A
female
age
51-59,
*itty1
writes:M husband of 12 years has just said out of the blue that her needs some space and he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore, he says he still loves me but not in the same way. He has only had these feelings for a few weeks and yesterday he just turned 40, he hates his job.What should I do?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 March 2007):
 Hi,
I just found the book so I though I'd better give you the whole, correct title:
Gail Sheehy
UNDERSTANDING MEN'S PASSAGES
Discovering the New Map Of Men's Lives
You could probably find a used copy on the net,
Best of LucK,
Birdynumnums
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (19 March 2007):
It's really hard to know why he has said this, but you need more information. Drag him to a marriage councellor before he has a chance to say no. He could be mildly depressed if he is approaching middle-age, it could be his job or it could even be health related. If he hasn't seen a physician lately - he should. I wish I could be more help, but I highly recommend Gail Sheehey's "The Male Menopause". Although I bought several books on female age problems, this was the only book that I read cover to cover. It really helped me understand some of the crisis that men go through at mid-life. Take Care.
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