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writes: im in trouble!! and need advice..i met this guy at work and i felt really close to him and admire him when he told me how he treat his wife and on the other hand he admire me because i am a very good wife/mother and had a very succesesful career, trouble is wemy husband,him,and me work at the same place...and we started having an affair ..and emotional and intimate one..then suddenly one day as i wanted to end our relationship, he told me he felt so guilty about the whole things and left me really hurt ...worst than that after we broke up 2 month later i try to get on with myself and enjoy myself i broke up with my husband at the same time cause he treat me real bad ..i felt like he jealous and before we know it we back together and i felt ever so close to him ..and suddenly again a week later he been so cold and ignore me and once i confront him he said he felt so guilty being around my husband and can not lead a double life..but hey i never ask for commitment and tell him to leave his wife...so i end the relationship...and i felt so emotional wreck this time..what can i do i don't want to go back to him again because of work is real hard? should i go back to my husband?
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (21 March 2007):
you say you were a good wife and mother yet you broke up your marriage and family, how is that remotely possible?
i say you leave your husband for good and let him find someone who can be honest and faithfull and commited, who knows what marriage actually means.
the reason this other guy keeps comming back then going is because is because he enjoys the fun u give but feels GUILT about his wife.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (21 March 2007):
 You were obviously not happy with your husband in the first place so why go back to him? I suggest you take some time to think what you really want in a relationship and learn to love yourself and become emotionally independent. Having affairs is wrong so somewhere you lost your principles and values. Take your time to redefine them and set goals for a future relationship. When you're ready then start dating with a view to long term commitment. And make sure the man is single and available.Take care.
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