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writes:I am 14 nearly 15 i have been with my bf for 1year and 5mounths when we first meet at school we became great freinds and we started to become more we kissed and flirted and then he asked me out. He moved away 2mounths back now and its really far away we have started to become distant he ignores my texts phonecalls and wont talk to me when i say why dont you love me it takes him hours to reply sometimes days and he just says i do. My freinds say hes prob cheating but i dont want to beleive that they say long distant relationships dont work. I cry myself to sleep because of this its destroying my head i have become emotionaly unstabled my m8s say leave him bt i cnt please help me.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Long distance is hard as an adult (trust me I know this only too well sadly) and to do it as a young teen is nearly impossible.
You need to just go one day at a time and live your life. If he is not contacting you, he's telling you a lot.
Learn to listen to behavior not words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): You're only 14. Many mature adults can't handle a long distance relationship. A 14-year-old has an even lesser chance. It's nothing to do with you as a person, and moreso to do with the fact that long-distance relationships are incredibly difficult.
It'd be best to break up with him to relieve this stress you're experiencing. At 14, you have years and years to date!
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Wow, being how young you are it's amazing how long you have been together. Kudos on that, but maybe that's the exact reason why your relationship is falling apart.He's your age I'm assuming? He's probably just growing distant because he's young, doesn't know what he wants, and the physical distance between the two of you leaves his mind to wander.If he ignores you, doesn't want to talk to you, but claims to love you he's lying or doesn't know what 'love' is. I agree with your friends, though it may be difficult, let him go. You'll be better off for it. You've been together so long I think maybe you need to be single again. You're only fourteen after all! I, admittedly, am not much older so don't take this as an adult saying you're just a kid, I'm saying just be a kid. Don't let all of this relationship stuff get to you. I did when I was your age and I regret it. I wish you the best of luck :)
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