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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

This is not your typical FWB situation... I'm in desperate need of advice and insight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Well, it all started a few years ago when I met this guy. We became instant friends and we have been really close ever since we met. Since we met we have almost been inseperable. Sure, we've had our fall outs, but what longterm friendship wouldn't? ...

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentin...

Boyfriend doesn't need me as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I chat online everyday, but sometimes work gets in the way, and days go by. My boyfriend rarely uses his phone, and he doesnt like texting me often, because we're LDR and its expensive for him, though I've offered to help pay. ...

He bought a car instead of traveling to see me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for four years and it has been hard.seeing each other is always difficult because of money but I'm mostly the one who goes home. A few months back we had planned to see each other but couldn't because of ...

I have noticed some changes in her, what could be the reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I met her in the internet since 10 months ago , we live so far away from each others , we clicked so fast , and we felt we should meet up , prior to that we felt love but we wanted to see if that's real or not , we met after 3 months of chatting in ...

I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he ...

Should I be worried by his behaviour when he is back in his home town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about three months now. We're in a long distance relationship but we see each other fairly often, usually for weekends. I have just spent two weeks with him (he came to my town and lived in my apartment for that ...

Has anyone else ever experienced this? Any ideas what it could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, seeing each other every couple weeks, so I go long periods w/o sex. I saw him yesterday and we had sex a couple times and it hurt a lot. I was wet enough and I gave him a bj to make getting ...

Has anybody else dealt with feelings of resentment? What did you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I travel a lot for work, and for the last few months when I return from a trip, instead of enjoying each other's company after the long break, we seem to just be arguing. I think the troubl...

Coping long distance... can it be done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Please help! I dont know what to do. My partner and i love each other very much, we have a beautiful little girl together and when we are together life is just perfect. The problem is the past 1 out of our 4 years together has been long distance. I ...

She loved me first then she says she has no feelings but she cares about me so much....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - Hello, this is my first time asking a question like this. I mostly like to deal with my problems on my own but this time I need some help. I hope some of you read this and give me some advice. 5 months ago I've met with a foreign girl on a meetin...

I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet another girl at university. How can I be more confident, and overcome the unease/trust issues that distance brings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in an LDR and my boyfriend is going into first year university next year at a specialized school for people who share his talents and interests. We are very different, the whole "opposites attract" idea. I am worried he will find a girl...

He Won't Add Me On FaceBook. (Un-Contactable)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - My friend G hosted a Beach Party There's this guy named K whom I met there. He took the initiative to talk to me and there was lots of obvious signs that he likes me (E.g. Teasing, Chasing each other at the beach, Throwing stuff) From ...

Why does my BF says he misses me but makes no effort to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - hey guys, on the weekends usually my partner and i will see each other on either a friday and saturday or a sat and sunday. tonight (fri) he decided to hang with his friends. around 10pm tonight he msged asking what i was up to and said he was...

He said he was going away for a few weeks, now it has been 4 months! Should I wait or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Help me! my boyfriend has been away on a so called business trip for four months now(South America).When he left,he said it will only be three weeks.We have a child together( eleven months old)he hasnt sent any help finacialy since he left,he phones ...

My boyfriend says he is getting divorced but his soon-to-be ex wife just moved back in, should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Hi. Some background 1st, I guess would be helpful. I'm 25, my BF is 41 and his "soon to be" ex wife is 35ish. (Not real sure) Anyway they were together 8yrs and have 2 younger kids together (6 and 10). We have been dating just over 6months now ...

He stopped texting, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - I met this guy at a gig a couple of weeks ago and we really really hit it off that night but the thing is that we live miles apart with a small stretch of water between us and hes 26 and im 18, we have been texting non stop for a week and he ...

Should I let him go, or change like he has asked me to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - I've following your website for quite sometime now and honestly I could relate in anyways. I have problem myself regarding my long time relationship. It's been making me confuse on what to do. My boyfriend has been showing signs of coldness ...

I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....

I don't want to lose my boyfriend or my baby! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - Hi,well i have been in relationship with a guy for 9 months we get on well we are a 4 hour drive away .Usually we take turns in who goes to who's place and now ive messed up BIG TIME.im 24 he is 36 and a great guy i mean it he even comes to my place ...

We live 700 miles apart, could this ever work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

22 June 2011 (M) - Um I don't know how to start this. I met this girl on an online chat website.. I'm sure everyone has heard of this online chat website. Anyhow we really like each other now. I tell her I love her all the time and we never run out of things to talk ...

We cant see each other for another 10 months, can you even call this a relationship anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - i am in a ldr as well as committed relation since two years. Recently my bf came to visit me and he said that this is the last visit of this year!He just met me once in this year. He stays 1800 miles away and does not have that much finance t...

I thought he was the perfect guy but all his excuses are making me doubt that.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3yrs., we met on a dating site, he lives about 3hrs., away from me. The question is 1. He always has an excuses for not visiting on holidays(says he dosen't like to drive on holidays, its too ...

It sucks that I can't be friends with my boyfriend's friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been struggling with a question and need to hear some opinions from others. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a good number of years. Four years ago, he started a job in a different country (halfway across ...

How do I ask her out for a September date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she ...

I'm in Hon Kong and he is in Canada. I need some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I met someone on a chat room in October 2010, we started go on Skype date a lot, it was very fun to talk to him, I knew he was the right one I wanted-we are so alike and we have got loads of interests in common. We def. are something more than ...

My boyfriend is loyal, but looks at porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I recently discovered my boyfriend looks at pornography through an accidental slip on his part. He is not aware that I know. We were friends when we lived in the same city, and become a couple after he moved away.Because of the distance, we hav...

Do you think there is someone else and he is too gutless to tell me? Is that why he has withdrawn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hey There I am having a problem wih my LDR. Its been a year now and we were all guud up until march of this year. He started to withdraw from me and we stopped talking everyday how we used too. We fight a lot coz I cant take the emotional abuse ...

My boyfriend is calling me over possesive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since two years. my bf calls me over over and over possesive but i think i am just being possesive. Few months back one of my bf's female friend proposed him. She has mixed feelings for my bf and i really d...

Is this a case of 'he's just not that into me'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - We'd flirt etc online and he told me he liked me. I liked him a lot too. He lives in the UK and I'm in the US. One day I wrote him a nice long email explaining how I feel about him and really liked him. I hinted that I wanted to be in a relationship ...

We like each other but live a state away. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

21 June 2011 (M) - I want to ask this girl out, but there's a problem. We only see each other for one week during the summer at Callaway Gardens in Georgia. The rest of the year, she's one state away. I think she likes me, and I definitely like her. We're friends on ...

To leave only to come back again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - I go to a university in chicago and im a junior in college. I am about to study abroad this spring and my boyfriend is going to study abroad this fall. We have been together for about a year now and see eachother regularly during the summer. Im ...

LDR boyfriend refuses to talk about my miscarriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a while back about wheather to tell my long distance boyfriend that I'd had a miscariage. I didn't know I was pregnant and there was complications with the miscariage I was very ill. Of course I told him and ever since thing...

Would you think it OK to kiss her if you were in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

18 June 2011 (M) - I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and we've got on so well and I really liked her from the beginning. From what I've heard from my friends she likes me as well, but the problem is that since she's a work experience student and will be leaving ...

Need some advice about what I should expect and how I should act

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - So a guy I've known for several years recently contacted me and we started talking a lot. He's from a different state. He asked me out and told me he thought i was cute for the longest time and every time we talk, he would say that randomly. I think ...

Why is he ignoring me one week, but nice to me another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - Ok, to make this story short……I dated a guy long distance (Dallas-Houston) for about 7 months. We went on trips to Vegas and other places together and really enjoy each other’s company…….. Well last month, he told me, everyone was referring to me as ...

Should I compromise my dreams to move to be with bf, or should he do the same to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) - I'm dealing with a really hard problem right now. I'm graduating with my AA this fall and moving to attend UF. I'm pursuing my bachelors in psychology, and hopefully attending medical school after that. UF is supposed to be the best university in ...

I need some advice about love vs life....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - i am writing this looking for some advice on a life and relationship issue. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 2 1/2 years. we lived together for about six months. but in december of this past year, i decided to move out of the country ...

I want an adventure but don't want to be " just another girl"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - hi there... after 4 years in a LDR, i decided to break up with my bf... he was my first bf and i love him very much... i felt we were difting apart, he was too focused in college and his job, and so was i. we never had time for each other and ...

My friends say leave him, but I can't! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1year and 5mounths when we first meet at school we became great freinds and we started to become more we kissed and flirted and then he asked me out. He moved away 2mounths back now and its really f...

Is a total reboot like this and a reframing of myself in her life a good plan?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - After she showed lots of clear interest in me over a month +, a girl friend zoned me because I was always available to her as a pushover online and never flirted physically in person or pushed a relationship. We had a disagreement over this, but I ...

Don't know which one to choose

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) - Hey, well I've just had a date with this girl and we like each other and have a fair bit in common and she lives in the same town as me, but I've also had a few dates with another girl and we like each other as well and have a few things in common ...

What and how should I feel about all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We love each other but don't see very often as we live an hour's drive away, and we both work. When we see each other, however, he is always feeling me up and being affectionate through kissing ...

Is there a reason why I am bothered by my boyfriend masterbating when we are a part?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I don't know if this is odd for me to ask but why do I feel so awkward when my boyfriend tells me he pleasures himself when we don't see each other for almost a week, its very understandable but I am questioning myself in why it bothers me at all ...

Does a LDR have to be this difficult? Arranging a date is too much stress.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4910 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - My bf and I are dating long distance and it's extremely hard right now for me to get away to see him, even just for a few hours, because my parent's are really strict and I'm working with them every day. I mentioned two weeks ago that I was TRYI...

Why won't he tell me it's over if he wants to finish with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

12 June 2011 (F) - hi i am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1 year and 5 months, he moved away a few months ago and i dont know why he doesnt reply to my texts, he`s never here any more, he aint loving or here for me any more. i ask him if its over he says no ...

He stopped communicating and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - I am still confused on what to do..so here is my situation : i met this guy online. we been in a long distance relationship for 16months and we havent met in person yet.. we been planning to meet in person.. he been planning to come to my country ...

How do I get through the next 3 months?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - Hey all, i really need some advice, my partner of 4 and a half months left 2 days ago to stay with his father for 3 months to work.(were both 21 by the way) me and him are used to the distance as we live 85 miles apart as it is and go anything...

Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - Hey, So there is this guy I met over the internet and we mailed each other for quite some time until I asked him if we could meet, which we did. To sum it up it was wonderful for me and he said that he enjoyed the day, too. Problem is that he...

How do I get boyfriend back when I can see he's cooling off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf 4 2 years.We re from different countries,met on vacation and choose to be in relationship on distance.That was love at first sight...Our relationship was perfect and he was the best bf...he was coming to me every 2 weeks,and ...