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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now. We love each other but don't see very often as we live an hour's drive away, and we both work. When we see each other, however, he is always feeling me up and being affectionate through kissing and hugging. I find he touches me up too often as I enjoy the hugging and kissing most. On several occasions, when I stayed at his place, he jumps at the opportunity of touching my naked body when I change between outfits. This annoys me too. I haven't said much to him regarding these issues as I am very keen on him and don't want him to run away due to any misunderstanding. Is he doing what he does cos he is madly in love with me, as he says, or just being pervy and disrespectful toward me? What and how should I feel about all this? Please help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 June 2011):
 My BF and I are 2 hours drive apart. We TRY to see each other 3/4 nights a week... (Thursday Friday Saturday and Sunday) and I am sure his complaint is that the second I see him I am all over him...
It's not that I disrespect him or that I'm a pervy old lady (I'm 51 to his 38) but it's because I LOVE HIM SO MADLY and MISS HIM when I can't see him and feel like I need to make up for time.... I just want to love on him... I don't really want to go out I want to just lay in bed and cuddle him...
If you are still afraid to talk to your BF about your feelings then maybe you guys are moving too fast?
You need to ask him why he's doing what he's doing... and let him know it's not acceptable. Even if you love him madly and want to be with him, if his behavior is unacceptable, you must take that chance and let him know....but it sounds to me like a perfectly normal response to an LDR...
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