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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

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I want my ex husband back after he's cheating and my surgery. I seem to want him more now that he's been with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - This is a long story, but i will try to shorten. This began 2 yrs ago, i had been having some issues with fatigue and depression also had absolutely no desire for sex! During this time my husband of 14 yrs found someone who did like sex( 12 yrs...

I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...

Do you think this is a legitimate reason to end an engagement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Is this a legitimate reason to end an 3 month engagement and a four year relationship? February 25th 2013, I’m 23 and my ex-fiancé is the same age. 4 months ago my fiancé broke up with me because of something I did, or rather did not do, a few da...

I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with t...

I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each ...

I need help in dealing with my self-centered father!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My dad has problems communicating with people. He has a mental illness, but which one not even the doctors can pin down. Maybe a combination of Aspergers, bipolar personality disorder, and quite a chunk of paranoia. He is very self centered. T...

How can I get over the guilt and open wound from a year ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - A year ago, I was going through a rough time in life. I had lost my job, which put a strain on our relationship. I/we were not talking much about our feelings and our self-worth. The relationship was strained. I had a lot of low times and did ...

My bipolar boyfriend keeps disappearing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2182 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder. I know that causes mood changes. Every time he gets paid ( he is on disability benefits ), he disappears. It's usually for about three or four days. Sometimes, he texts and calls me during that time, but sometimes ...

Her awful childhood has led her to a lot of problems, I don't know whether I should try to help her and stick around. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - This is a long winded story but I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible. I've known my girlfriend for 4 yrs and we have been dating for about 2 months but we started really talking a month before that. Word around town was she was a easy ...

How do you deal with constipation caused by too much time together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Hi =] I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and things between us are going great =] However I do have an unusual problem and wondered if anyone else had experienced this. I know it's not very pleasant, but I get constip...

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...

Any tips on coping with the stress and co-parenting with a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Majorly stressed out with work. I work from home so my son doesn't have to go to daycare full time-but this means that 4 hours of my work day, he is here (makes it very hard to get work done!) My job is very stressful and doesn't pay well. Anyw...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

Should I call him and tell him how I really feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - okay so..here it is under an unusual planetary alignment i meet the most amazing man it was strange i felt a deep connection with him when we shook hands i will never forget gazing into his eyes when i met him. i could not describe the pow...

My life is a mess and I can't talk to girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - Ever since I'v hit puberty(15) I can't socialize, I've become very nervous and have no self-esteem. I can't even walk past strangers with some feelings of discomfort. And I can't take my eyes off hot women, but yet if they tryed to talk to me my mi...

Should I get checked? I was bleeding after sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok so I think I'm kinda embarrassed to answer this question so anyways. Just had sex with my friend. He's like my bestie. Hell I can't believe this happen since I be on that 90 day rule shit lol. I don't feel nasty or anything because we have been ...

Was breaking up the ideal solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi everyone. Here goes. I broke up with my girlfriend ~1 month ago. We are both university students. She is an undergraduate student and I am a graduate student; I work full-time all year and I get 3 weeks off. We had been dating for 14 months. E...

He needs some foot hygiene help! How do I do that without embarrassing him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My 28 year old boyfriend and I were hanging out at my place. He was exhausted from work, so I offer to give him a foot massage. His skin is a little hard and dry but the feet don't smell. At a certain point I notice that he has some white cotta...

Why won't my amazing, lovely wife have sex with me with the lights on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - My wife is amazing in bed,even after 20+ years together,3 kids I still think she has a fantastic figure,the only problem is she still won't have sex with light on,let me me see her naked or have sex in daytime,I keep telling she's got a lovely ...

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one ...

What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...

My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation...

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. ...

I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...

He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...

What can I do to prevent my boyfriends from gaining weight while they are with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem, and it is becoming more noticeable with each relationship I have. The last 3 boyfriends of mine have put on significant amounts of weight. I am talking about 30-40 pounds. Not muscle, pure fat. I want to know what I can do to ...

My girl who had been raped before is asking me to do rough role play with her. It feels wrong.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - So my sex life with my GF has always been pretty vanilla, she doesn't really like kinky stuff and hates things like dildos or porn or anything that is in anyway a little wild. in the past I had often found that she seemed bored during sex and simply ...

Stress of being 8 months pregnant, school work, money and fiancee being away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - Hello i could really use some advice as i just don't know how to cope with all the things life is currently throwing at me. I think i may be depressed. Ive just moved out of my parents for the first time and have got my own house with my fionce. I ...

How can I get out of this unhappy situation? He says a divorce will be worse on the kids than us being unhappy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and have 3 kids under 10. My husband and I dated for 6 years before getting married. I am absolutely miserable in my marriage. My husband is emotionally abusive...a true narcissist. It has taken me too long and ...

16 weeks pregnant and my Bf is acting distant. What can I do? He's not affectionate now. It's made me feel lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I'm 28 y/o. 5 years ago I was* married and had 2 miscarriages. I found out that my (now ex husband ) was cheating on me so I filed for divorce. Now, after years of thinking id never be lucky enough to get pregnant aga...

My b/friend's very ill ex is in the hospital. How do I deal with this sad uncomfortable setting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and his baby mama never got married, just lived together. They broke up (couple months after the child was born) because she liked to party and get drunk, and was jealous of the love my boyfriend had for his son. Nevertheless, she got ...

Does anyone have any tips on how I can break my bad eating habits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I know this is not a diet and exercise forum but I'm hoping some of you may have gone through this before and can offer some advice. I have put on about 15lbs in the last year. Ever since I was a child, I could eat whatever I wanted and I always ...

Any tips on how to cope when my partner is out of town for work? I get so lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hi all! I was hoping for some help... I've been used to living with my parents and 2 siblings all my life, so it's always been a busy home. However my partner and I bought our 1st house together last year and I love living with him, jus...

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about ...

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

My girlfriend snores really loudly. How can I raise this sensitive subject, and not hurt her feelings? Because I can't get proper sleep myself in this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Yikes! I've got a bit of a small problem, but it's still causing me some issues. My girlfriend snores really loudly. It makes it almost impossible for me to sleep. I toss and turn. It's not pleasant, and is getting to the point where I don't wa...

I love my guy, but recently he started insulting me a lot, and we fight. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 10 months now. Initially it was all great between us. We were like the completely in love couple. But in the past few months things have gone haywire. We have started fighting a lot. Its majorly over this guy wh...

My LDR wants sexy pictures from me. But I have put on weight. I've tried sending him fake pictures.What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. He is in the marines in one state, while I am in another state. We've hung out a lot before he left, and I was pretty thin then. I have Gained some weight since ive last seen him. He asks...

How should I handle this? My beloved bisexual Gf proposed that we have a threesome

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My beloved bisexual girlfriend proposed a threesome with a girl (or hooker) of our choice, and i told her that i used to have a wild side in the past, but not anymore, and she keeps mentioning that she wishes she met me back then, which makes it ...

Should I reconsider or consider reconnecting with my ex again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been on a constant cycle of emotions this past month and a half, it seemed that every time someone spoke about my ex, or when i talked about him, or of course just thinking about when we were together, all of this always made me feel upset or ...

Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi all! I have a dilemma guys, Basically I have the option of moving down south of my country to a really good job or I have the opportunity to move up north of my country to an ok job but the guy I like lives there. That guy and I dated f...

She was his next Gf after he broke up with me. She and I have been talking. He has been violent with her too. Is it wrong to talk to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Ok, bear with me please, as this will be a long question, but i really need help. I broke up with my boyfriend two years agp. We were together for a year and a half. He was violent and jealous. But i went back to him several times during these tw...

Is stress a reasonable excuse for my girlfriend to be distant and snappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - Girls... If a girlfriend is acting kind of distant, seems to avoid deep or touchy subjects, etc. is it a reasonable excuse to say that she's highly stressed out about other things in life? And that because of that she needs you (the guy) to und...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

What to do with my boyfriend? he vents, and he scares me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - i've been with my current boyfriend less than a month now, he is a nice guy and i like him. The problem is with his character, the work pressure makes him angry all the time and he vents it all on me. He scares me. Yesterday his very expensive c...

I'm feeling isolated, lonely and I'm going stir crazy. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I moved from a big city to a very small town to be with my fiance. In my fiances line of work, he can't talk about anyone or his work because of privacy laws, so there is never any work talk from him. Due to his position he can't really become fr...

Personality disorder? Or am I looking too far into the way he behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I think my partner has some sort of personality disorder. We have know each other yrs and have a couple of kids together. We have had a volatile relationship in the past as he was a bit of a mummy's boy. He is 44 and we only started living p...

He won't open up, won't take his meds -- how do I help him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 February 2013 (F) - Hi i was just wonderin... my boyfriend has mental problems of which are how serious i dnt really know. he is not a very emotional person which means he is usually angry or happy (thats about it) and i know he loves me very much. but he just doesnt ...