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I'm in Hon Kong and he is in Canada. I need some advice.

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Question - (21 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2011)
A female Hong Kong age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I met someone on a chat room in October 2010, we started go on Skype date a lot, it was very fun to talk to him, I knew he was the right one I wanted-we are so alike and we have got loads of interests in common. We def. are something more than friends, we slept to each other on skype, tons of sweet words like couples would talk. We were so far away but felt so close and real. But he was always worried about peoples opinion like where he met me and he thought I am too young for him( he is 27, I am 20) and the long distance- he is in Canada, I am in Hong Kong, I am getting to Canada for 1 year in three months for working holiday though.

And until now, we have met for almost 8 months. We haven’t committed anything yet, and he kept on and off. It’s been 3 times, the reason is: I am too far, and he worried about become too attached to me.

I don’t want myself in bad mood since he has gone, I tell myself to give up though I can’t help myself fall for him and missing him every single minute. And I hate that I dream of him almost every day, it’s crazy and I am stuck in the middle and I have no idea what should I do. Does anyone gimme some advices?

thanks.xoxo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011):

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i will get to canada in three months.and i am gonna stay in vancity where he is living in.

I guess we can still meet up in person soon as friends maybe. but now he is off again, what should i do then? its not the first time he keeps on and off.what makes me upset is i already cant help myself fallen for him.should i wait for him or just move on? thank you so much.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 June 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhen you go to Canada how far will you be from him?

Long distance relationships are so hard.... esp if you have never met in real life and are not close enough to progress to a close face to face relationship....

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