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anonymous
writes:I've been on a constant cycle of emotions this past month and a half, it seemed that every time someone spoke about my ex, or when i talked about him, or of course just thinking about when we were together, all of this always made me feel upset or angry. But what would always run through my mind was how he probably doesn't miss me, or have feelings for me anymore, he's probably really happy and doesn't even care how i am. I know I shouldn't torture myself thinking about that stuff, because i always cry after thinking it. But it was inevitable. But only on monday was i lying in bed thinking how much i still missed him so so much and those stupid thoughts again! And as usual, i started tearing up. But both yesterday and again today, whenever i thought about him i felt fine, i didn't feel anything this time. Instead i was thinking those same thoughts but they somehow seemed positive and i was thinking exactly, he probably doesn't miss me, he probably doesn't care, and he probably doesn't have feelings for me anymore! So why am i still being sad and missing him! And now i feel fine and all those negatives seem like positives?Even today, i saw a photo of him from a night out come up on Facebook. And before i couldn't look at photos of him without getting that feeling of missing him badly, but this time i looked at the photo and sure i still missed him, but nowhere near the same amount! And what was strange, is he looked so happy in the picture that it made me smile and i thought to myself "i do hope he is happy" and genuinely meant it! what has happened? why would i suddenly have a change in thought and emotions? what do you think this means....
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 you're moving on... you care about him and know it's not right with you but you want him to be happy
the mark of a mature person who's getting on with life.
well done!
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (23 February 2013):
 I think you are getting over him. It's great that you can wish him happiness. You are letting go with love.
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reader, femmefemale  +, writes (22 February 2013):
Sounds like you are getting over him, which is a good thing.
Let it happen, let gooo :)
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