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writes: Hey, well I've just had a date with this girl and we like each other and have a fair bit in common and she lives in the same town as me, but I've also had a few dates with another girl and we like each other as well and have a few things in common and she lives a distance away from me and we can only get to see each other once a week.I just don't know what to do now, I don't know who to choose and I'm not the person to keep leading someone on.Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help, I think I know what to do now, cheers
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Dating is trying people on for size to see who is the best fit. There is no rule that you can only date one person at a time.
However, FIND out if the girls are on the same page.
Does sex to you or one of them equal a monagamous, committed relationship?
Once you ask one to be your gf, stick my your commitment and let the other one know as soon as possible that you are no longer available.
Best Wishes.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 June 2011):
 when you don't know what to do, do nothing.
why not be open and honest and see both till you can decide?
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reader, lilLindz_21 +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Go with your heart kiddo. Which one do you see yourself loving when that time comes. If you aren't needy, then you may chose the LDR. If you want someone around a lot, well then you will chose the close one.
Keep me informed! :). And good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): Well if you like them both equally and really don't like one more than the other.
Then look at the girls personalities, in terms of kindness, thoughtful, trustworthy...etc. Then who appeals to you more? Who is constantly in your head?
If you still feel you desire both girls then choose the girl closer to your home.
But, remember once you choose that should be your final decision. It wouldn't be fair to chop and change between the two girls, because us women are very intuitive and chances are they have picked up on your uncertainty.
Also the girl you decide not to be with, do let her down gently,we have feelings too.
Best of luck.x
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