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Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

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Question - (25 February 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2013)
A female United States age 36-40, *rangeswild123 writes:

I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date.

He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows.

I myself have been depressed the past couple months (situational depression.) from moving to this city with my family.

I go to work and come home. So its taken a heavy toll on me. The solution will be to move back to my old town. I am in the works to do that but its months away from happening.

Nobody knows about this. The other night him and I were talking and I can tell he wants me to open up to him.

I'm just scared he will leave or he won't confide in me anymore thinking I have issues of my own or something. Am I just over thinking? Should I just tell him? I feel so alone.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (25 February 2013):

TasteofIndia agony auntIf you feel comfortable with him, then go ahead and talk to him. Even if your relationship doesn't end up in marriage, it's still nice to have somebody who cares abut you to talk to about things going on in your life.

In the meantime, you should explore the city that you live in. At least find some adventures to have so you can have some stories to tell from your time in the city! Best of luck, dear! :)

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A female reader, orangeswild123 United States +, writes (25 February 2013):

orangeswild123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

orangeswild123 agony auntYeah, all of my friends live in that city. He coincidentally might move there since he is in the interview process for a job there. That was happening before I even met him. So guess its kind of fate.

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