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writes:Ok so I think I'm kinda embarrassed to answer this question so anyways. Just had sex with my friend. He's like my bestie. Hell I can't believe this happen since I be on that 90 day rule shit lol. I don't feel nasty or anything because we have been friends for so long and we are I guess falling for each other. Not surprised. He's always been there for me, but anyway to cut to the chase I was actually bleeding. Lol I felt like a virgin again. Idk why is this. I have been without sex for like 2 years straight, could that be it? His head was pretty big, but he was just average size what could this be? I've had all of my checkups even when I was without sex. This is the first time this happen to me. I've only been with 3 guys and neither have even made me bleed at all. Think I should see a doctor or am I being paranoid? Also it wasn't a lot it was like a last day of a MMS day. Just enough to see on the tissue.
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reader, Childaskme +, writes (26 February 2013):
Childaskme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you and no I'm not on any birth controls at all. I was just kinda concern which is why I turned to you guys since everyone here is so helpful. So no I'm not any birthcontrols and it hasn't been bleeding since.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 February 2013):
 if it's just some spotting for one day I'd not worry to much about it...
if you have any pain at all... call the doctor.
if the bleeding continues call the doctor...
I've had bleeding (spotting) occasionally after sex... sometimes with fingering you get nicked with a finger nail or the cervix gets nicked... a bit of spotting is nothing to worry about.
any pain
long term or heavy bleeding....
can't hurt to call the doctor.
also it might depend on if you are on hormonal birth control and/or where you are in your cycle...
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reader, Childaskme +, writes (26 February 2013):
Childaskme is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks for all the great answers and to iAmHereToHelpYou, when I say falling for each other it has nothing to do with sex. All of this were prior to him even touching me. We've been friends since I was in middle school, I'm 23 now and so is he. He always tried to be with me as far as a relationship wise, but I just never responded because for one, every time he tried I was either with someone or away in the military. So this is his first time ever touching me and it wasn't planned kinda just happened. Far as the 2 years, I was saying that because my point is I've been getting checkups daily and haven't been sexually active for about 2 years. So I was saying that to say that I know there shouldn't be nothing wrong with me. In the military we get checkups all the time for dam near everything. That's why I pointed that out. I guess I just got a little scared for a moment because that never happened to me before like at all, not even when I lost my virginity which was about 3 years ago itself. Anyways thanks for all of your answers. You all are so helpful here, gosh:)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (26 February 2013):
 Sex can change your chemical balance down there, especially with new sexual partners. The bleeding has to do with stretching. With big heads the stretching is sudden and not gradual. You had been with 3 guys so I think your hymen is pretty much gone. With any new person you meet just make sure they are clean. Ask him to have a test and how him your results too. Bacteria vaginosis is not too serious of an issue but is very common. Because of worrying in the past, I now take probiotics every day and I love it. There is a kind that's specific for the vagina flora.
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reader, Makayla5893  +, writes (26 February 2013):
It could be spotting from in between your periods. Or that your hymen had just stretched when you had sex previously and not actually broken until now. Or if there wasnt enough lubrication during sex you may have torn a little. I think you are fine but I suggest going to your doctor just to be safe.
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