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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Trouble with my spouse and I am suffering greatly. How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - i have been married for almost 2 years i have been with my spouse for 5 years ,he lies about alot of little sometimes big things every time he leaves me he either comes back 1 month or days later or i look for him i have a child she is 13 ,not ...

I'm 24 and have been married 2 weeks. My husband (28) has just taken a lover who is 64!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I'm 24, and have just got married to my new husband who's 28. Recently he went on a business trip for a few days, or so it seemed, until a good friend (female) had told me she'd seen him with his lover. I thought that was bad enough - se...

Is my husband cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - Is my husband cheating? I say yes but I want you to confirm or give me a better explanation My cell phone bill included a list of calls I confronted my husband because the person text messaged claiming saying I love you he said that he d...

We are married but have been living apart for 4 years, and no sex for 3 years, does he still love me!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I'm confused. I love my husband but I'm not sure if he loves me anymore. He prefers we live apart because he says at the moment we can't afford to live together. we have a child together but I have be like a single parent. I want a divorce but...

I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...

Im having an affair, I love her not my wife, cant break free, what should I do ?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - Life is in a mess. I have to choose between my wife and my outside child's mother. I have two kids with my wife - 2 year old (outside child same age)and a 3 month old. Have a great family life. But Outside woman just does the trick for me. I am so ...

Worried that his loss of erection is due to not fancying me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 38 yrs old and my husband is 42. We have been happily married for 15yrs and have always had an excellent sexual relationship. Recently, he has been too tired for sex, and he makes sex seem like a chore. A few times, he lost his erectio...

He acts as though hes not getting his moneys worth out of me!! Every night there is something to complain about! Should I record him to make him see!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - Today I woke up at 8;00, drove to another city (20 min.) for a chiro appointment (1/2 hour) returned home (20.min.), picked up documents and drove to another city (20 min.), saw my banker for a wire transfer (20 min.), drove back to pick up my dog ...

How do I tell my husband that after 3 kids...I am pregnant again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - im 30 odd and ive had 3 kids i decided i was done with mothering but yesterday i was late, so i went to the store and bought a test and it was positive. however i made a big fuss over not getting pregnant again. how do i tell my husband with out ...

We're married with a baby and she's worried that 'something' could go wrong. Is she just stressed with family life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - Ok I'm not quite sure how to word this, its not exactly a relationship problem in fact probably the total opposite. Well me and my wife have been married 7 yrs and together since college i know shes been though alot, recently with her life and stuff ...

My hubby and a work colleague email explicit notes and photos to each other! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - I have a serious problem with my husband, can't talk to my family or friends as I feel too ashamed. My husband has been texting and calling this old work collegue of his for over two years now...things have now progressed to a very intimate state ...

Just married last year and he loves me so much. But I don't think I love him! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - Im 20 and I got married last year and I don't think I love him anymore his family is amazing and I knoe he loves me so much but I just dont love him as a husband what can I do?...

I've lost all confidence when it comes to sex, been together 9 yrs and in a rut!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6446 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - i've been wi my partner for 9 yrs and we have a 5 yr old daughter, i am really insecure even though i am attractive and can attract many men. i jus don't have the confidence to be sexy around him. we have got into a rut an rarely have sex or a laugh ...

My husband and I have different careers, his will take him away, Ive found a distraction (maybe even back up plan) what should I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - I love my husband very much and I've been longing for the day we can be together (We're currently working in different cities ... for another 2 months). Last month, I was switched to a different project and took on different role. I love th...

Married and I was his 'first' everything! Now porn has made problems in our marriage! What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I am glad i found this site and hope for some helpful advice. I cant talk to friends or family because I FEEL like an idiot! I have been married for 11 years to a man i thought and everyone else thought was terrific, till Jan of this year, when i f...

I sex talk with a guy online and it's really spiced up things with my hubby! Is this considered cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I have the instant messenger thing and I have all my friends on there. I’ve made some new ones and there’s this one guy that w/in the past month or so we have been talking on a regular schedule. Im married and he’s married and we both talk about how ...

I have 4 kids--should I stay with hubby for their sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6447 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - My husband doesnt take me seriously. I mean im bored the point is we have four children he works days and i work nights but only untill 10 oclock. We have only been married for three and half years hense my two eldest children are from a previous ...

Husband thinks an old bf is seeing me and now I worry, he'll stray on me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - Me and my husband we don't talk to each other, because of the email he found in my cellphone from ex-boyfriend telling me how much he love me. My husband he thinks that I still see the guy somewhere.I don't know what to say to him to make him beli...

My husband is not willing to change things to make his future more secure. Why is he this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I have been married now for eleven years. It's not a bad marriage, but we have our problems like everybody else. My husband has always worked in factories as an unskilled labourer. He is concerned that this may not be a long-term job option for ...

My husband has been seeing prostitutes behind my back!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hi, Just found out after 30 years of marriage hubby has been using prostitutes for 4 years behind my back, I had no idea, none whatsoever and I feel such a fool, he is begging for me to stay and work this out but I feel it is so hard to forgive ...

My husband changed his mind about kids and says to wait 5 years for him to decide! What if he decides "no"?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Before my husband and I got married, we decided we didn't want to have children. Then last fall I ended up getting pregnant even though I was on birth control. We both decided we were going to keep the baby and were even pretty excited about it - ...

I gave this married man the brush off! Did he think I was some kind of psychopath for being so cold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - just want to get a certain situation of my chest. had a major crush on a guy at work, who's married, for 5 years. He is about 30 years older than me but very, very handsome for his age and very suave and sophisticated. He started off teasing me c...

I'm becoming very negative about my marriage, and feel my wife is just a taker! I owe it to myself to get out dont I!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - In the beginning, please note that this is the very first time ever that I write about my marriage or talk about it with anyone. I am 45 and she is 43 and we’ve got four marvellous children. During our 19 years of marriage and 23 years of knowing...

Do you think I could chang my wifes mindset about sex ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - My wife and I have different attitudes towards sex.... I would do it all the time, when I do it I think of it and when I don't... I think of it even more. She is more settled. We go along together, anyway. Sometimes we quarrel a bit for this, bu...

Should I backpack to the far east or stay and deal with my marriage problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Hi. I am 34 my wife 44. Been together for 10 years and not had an argument until about 6 months ago. I am stepfather to her 5 teenage kids.Both work full time. She finishes at midnight. I try and stay up til half one to be with her and get 4 hrs ...

Is it possible he's just become too afraid to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My husband of a year and a half has just admitted to me that he feels like he doesn't love me anymore, and hasn't for quite some time. He said he feels like he's been pretending all this time. I feel like he is rushing towards divorce much too fast, ...

My husband of 10 years doesn't kiss me properly and always avoids it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - MY husband of 10 years doesnt kiss me properly and has always avoided it, he says he finds it disgusting yet he enjoys sex very much?, i cant get any answers re; this from him we always fight about it because i think something is not right. Any ...

His son who no longer lives with us broke into our house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - My husband of six years has two teenage sons (who do not live with us), one of whom has been mostly trouble since day one. My husband has never disciplined his kids or made them accountable for their mis-deeds, and now the troublesome 17 year-old ...

My wife is very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - I have been married for 16 year. Several years ago my wife started on line gaming. She got very involved in league play and developed a world of on line friendships. This cause much upheaval in our life when she started spending 6 to 10 hours a day ...

How do I talk to my husband about our marriage problems without relying on counseling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - My husband and I separated 1 month ago. He left and set up a new home without much warning. We have 2 children. According to him there is noone else on his side and there is definitely noone else on my side. I want to try marriage counsell...

I cant imagine life without either of them!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - I have been very happily married to my husband for 10 years but I also have feelings for my 6 years younger brother in law. My husband has two brothers and I get on very well with them both but I have developed strong feelings over a period of time ...

Married with 5 kids! I'm so stressed because I feel trapped in my life. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - I am looking for some advice I feel so trapped in my life i am married with five children. I love my husband deeply as he does me. I spend all of my life cleaning my house I could spend all week in the house and no one would care. My kids just ...

I have this attitude that marriage is war! Why do I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

24 March 2007 (M) - Why do i feel before getting married that i am going to enter a war and that i have to be prepared with weapons of arguments i can use against the person i will be getting married to. This will ensure that i establish a supremacy over her for her ...

Does she just want the 'wife tag'??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

23 March 2007 (M) - Hi Cupid, I recently moved in with my wife who was distant until now, she is a very matured woman and lives life practically and her life is very mechanical. I am still looking out for jobs and when we meet in the evening she does not even kiss me ...

I need some excitement ibn my life...and am looking at my sisters husband!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - My name is Helen. I'm married with 2 kids, but I'm feeling a little unhappy lately. My husband is a migrant (from Lebanon) and lately I don't feel like we have much in common. He doesn't really challenge me enough intellectually, and sexually things ...

All of a sudden I am attracted to these other men when all I want is a family with my husband! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I am 28, married two years to a wonderful man that I've been with for nearly 12 years. However, for the last 10 months I've found myself easily attracted to other men. I've never had this before, no-one has ever managed to attract my attention. But ...

He wants to leave his wife for me, and me to leave my husband... But I'm not ready!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

22 March 2007 (F) - i'm a married woman who met a nice man last year at a conference. the sex was great now i think he is falling in love with me. he wants to live his wife for me but i'm not ready and i don't want to leave my husband and kids. i'm still having sex ...

I'm 21, married 2 years but I'm wondering about life as a single woman but I don't want to make the biggest mistake of my life by leaving! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

22 March 2007 (F) - I'm 21 and have been married for almost 2 years. My problem is that on a daily basis I think about how my life would be if I were single (which I haven't been since I was 15). My husband is the second man I've ever been with and we began dating ...

How do I explain to my wife (whom I love dearly) that I want to go to a dominatrix?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

22 March 2007 (M) - For some time now I have been very interested in visiting a Dominatrix. However, before i can even seriously consider this, there are a number of issues to consider first, the one most importantly being having a discussion with my wife and getting...

I'm a new wife and Mother but I'm so unhappy with a controlling husband! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

22 March 2007 (F) - hi , im a new wife , ive only been married about a year now , im also a new mother , i got married when i was 6 months pregnant , at the time it seemed like the right thing to do , i really did think i loved him , which i do , just not in love , any ...

How can I get my husband to get some passion for life and stop being so lazy!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 March 2007 (F) - I can’t stand being the man of the house or the mother hen anymore. I just can’t! I’m tired of working and making more money than my husband. I pay the bills, I do all the leagal stuff, I do the house work – I just don’t see my husband improving in ...

My affair left me an emotional wreck! Should I go back to my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

20 March 2007 (F) - im in trouble!! and need advice..i met this guy at work and i felt really close to him and admire him when he told me how he treat his wife and on the other hand he admire me because i am a very good wife/mother and had a very succesesful career, ...

Out of the blue my husband of 12 years has told me hes not sure he wants to be with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6455 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - M husband of 12 years has just said out of the blue that her needs some space and he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore, he says he still loves me but not in the same way. He has only had these feelings for a few weeks and yesterday he ...

I have recently become confused about my sexuality even though I'm Married. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I have been married for 8 years and have recently become confused about my sexuality I have children and don't want to hurt them or my husband but my life is spiraling out of control and I can't cope much longer please help me. ...

I can see my Husband has changed, but I have met another guy, do I try counselling with him, or make a go with the new guy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - I was married for two years and have been separated for five months. My husband was verbally abusive and has anger issues, when I left the relationship I was very unhappy, to the point of being depressed. He was also very unhappy. During our ...

Im so very tempted to have an affair as I feel so lonely in my marriage, does this make sense to anyone ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - Hi I am really tempted to have an affair, I don't want to do it I feel so lonely does this make sense to anyone out there. I have tried everything to put the spark back into my marriage and nothing has worked. I have tried talking to my husband ...

My husband of just a couple of months is behaving unreasonably jealous all the time and its causing the marriage to go downhill!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for a couple months already we are having problems. He is getting way too jealous and I am not guilty for any of the things he is jealous about. I don't know what to do our marriage is going down hill and I try ...

Should I move on with my life or hang around a little longer hoping he may still change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with someone for 18 years. We have lived together that long. We have two children. I have always loved him, but, he has never worried about what makes me happy. I have tried in the past to talk to him about it but he ...

My husband always spits in my face!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

18 March 2007 (F) - I have been married for 16 yrs now. I am 35 and my husband is 37, My problem is that from the very beginning of our relationship my partner goes to far with insults, He has told me for 17 yrs now that I forced him into marriage or that he felt sorry ...

I have been married for nearly 2 years now and my husband and I are having a lot of problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

17 March 2007 (F) - I have been married for nearly 2 years now and my husband and I are having a lot of problems. He keeps saying that I should behave like a wife and when I ask him what I am doing wrong he doesn't tell me and there are so many other issues too wher...