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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which was ok because i didn't realize i liked her until the latter half of the year, so about the end of March she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but from what i gathered she didn't seem too upset about it (i could be wrong though). Anyway once she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend i really wanted to ask her out but i didn't for a number of reasons 1) we were close to final exams 2) i was worried that she only saw us as friends because we had walked to class together sometimes (just the two of us) and i would usually ask her if she wanted to join my roommate and i for dinner if i saw her sitting alone. So, now school is over and we are on summer vacation and i still want to ask her out but we live in different cities and we probably won't see each other until school starts up again in September, but i have her on Facebook, so how can i ask her to get together in September without making it look like im asking her out through Facebook/email?Any Help is appreciatedThanks
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (21 June 2011):
Well, if I were you i would simply keep the communication going. Be interested in what she does, share whats happening over the next few months. Build up and continue your communication. Don't ask her out yet, you need to keep getting to know her. If she is interested, she will hint at something and will keepm responding with interest.
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