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He wants to leave his wife for me, and me to leave my husband... But I'm not ready!

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Question - (22 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2008)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i'm a married woman who met a nice man last year at a conference. the sex was great now i think he is falling in love with me. he wants to live his wife for me but i'm not ready and i don't want to leave my husband and kids. i'm still having sex with him.i've tried to end it but he won't let go.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008):

I agree with the two above responses. End it now with him if you dont love him and its just for the sex its so not worth it. The longer your together with him the more hell fall in love with you and the harder it will get.

Good Luck

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2007):

i think you made the desicion to leave your husband and kids when you started cheating on them. your staying with them purely for selfish reasons.

blaming the other man for the continuation of the affair is wrong too, if you really wanted it stopped and to save your marriage you would of done it.

get a back bone and be honest to yourself and your family and end the lies. leave them or leave the affair.. either way make sure you tell your husband the 100% truth and no more lies

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007):

Dear anonymous writer,

If you dont want to be with this man and you want to stay with your husband and kids then just come out and tell him that you dont want to see him no more that you dont want to leave your kids...and stop having sex with this man, dont let a guy break up something good in your life it is not worth it, there is so many things that can happen if you two get cought and you will everyone who cheats gets cought so just end it now that way you can tell your husband and try to work it out with him befor it is to late!

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