, I'm confused, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

27 March 2013 (M) - my wife has been detached for maybe past 3-4 years emotionally. She will not kiss me or when we have sex might as well be using a doctor scrub outfit. just very maybe agonizing for her, i ask her why and she says shes just very angry with me which ...

My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

26 March 2013 (M) - I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...

Can a man tell me what a lady needs to do for some steamy sex from her husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - I need direct, honest answers, preferably from men. I love my husband and don't plan to cheat or divorce. I find him extremely attractive and he shows me love via copious amounts of affection and support. Our sex life on the other hand, i...

How much do a woman's friends reflect who she is and her values?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - We had some issues a couple of years back when my wife thought about cheating on me. She never went with the other man but considered it. He worked hard to sleep with her and she lied to me about it all until I found out from others. This happened ...

My husband jacks off with other men!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - My husband jacks off with other men I just found out he has been doing this for years. I'm shocked to find this out. Even more shocking, are all the sites where married men communicate and set up times to jack off together. He says he will sto...

My husband won't allow my son to move in with us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am just one year and half in marriage. I actually told my husband that I had 2 kids for different men before we married. But now one of my kids dad has ask me to come and take my son to leave with me because his wife is maltreating my son. I told ...

Can you have sex without feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am super confused, please help me figure this one out! If a guy said he never had relationships with a girl, he only used her for sex, how in the name of everything that's good can it carry on for 2-3 months and no feelings whatsoever developed? ...

We both want to move to another country for a better life, but in order to do this she needs to work but she doesn't want to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

25 March 2013 (M) - i am working in a cruise ship. so i have to stay away from my family for every 9 months. i miss my family every time. i want my wife to work and take experience so that we both can migrate to any other country and earn better and have a better life ...

My husband lies a lot and I need help before it ruins our marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 5. About 2 years ago he told a really stupid lie and it took me a while to trust him. If a friend lies to me I completely cut them off but marriage is a life time commitment so ...

We have two young kids and my husband is hiding and deleting texts to a 17 year old girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I recently got in a fight. Hes a 26 year old man texting and messaging a 17 year old girl about our marriage problems, but that's not all. He was deleting their messages as if they were never even talking. I questioned him on it one ...

Is it reasonable for me to tell my wife to stop kissing other men on the lips?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

24 March 2013 (M) - I really do not like it when other men kiss my wife on the lips. These are friends - just 2 or so. They do it as a greeting, when, for example, we first meet up for the night, and then again when we say good bye. I am fairly certain it has nothing ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - Hey, just curious what it means of what my husband said; we have been married 15 years - last few years a bit shaky; suggests to me on a holiday when chilling out at a nude beach where we both went together that we should try a threesome and get ...

I'm a worried girl! Why is he trying this now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I'm married for over three years now. I'm having 2kids with my husband. My hubby doesn't stay with us, he travels for some months then come back but recently on his 3 consecutive visits, he started wanting to have Anal sex wit me though I hav always ...

Why would my man choose to have fake Facebook pages? He gets angry with me. I'm troubled by why he does this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I just got married last year but we had a long relationship before that. We are expecting our first child and everything seems to be great. The only thing I just can’t understand about him is that he keeps having fake Facebook acc...

This is my story of our relationship with NO love, only hate but no divorce/separation ? WHAT can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

23 March 2013 (M) - She doesn't love her husband anymore. She has two children in their early teens. Children at that age, sense that something is wrong. Their mother knows that and won't agree to separation and/or divorce as it may affect the children, emotionally,...

My parents seem to intensely dislike my wife. My wife does have some "issues". How can I make things better for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - Hi, My father and mother are not showing affection on myself since my marriage. They have misunderstanding with my wife in the years since my marriage Maybe a decade. I could not feel peaceful since I feel like my parents are against me and t...

Wife said she needed space. That was 4 years ago! Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - This is me and my wifes 2nd marriage, we've been together 22 years. married 13. when we met i was unfaithful, a couple of times freshly out of my first marriage by 3-5 months, kept going back sex only.\ now those transgressions are here was of 5...

How do I confess to my wife and my children that I have had countless affairs and 3 children came from these affairs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - im not in the best of health and im trying to find the lord and confess my sins. just not sure how to tell my wife who im separated from that i wasnt as innocent as she thought. we got married in the military had a son and daughter and i let her ...

I am very hurt and angry that my husband is looking at porn. Why does everyone think porn is ok?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I have been married for 4 months and moved across the country leaving my family and everything behind to be with my husband. I have no one out here but him and his family. I miss my family so much and cry quite a bit. My mother was molested b...

I can't accept that my husband was in prison for a sex crime but the families all give me a hard time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - I've been married 20 years, my husband has been a troubled person for the majority of those years, we now have 2 adult children. 6 years ago my husband was sentenced to 6 years in jail shortly after his conviction, I learned that he was doing time ...

He has become 'best friends' with a female co-worker, they text all the time and go to lunch together. If I get upset about it he calls me insecure, but don't I have a right to be in this situation?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3061 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married for six years and he has always had the same job.. Well recently he has started talking about a coworker all the time telling me how great she is. He goes to lunches with her alone and they text back and forth ...

Caught Him in the act. Now what?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - About 2 years ago I came home early and found my husband making out with her in my car in the driveway (we have a long country drive) He seemed devastated and vowed to go to therapy and never ever do that again. Found out at counseling it had ...

He left, and I am desperate to know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - So, for the past few months my husband and I have been having alot of problems. He has become very angry, to the point of verbal abuse and in his mind I am his enemy and at least every week he would blow up at me for some thing or another. Really ...

Men: Why is my husband watching porn that involves fat women over 60?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm married woman in my 30s and have a small son. Me and my husband watch porn together, but recently I found out that he is watching a different type of porn when I'm not around, it involves the opposite of me, women that are over 60 and fat. ...

I cheated with a married family friend and now feel crushed that he has ended things

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I made the bad decision to cheat on my husband but I don't know what makes me feel worse... The fact that I cheated or that the other guy broke it off because he doesn't want to hurt his wife. We are all very close and have been friends for years. ...

I don't want a divorce , so how do I stop my Husband from divorcing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - Im 23 from South Africa and currently seperated from my husband. He wants to get a divorce and I dont want to. Is there any way I can get him to go to counceling with me. We have a 1 year old baby and im 16 weeks pregnant. I love him and want us to ...

We have grown apart in our marriage. Should I leave? Have others done it and came out ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I am 38. I have been married for 14 years together 17. I have 3 children. I love my husband, I care for him but I'm not in love with him like I should be. I feel no attraction to him, have no desire and cannot give him affection. He is a good ...

I found out my husband is using porn and I don't like it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I have found out that my husband views internet porn a lot. I am so hurt by this. I work hard to stay attractive and am always ready to make love or be adventurous in bed w/him. He says It's no big deal, and It's the same as me using a vibrator. ...

Husband has been texting another woman 7 times a day then deleting them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4293 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - Hi is it normal for my husband to be texting a woman in the cafe where he goes? he is a lorry driver and stops in the cafe most but not everyday. i found out he has been texting her 7 times a day starting as early as 7am just after he leaves the ...

His snoring is keeping me from enjoying our bed with him and he has given up on his appearance. How do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - Hi, am 5 yrs into marraige and my husband started balding 2 yeses after our marraige. He also snores badly tht its difficult for me to sleep next to him. And fr so many years I have been trying to tell him tht he should do something about it. But he ...

Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) - TLDR; Attractive young woman got drunk, made overt moves on me and kissed my wife. What to do? This past weekend, my wife and I attended a party with a few friends as we try to do every other weekend. There has been a recent addition to ou...

I want to have an open marriage but don't know how to discuss it with my husband

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - I know I will probably hear a lot comments like just leave him, and find someone else. But that's not why I m telling you my story. The thing is that I am more and more think about having an open kind of relationship with my husband. I know ...

My American wife has accused me of getting married for a Green Card, what should I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

18 March 2013 (M) - 6 months ago , I got married to US citizen in Pakistan. We met through dating site and after four months she came to Pakistan to marry me. After honeymoon,once she got back to US, she filled Spouse Visa Petition for me. One month ago, we had a ...

Spends his money on gifts for himself before my Birthday and then he is broke

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - I know it is wrong to have expectations of one's spouse. I am a big believer in the philosophy that our expectations determine our own happiness. I am trying to work on myself when it comes to this concept and even my therapist agrees with me that ...

I'm married and a married hottie came onto me at work. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

18 March 2013 (M) - I work in the same company as this woman. Never really took any notice of her or talked to her, but I knew she was married. One day we found ourselves alone together and she made it plain she fancied me. In fact she put her hand on my thigh, I ...

Resentment getting the better of me- silent treatment from husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - Hi every love guru My husband and I fight alot. And while I am usually the one to hold my temper, last night got the better of me. I said some sad stuff- like would he be open to me seeing other people and I wished he were dead. Awful, I know, but ...

Lots of lies lots of cheating. Should we put our marriage back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4292 days ago

16 March 2013 (M) - I'll keep this short as I can. I'm married to a woman for 26 years. She walked out 4 years ago. She had been cheating for years before I found out. I tried to fix my end, doing anything and everything to get our marriage back, nothing helped. I...

Wife re-added her ex-boyfriend on facebook. What does it mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

16 March 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I would just like to know that what you guys make of when a wife adds her ex-boyfriend on birthday that some boyfriend that she used to say was not a good person and deleted him and now re-adding him saying he is a nice guy? When ...

Why is my wife loose now? Is it age, cheating, using toys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4290 days ago

15 March 2013 (M) - I met my wife six years ago, we started dating and our sexual life was great, she felt good and tight and was more active and I was told that sexually I was the first one..we then started a distance relationship like I was in another country and she ...

He's been deleting texts to his ex wife, and I've found out she is going to the same yoga studio as him.....should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4297 days ago

15 March 2013 (F) - Recently, I was on my husband and I'd ipad, and I noticed that his text messages were syncing with his phone under Messenger. I went to look at them, and noticed that his ex-wife sent him a few texts. Nothing was sexual or suggestive, but I could ...