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writes:My friend G hosted a Beach PartyThere's this guy named K whom I met there.He took the initiative to talk to me and there was lots of obvious signs that he likes me (E.g. Teasing, Chasing each other at the beach, Throwing stuff)From what my friends observed, he does not really talk to the guys or girls at the party. He also gets moody or "emoed" at a corner when I was with my other friends or so.A friend of mine told me that K told him to move aside as there's a cute girl here.. Etc.But the problem is that, I managed to find him on Facebook. We do not have any mutual friends as he was added on another Facebook account of G. ( I'm not friends with G's other FB Account as she won't add me.)I sent him a friend request but he had neither accepted it nor rejected it.I also found out from G that he uses Facebook often.(There were recent status updates)I sent him a friend request before that status updated.Shouldn't he have seen the friend request?Why won't he accept it?Plus, I'm unable to contact him since we don't study in the same school..etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): He had a good time at the party, that's all. Don't stress about him. If he wants to find you on FB he will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): It could be that he thought you cute but for whatever reason doesn't want to take it further. Leave it. If he wants to contact you he will and if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Don't act desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2011): When did you send the request? He may have a few invitations and could have deleted yours by mistake. I know because I've done it myself. After I accept one person a window appears confirming I've added them. To close it I have to click on 'ok' or 'close' whatever it is. That button is right over the decline button for the next person in the qeue.
That said, I will add that K doesn't appear to be moving Heaven and Earth to reconnect with you. He could just as easily have sought you out on Facebook, but he hasn't. I woudln't waste time wondering why. I'd just move on. If you hear from him, great. If not, no loss. You'll meet someone else.
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