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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2013 (see latest in Health category)

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She said she knew I wasn't a Relationship Person and that I was not Emotionally Available. What does my Ex mean by this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I was seeing this girl for a while and last night we finally talked for the first time since we broke up. She said she always knew in the back of her mind that i wasn't a relationship person and we weren't going to be anything more than what it ...

We have children. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. Will he ever change? All his money goes on his lifestyle and we struggle at the best of times

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I guess like a lot of girls do, I thought I could change my boyfriend. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. His friends are no good and he doesn't look after me or our children as he should. I don't work as my youngest is 3 weeks old, and my olde...

How do I go about getting rid of my lazy unmotivated Bf? But how do I cope with his threats to harm himself if I do leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - In my last question I had asked what I should do about my lazy, unmotivated boyfriend. Well, I'm at the point where I think I'm almost at a decision. But now, I need help in a different way. No matter how loving and nice he is to me..I just don'...

I don't know if he wants me to get pregnant or not. But why is he so obsessed about me being pregnant, or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4341 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Hi I have a boyfriend for six months we have been sexually active most of it. I have done a few pregnancy tests but all negative that's fine because we talked and not one of us is ready for a baby.. I am using the injection for 6 months now...fee...

We hug, kiss and hold hands. What should I do when I hug her and then realize I have an erection to deal with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 2 months now. She is a very sweet and simple girl. We have a had a lip lock, in fact a make out. But whenever I hug her or kiss her or even when we hold hands, I get an erection. I crea...

We want to start with a STD check. So how do I ask the Doctor for this? what happens? We've also agreed to let each other see the paperwork.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex for the first time. But before we do, she wants us to have a check-up from a doctor to make sure we're both OK. I completely agree with her and I respect her honesty. My question is, how do I go about wi...

She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

5 February 2013 (M) - I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...

How should I resolve this situation? My husband's Rock music addiction is causing me problems and now even the neighbors are complaining.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - On here, you often hear about partners with gaming addictions, well, how's this for an addiction; rock music ?? I knew my husband liked music, of all types, had nothing against it, but now he's missing out on sex with me, work, time with friend...

How can I help my Bf? He was sobbing uncontrollably after spending time with me. He admitted he has problems at home.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - Last night my boyfriend came over to my house. We talked, ate dinner together, then watched a movie in my room, we did make-out once and then we fell asleep. When I woke up it was about midnight and he was sleeping with his arms around me and I no...

At 26 is this too early to be already be noticing the signs of ageing? Why would this already be happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - My looks have started changing noticeably and I'm only 26, I noticed at 25 they were going. I don't drink much and I don't smoke. I have noticed my jaw line has changed my eyes have gone littler and my skin has lost elasticity around them. My che...

I'm worried my boyfriend will soon start thinking I'm fat and stupid the same way that my ex did.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - First of all I've been in a very happy relationship for over two years (on and off for 2 years previous to this), my boyfriend is great, he cares and he loves me, he knows I have bad self esteem issues and always tries to resolve them. In the past ...

My overweight family keep calling me fat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - My family keep caling me fat, My younger sister is at least a stone or two heavier than me (atleast 14lb heavier than me for those who aren't from the uk). My mum is overweight, my dad is overweight and yet all they ever do is call me names like fat ...

He's awesome. But would never date a HIV positive woman. Should I break up with him, or tell him I'm HIV positive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I am Hiv positive and have been positive for 10 years now I recently met this nice and awesome guy whom iv dated for 2 months now he always says he’s afraid of Hiv and he would never date a positive woman(he has never tested in his life) I don’t ...

Were we right to breakup? Should I try to get back together with my ex? We broke up after Christmas.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - This is kinda long ... thanks for slogging through it. My bf and I broke up right after Christmas. It was a mutual decision after several years together. He's kind, funny, generous (would give the shirt off his back to a stranger who needed it), ...

What should I do about this seriously selfish relative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - i would greatly appreciate any views on this situation. My mother has an aunt who i can not stand. She is the most selfish narrow minded women i have ever met. Completely opposite her sister, my nan, who is such a beautiful person. When ...

How do I get past this traumatic abusive depressing relationship with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I finally broke up with my boyfriend of two years. I started dating him during a very traumatic time of my life and I was looking to be saved and he was a charmer. Soon into our relationship I noticed very possessive jealous behaviour. He was not ...