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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

How men like making wives jealous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - This is trick of the mind.My male cousin has been cheating on his wife since time they've been married.We don't know what it is that he's telling her but shes posting things on fb to prove that their marriage is great.He don't tell us much but the ...

I want to spend my life with her, Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace.....

Any advice on how to help my daughter who is struggling to conceive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - please can anyone give me any advice of how I can help my daughter. She has been with her partner for 3 years and they have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, without success, her partner has had a semen test and it showed he had high velocity ...

Husband wants to have sex with other women and I'm about ready to end the marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - lets make this short and simple......... my husband wants to be intimate with other women. but he wants to be with me. (or so he says) i dont want him to sleep with any one but me. im 39 wks pregnant and it hurts to be intimate. we used to b...

What are the biggest reasons for divorce?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I was wondering what are the biggest reasons for divorce. Or I could call it cause for divorce. My husband is not intimate with me anymore, Is this very common after 20 something years of marriage? I know ,there are some marriage, what was ...

Could my husband really have went to a massage parlor and not have gotten hard?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Here is my dilemma with some background: I've been married almost 21 years. Late last year I had sex with someone else one time. Felt bad and my husband could tell so when he asked I confessed instead of lying. He promptly kicked me out. We ...

Should I find my wife a younger man to have sex with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - i have trouble having sex for sometime and now my wife is not interested in sex she says its the mediciene she is taking should i find her a younger man to have sex with to satisfy her needs she has been patient but im afraid she will want sex ...

Do any of you have this fantasy? Have you acted on it? Was it fun, or do you deeply regret it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have this recurring fantasy of me watching her get picked up by a guy at a bar or club and hooking up with him while I watch from across the room. The fantasy always stops short of sex, and never involves them leaving the bar, except ...

I can't get out of this affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love ...

Can happiness cover up the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - When your hubby is having an affair can you make it go away by letting everyone know that your happy and everything is perfect?...

Am I just being a prude getting uncomfortable hubbie's new obsession?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi! My husband and I have been married for 22 years and have a great sex life. Lately, he has been wanting to be in the same room as or have the possibility of having sex with another couple. He has been online searching and chatting with other ...

I need fashion help badly!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I have never been real fashion trendy. I guess you can say i am more of a tom boy. I have wanted to be more style trendy since mom family is but i guess it skipped me. I am married and money has been tight so i don"t buy clothes for me unless i...

Why on earth would a woman say something like that to her husband? Should I start playing the same game, to make her realize that I can stray if I am not getting what I want at home?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

27 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I are in our mid 40's and have been married a long time. Lately she has been changing quite a bit: working out a lot, getting botox, wearing revealing clothes out with ner girlfriends, communicating with guys she used to know from high ...

I get so tired of having to feel like a sneak like I just want people to know I have found someone else but its impossible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - am having an affair and need advice basically i am married 14 years to my wife I am 40 she is 39, we never had kids because she never wanted them at the time i thought it didn't matter because i was in love with her, i don't need children but about ...

He says no but my gut says yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Hello! I'm a female, 40 yrs old. I've been with my husband over 24 years, been married for 15 yrs. There's NEVER been anyone in between, for him or I, I know. However, bout 2 n a half years ago, a problem arose. It was my fault. It has nothing to do ...

Why does my husband like to mentally undress my female unattractive friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My husband has admitted that he likes to undress my female friend whom we have met on two occasions, mentally in his mind. However, he claimed that he doesn't find her attractive and is not fantasizing about having sex with her but merely her figure ...

How do I know if her emotional affair got physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - I think I am ready for a divorce. It has been 15 months since I found about my wife's affair. She was having an affair with my little cousin brother/best friend. He is married also with one child. We have three children, and have been married ...

Why wont my husband have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - i am married and have been for 8yrs me and my husband has not had sex for 2yrs. he is 56 and i am 49 for some reason i dont know why he wont have sex with me and i have asked him if it is me and he says no he just says it is him...

Should I be suspicious of my ex husband and our mutual friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I separated 3 months ago. He thinks I cheated on him, which I did not. And this is still something we are trying to work through. We have some mutual friends and it has been kind of awkward trying to remain friends with them. And he ...

Caught my husband looking at she-male porn, and he has had unusual sexual preferences in the past...what does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I just caught my husband of three years looking at she-male porn. When I walked into the room, he closed down the page quickly and deleted the cookies, but I still saw what he was doing. It's not the first time he has done it - he's done it several ...

My husband blames stress for the cold sore on his lip but it seems highly doubtful, given his closeness with his co-worker. What do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I need some advise on cold sores. (Okay, let's call them what they really are Herpes.) I have been with my husband for 7 years and not once has he ever had one. But then about a year ago a younger woman got a job at his office. I didn't worry about ...

Sexless marriage after 27 years, how can I change this hopeless situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - Im not sure how can I stay in this marriage. It's a shame, but now it is now, 100% sexless. After 27 years. The sad thing is that he used to be very sexual and now he never even looks at me. He has problems getting an erection long time ago, but ...

My wife agreed to introduce this third woman into our sex life to spice things up, but now I have feelings for her. My insecure wife is fine with other women but not this one, why doesn't she want me to be happy?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

22 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married 14 years. Pregnant at 17 but in love at the time. Because of the diffucultys of being young parents we went through a lot of struggles. I feel this had a registering effect on some of our marriage because of the ...

Caught mid kiss, now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I went away recently to visit some family, my nans brother and his step daughter / her husband. We are all very good friends and have met several times before this visit. However this time was different, it started the same as always, meet up as I ...

What advice can you give me to help with this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - I need to understand why my husband lies about stupid things... I've asked him not to look up porn on my contract phone and he did it repeatedly and when busted he lied and said he didn't look it up... I told him if he wants to watch porn then we ...

We are separted, he thinks I cheated. I want to send him a birthday card. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I are separated for the last 2months. We had a lot of issues going into this, but the main issue now is he thinks I cheated on him. I want to try and work things out with him, and in the beginning he said he did too, but I am not so ...

Is this an unforgivable mistake? Should I believe nothing happened between my husband and the other woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years and married 7 this year. We started dating when i was 15. My Husband is my best friend and love of my life. Until Nov. of last year our marriage was great really. We had our fights and my husband w...

We've been married for 10 years but I fantasize about making love with another woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (M) - Do i love my wife? We're married for five years but no one knows i have a fantasy about making love with another woman! WHat should i do? I don't want to get divorced!...

For 20 years he has tried to take over all my friendships and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - My husband tries to take over all my friendships with friends and family he acts overly nice and feel like he is rally fake when he is doing this he has done this to me all the time we have been together 20 yrs. what is wrong with him he doesn't ...

My wife wants the woman I cheated with to tell her about things before she can let it go!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

19 March 2012 (M) - hi there i had an affair 11 years ago and my wife found out 14 months ago .The affair lasted 2 a half years and my wife was devastated i have tried every thing possible to win her back.we have been on holidays i buy her flowers all the time and ...

I'm sexually attracted to the neighbor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

17 March 2012 (F) - advice.... please, attraction and lust for my nabor and im married,i dont know what to do i turn into a horny school girl when i see him and when he call our phone asking for my husband i float on cloud 9....... sometimes when my husbands not in ...

I'm 26 and my husband is looking for younger women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 March 2012 (F) - I thought I forgot about my husband, maybe ex husband hasn't divorced yet. So technically not yet. I am not into divorce and I think that marriage should be sacred that is probably why I'm still pushing and hoping that we can still get back together...

Cheating husband says I am violating his privacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F) - Hello all. My marriage has been having its fair share of problems but have been working on it. I have caught my husband twice cheating on me previously and just found out he's at it again. I wouldn't say I'm still in love with him as my feelings ...

Is it a red flag if husband is facebook requesting a hot chick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

16 March 2012 (F) - My husband has friend request some hot chick on fb; she has big boobs- very provacative looking, has pictures of herself "says for modeling " they look like pictures you would see in playboy ect. I haven't seen any comunication between them- but ...

Why couldn't I love the man who loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I have divorced my husband 2 years back. I often used to wonder why i left my exhusband in the first place. He doesnt earn much other than that he is a good person at heart and he still loves me and wants me back. I know he is very ...

He is not listening to me. What I want now is his affection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I have participated in swinging, mostly me having encounters with other me and occasionally girls. My husband would get turned on by putting craigslist ads and inviting young men over and single women or couples to come over. It would ...

I don't want to because his ex did!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - i know that this may seem strange but im a jealous person and anyway my hubby ask me to give him blowjobs when im on my period and ive done it once but i just cant seem to do it anymore because his ex wife used to do that for him and blowjobs in the ...

So many problems in our marriage and a husband unwilling to work on anything, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - I have been married 15 years now and i will be the first to admit i was most of the problem in the marriage due to bi polar and low self esteem but my husband has made it tricky too because he suffers from what they call sexual anorexia. i know ...

I feel like I'm a bad wife because I don't like giving him blowjobs, what can I do to stop being disgusted by them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - Hi, Im 24 years old and newly married for 9 months. Our sex life has been great except that my husband really likes for me to give him blow jobs, but no matter how hard i try i feel disgusted to do so.I think the taste/smell is what puts me off.I ...

He had sex with his ex....we were seperated but neither of us had filed for divorce, so did he cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I were separated for a year. After the first 6 months we started to talk and go out to dinner and such. We do have a daughter together and we were only married a little over a year when we separated. We worked on things and he had ...

Married women: what could your hubby do to rekindle the fire of your attraction and affection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (M) - A question for the married women: what could your husband do to spark a fire of romance, excitement, strong feelings of love or attachment? I feel like my wife is drifting away. What things can I do to rekindle her interest, return that warm glow ...

My husband just up and left and told me to keep my rings and don't date. HUH?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - ive been with my husband off and on for 5yrs 8months married and he left last week while i was at work and only took a few outfits. yes we argued but that is normal especially when i was the only one working and trying to pay for everything and take ...

Why cant my husband forgive me for lying about fiancial matters? I have been a devoted wife in every other way!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - I lied to my husband of 7 years about bills I was paying for my adult/college daugther (her car payment and cell phone)who is 1000 miles away from home,and credit cards I had that I paid for my husband found out and now it has turned into all out ...

I'm still in love with the man I had an affair with. How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - Well I had been married for 15yrs before I had my affair last summer 2011. It has been so long ago that I felt any sort of connection other than friendship with my husband. I have always had to deal with mental abuse from my in laws and my husband ...

I would like my wife to share my sexual views

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

13 March 2012 (M) - I am a 45yr old male and think my my wife is not into sex. When we have sex its like a scheduled event and if I can not preform right, she says its ok maby next time.I am very sexual and like alot of stimulation in all my private parts but she will ...

We get along great outside of the bedroom, but she doesn't want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

12 March 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 20 years. Ever since we have had kids she gives them 100% the attention,(great Mom). Sex was good, once a week the ritual Sunday morning.lol. Then it just stopped, we seperated for 6 months about 10 years ago. We ...

My husband cant have sex with me so I found a lover, but now I have lost him too! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - FOur years down the married lane, I am still remain untouched by my husband. He has a medical condition of low testosterone, low libido, that is under treatment...and might take longer for him to actually sexually function. He has been loving, ...

Do women just naturally need or want less from their marriages as they get older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 March 2012 (M) - Do women in their mid-40's just naturally start reverting back to who they were before marriage? My wife and I have been togethernfor many years. It was always me and her, the two of us together, no matter what. However, now that our kids are a l...

He tried to cheat with my best friend now he's after his ex again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - Number 1 is what happened to me in 2010. Number 2 is what is currently happening. Please Help !! 1) Okay so my situation is really weird. I met this guy who is now my husband on May 26th 2009. That same year in August I lost my virginity to hi...

My wife was turned on by sexy pole dancers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

11 March 2012 (M) - We have been married for almost 9 years and have had a good sexual life. Recently in one of our trips abroad we went to an all girl strip tease/ pole dance show together and I really enjoyed it. What I found surprising is that even my wife really ...