Do you think there is someone else and he is too gutless to tell me? Is that why he has withdrawn?

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Question - (21 June 2011)

5 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2011)

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey There I am having a problem wih my LDR. Its been a year now and we were all guud up until march of this year. He started to withdraw from me and we stopped talking everyday how we used too.

We fight a lot coz I cant take the emotional abuse he throws at me and his reason for backing off like this is coz ive been "a bitch for a long time" which is not the case.

I started to accuse him of cheating on me when he started to ignore me coz I cant think of any other reason. He always seems to have an excuse lately. Plus the sad thing about it is I have NEVER SEEN HIM. all my friends tell me im trusting him too much? should I let him go? Im always calling hime tc he even stopped smsing me?

do you think there could be someone else and he is too gutless to tell me? thats why he has withdrawn??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011):

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thanks =( Had a massive fight last night. He goes I turned out to be a dumb little girl that I should grow up change my attitude..and that why should he stay around andtalk to me becuase of my bullshit msgs..im like if thats how you felt why lead me on..he called me a dumb c*** etc etc

Yeah never doing this again =( lesson learned