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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I have been married for a couple months already we are having problems. He is getting way too jealous and I am not guilty for any of the things he is jealous about. I don't know what to do our marriage is going down hill and I try with him but my efforts seem to be going no where. Even yesterday we went out and he yelled at me in front of people in the store and the day before that as well. I talked to him so many times about our relationship but its like its not getting through to him. There is a child involved and I don't know what to do. I want to leave him but right now I can't afford to because I'm in school and am unable to work full time to support my child. What should I do? HELP!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 What sort of things does he get jealous about? Has he always been this way or has he got worse since you've been married?
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Its always difficult to make decisions when a child is involved in a relationship. Basically you're torn between making the right choice and doing whats best. However, for your own sanity and dare I go to the extreme, safety even, you need to really think about where you're heading with this guy. You shouldnt have to subject yourself to something you dont want to do or someone you dont want to be with if you dont!! Its not fair that you have to think of the child and act sensibly when he can rage like a green eyed monster everytime he feels like it, without giving even a consideration of thought in compromising to make things work. Theres only so much one can take and Im sure you're close to breaking point. I say leave if you must. You could always get your parents or friends to help out with looking after your child whilst you try to get a part time job. Yes, it might be hard if you go your own ways, but its nothing you can't manage!! There are loads of single mums out there who has brought up good and obedient children, in their darkest hours. Like I said, I understand its not something thats easy to do, but there are so many other things that are worst off. Theres always a way out if you really look hard enough. I can see where and how you're confused, and as much advice we can give to you, the ultimate getting down to it is entirely up to you!
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