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writes:I have a serious problem with my husband, can't talk to my family or friends as I feel too ashamed. My husband has been texting and calling this old work collegue of his for over two years now...things have now progressed to a very intimate state of texting and I'm worried. I have occasionally looked at this mobile phone and have indeed found very distasteful content on it. Their now sending explict photos to each other. He has no idea I know this is going on..we also have a beautiful child and I dont know what to do. I cry myself to sleep most nights knowing whats about to take place and its just eating me up inside... what do I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): You have to tell him that you know all about this and you are not putting up with it any longer. Personally i would want him out of my life! That is cheating! Have a chat to him and let him know just what you know and how you feel about it all but please do not put up with it. You have a life and deserve better.
Take care and keep in touch.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Hello there
What an awful situation to be in. Your husband is cheating on you, maybe not physically but emotionally and mentally.
You need to confront your husband and tell him that you know what he is doing and you want him to stop. Tell him you know it's been going on a long time and ask him how he could do this to you.
If he refuses to stop doing this then I would look at ways in which you could get out of this relationship, at the moment he's having the best of both worlds while your miserable and crying yourself to sleep.
You really need to have this out with him and tell him all that you know.
Let me know how this goes and if there's anything else i can do to help.
Good Luck
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