A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi Cupid,I recently moved in with my wife who was distant until now, she is a very matured woman and lives life practically and her life is very mechanical. I am still looking out for jobs and when we meet in the evening she does not even kiss me properly, I am having a feeling that my wife needs me just for the wife tag,she has lived a single life for long now.Please advice, I am having sleepless night and i really don't want to start hating her, cause i really love her a lot and want lead a good life with her. I am very scared of what she is thinking about or about things i don't know. I am very deppressed at the moment. pdg..
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reader, nologo  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Two possible explanations for you to think of.
For some people it is difficult to express their emotions out at all.
If this is her case, don't worry, you will lead a good life with her eventually.
Another one: she treats you like this, because she wants you to do something.
You are still looking out for jobs, I guess that may be the reason.
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reader, Dr.Palmer  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 Hello,
Confront your wife and see what she says.
It could be she feel's you don't give her enough attention.
It could be she is afraid of something or she is worrying about something.
This happened to me once and I took my wife out to a nice restaurant, I did not splash out 100's of pounds, I spend a good 60 quid, And we had a meal and wine, With nice music in the background.
And just talk to her about how she has been today, If anything is worrying her etc.
I think it will work out, If not just PM me.
Thanks.
Dr.Palmer.
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