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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, seeing each other every couple weeks, so I go long periods w/o sex. I saw him yesterday and we had sex a couple times and it hurt a lot. I was wet enough and I gave him a bj to make getting in easier, but it still hurt. After a while, the pain would go away. I've gone longer w/o sex and never had a problem before, so this is a little weird to me. I have been spotting a little bit because I skipped my period this week by replacing my bc ring right away instead of having a bleed off week, but I've also done that before and had no pain during sex.I realize no proper diagnosis could be made online, but I felt like asking anway in case someone else has ever experienced this. Any idea what it could be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): Hey there I experience this as well even though I have been sexually active for years. I personally believe that it is because you are anxious about sex or even the tiniest bit aprehensive.
I don't think you have an infection I have never heard of that before so I wouldn't be scared by what has been said. But maybe you should check just incase.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 June 2011):
 I often get really chafed the first time after weeks apart and can feel a bit tight. Just take it slow and use good lube and reapply the lube a few times in the middle.
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