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anonymous
writes:I have been dating this guy for about three months now. We're in a long distance relationship but we see each other fairly often, usually for weekends. I have just spent two weeks with him (he came to my town and lived in my apartment for that period) and it was great. He is really sweet, lovely with me, says he loves me and does all those nice things that make me happy (cooks me while I'm at work, cleans the house, follows me to work in the morning and buys me breakfast so that I'm not hungry, remembers every little detail I say to him, doesn't let me pay anything, buys me little things that he knows will make me happy etc.) I feel like a queen when I'm with him but I get really nervous when he goes back to his town. Reason: he never calls or texts me. I never call him too because I don't want to make a fool out of me, and when I text him he always texts me back but that's it. In his defense he always writes me sweet e-mails and he has the same phone relationship with other people. I have yet to see him call or text somebody. Do I have to be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2011): I think that you feel like you have such a perfect guy, that it seems too good to be true and your just waiting for him to slip up because men like him don't seem real.
Well there are actually good men out there so i think you should take a deep breath and be happy that you found such a great guy and figure out what is making you have this lack of trust in him?
Tell him that you wish he contacted you more when he is in his hometown because you miss him and see how things go from there. good luck :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 You could try talking to him. You say you never see him using his phone to keep in contact with people. Therefore it could just be a case that he doesn't like text messaging or ringing people. You should ask him about this though because it is obvious that it is annoying you deep down. Just keep it simple and the next time you see him ask him why he never calls you or sends you text messages and see what he says.
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