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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

NOT in love with him, do it for the sake of two little ones

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my significant other for three and a half years now, we have a two year old and one on the way. I have never been in love with him, it was definitely infatuation and loneliness in the beginning. We have split up several times ...

My ex will be there at my sister's wedding because my brother-in-law is vaguely related to him but I don't want to speak to him, or even breathe the same air as him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hi! I just wanted other people's viewpoint on this problem. I have been split from my ex for four years now. He treated me badly, used me for money and cheated on me. It took me a very long time to pick myself back up again after everything he put ...

I'm from a conservative family and in love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am 17 years old without a boyfriend. My family is conservative. I am in love with my cousin and i don't have any hint whether he has any feelings for me or not. First it started with a crush i spent 5 years like this n now i m head over heels in ...

How do I tell my mom that I'm pregnant at 14?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I'm 14 yrs old. Me and my bf had sex awhile ago and I just found out im pregnant. A couple ppl know and he knows. I need help on how to tell my mom. Im scared that if I do then she will never trust me ever again and kick me out the house and never ...

Does my son need to see a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - my son 18 years old. when he was 15-16 he secretly used to wear his mom's panties and masturbate frequently with it. sometimes he wear her skirts as well. we warn him many times not to do so , but seems he hasn't stop yet. is this his mental problem ...

Can anyone help me? Moms? Dads? Anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - i am so sick of my mom! i am about turn 16 going to be a junior! but my mom doesnt seem to understand.. that i want to go out. she claims to be my bestfriend. and then when i tell her things she throws it in my face. like what the freak! she doesn'...

Was it such a big deal that I lied to my b/f's mom about a job interview?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Just recently I was supposed to go to an interview for a retail department store, but I cancelled it because I was too lazy.. : Anyways my boyfriend's mom asked me how it went and...

I like my third cousin but am not sure how that news would affect her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I like my 3rd cousin but im afraid on what she would think if I told her because we have known each other for a long time since we were kids and it might get wierd between us and the rest of the family what should I do ? ...

Terrible relationship with my mother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Im 16 years old and I really hate my mother. Me and her constantly argue and she makes me feel like shit. I am the baby of the family and have triplet girl sisters who are 24 and a brother thats 36. My parents are both 57. Me and my mother really ...

I want to escape my abusive, drug addicted brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I can't take it anymore, I hate coming home.. My brother is a drug attict, thief and a liar. All he ever does is hurt me. He steals my money, takes my things, does drug deals infront of me. Im only 16, i shouldnt have seen any of this. i see his ...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

My husband's adult son's treat him terribly, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - My husband's two adult sons treat him horrible. They're spoiled and abusive. For years I've made excuses for them because their mother committed suicide the year before I met him. I feel like I've helped them work through some of their grief but ...

I'm in love with my ex's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (?) - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I ...

Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful ...

My younger brother is a bully how should I handle him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - dear aunts/uncles im having some problems with my younger brother. Firstly i dnt live with him, thank goodness because he is so moody! he has always been a moody person, angry irritable and really rude! when i visit he is off with me and bites my ...

I've kissed over 50 guys on nights out and feel disgusted with myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Ever since being in university I feel like i've lost my self respected, dignity and it makes me feel sick. I'm disappointed in myself for it... Basically, I keep kissing guys I meet on nights out! I've probably kissed just over 50 guys since being...

I'm uneasy dating a man who has kids. I wouldn't be his 1st priority

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating a divorced 40 year old man for 6 weeks. He wants me to commit to him and he is desperately trying to sell the house that he shared with his ex so that he can move on. He has two children. I have never dated anyone with chil...

Should my husband speak to his sister if she does not like his wife & kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Is it ok to ask my husband to not speak to his sister because she does like or want a relationship with our five kids together? Our five kids range in ages 3~11,all girls,she lives in England we live in the states but he goes back to visit his dad ...

Relationship taking a turn for the worst, what do I do!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I am really at a loss right now. I have been with my s/o for three years. Im 22 he's 24. The first months were bliss of course but shortly after that the fighting began and...it has never stopped! For three years we have been fighting, making up, ...

It is too soon! How do I tell her I need a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I'm a single father raising two kids, and was in a relationship with there mother for 16 yrs. It ended real bad, anyway the kids are my life, I'm very busy with them on top of working. I have tried to move on and have been dating for about 3 months ...

This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's ...

How do I make my family see that age, nationality and religion don't matter to us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - hi.. i have a relationship with age gap difference and different nationality and religion. but we respect each other and we dont see this differences between us. im asking for a blessing from my family but their are very concerned to me and what ...

Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...

Should I ask my mom why she hates my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Should i ask my mum why she hates my boyfriend? I’ve been him for 18 months however we were friends long before this, however she has never taken to him and is often rude to him and about him. She tells me not to get serious, accuses me of not ...

I don't like my brother dating my lying friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My bestfriend and i have been friends for almost two years we spent every min. togther. She used to lie to me about things all the time and i got over it but recitntly she started lieing to me a lot more and calling me the B word a lot more then ...

Is my friend sleeping with my dad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - well last year my 2 friends stayed when my step mum and bro's went away and left me and my dad. my dad and her (my friend) have been flirting she will constantly have her boobs out in front (once in knickers and bra...looked like 4 attention) of him ...

My son misses his dad but his dad wants nothing to do with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, id just like some help regarding my son really. I wrote on here a while back about his dad being out of the picture for the last 2-3 years(my son is now 7). His dad lives just around the corner though has made it clear he has no intere...

Helping a grieving friend, how far should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Here's the background: I have a cousin living in another city, whom I got to know when I was posted there for a short stint. Though we haven't known each other for long, we got along very well from the beginning and I got to know his family as well. ...

How do I make my wife wake up & see how horribly overbearing her mother is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - My wifes mother tries to control just about every aspect of her life. She tells her how she should shop, how to spend her money, makes comments about her weight, compares her to other people, judges her AND me, and acts like a child. I found ou...

I think my ex hacked into my facebook account

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - what would you do? hello im 30 and my ex girlfriend is 26 we've got 2 kids. we live together. and for years we've not been close since the birth of our first child. and this year after years of unhappy r/ship we split up. we desided for the ...

24 year old dating a 34 year old with a kid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello, Ill try to be brief, list the facts and ask the question *I got out of my first and only relationship (so far) about a year ago, I had the toughest time moving on and even became depressed until I met him, I think I'm 80% healed, I t...

Should I embrace the fact that I am ghangeing or stay true to my formerself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Around 3 years ago me and my family moved to the rule country side. now I was never particularly keen on this idea, but my father needed the job and where ever he went i went. now i had always been a city girl all my life, so it was difficult to ...

Even though I try to help her I think my younger sister hates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I am the 2nd sister of four and I believe my younger sister has secretely hated me over the years . I come from a dysfunctional home where we all had to be on our own at an early age , I had to go at 16yrs old . The sister that I thinks hates me ...

When will my sister stop punishing me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Please help! My sister who is my half sister treats me like dirt. She is close to our other sister is my full sister her half sister so well.I have always been there for her even through her divorce plus helped with her kids when asked. When I got ...

I asked my husband to move out but he's acting in front of his visiting family like everything is just fine between us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - i have a controlling Husband trying to prove me wrong and put me down quite often - making jibes at me infront of the kids and not helping out at home generally. I work full time and look after home/ two kids. Etc. I warned him before that i had ...

How should I convo with him? He was looking at me. So why did he write to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I like this guy were both 19 and hung out yesterday but they (him and his cousin) said i was quiet and it was awkward, but i don't get it, because I ask him like what he does for fun, what do you usually do? what sports you like? what kind of music ...

My parents beat me, and now I try to push my husband to beat me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I just need a little advice or whatever that can help me with this. I grow up in a disfunctional family. Im used to get beat from my parents physically and emotionally. Believe me its really hurt. It planted in my heart and in my soul. My eye...

My mother is alway thinking the worst about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - What can I do about this ? I've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months and it seems like with ever day that passes, my mother is always think more terible things that she thinks I've been doing like: one day I asked her if I could hang out a...

Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont...

Both of us are upset about our break up. Does he really love me if he puts his religion before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been attached for half a year now. We started off as colleagues 3 years back and he has been courting me since then but we just got together recently. The reason why I did not accept him earlier is because of his reli...

Should I remain at home? I'm so scared of leaving home. It's scary.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - The time has come for me to be an adult and im so scared. I don't know how to grow up and do for myself because im the only chilf and i use to being well taken care of. Next to all that issue is that im shy and i don't even get out as much. be...

What do I do about this cheating man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I am ashamed to say I had a affair several years back and it resulted in my having a son. The man in question is over twice my age at 55 and has three grown up children. After publicly denying everything he then try's to ring and failing that starts ...

Am I being played by letting him woo me all over again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4567 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Ok so after four months of being broken up my ex contacted me to tell me how mich he missed me and that he missed everything about me and has thought about me everyday since the split which was his decision. We were together for about a year i meet ...

He lies, cheats, steals and does drugs for the buzz!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been with my fiancee for a few year,we knew each other from being 13 year old and hung around 2gther! Anyway we grew up had relationships and both had children! In first couple months togther he told me he used to have a heroine and crack ...

I doubt his comments, is this because of my criticisng Mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have been dating for a year. We get on very well - he tells me that he loves me and behaves affectionately around me. However, there are occasions where I question why he says he loves and cares for me as much as he expresses. He mentions I have ...

Should I talk to his wife? Or just break with him? He has lied all the way

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship with a married man who is 20 years older to me. We met at work. He got transferred to our office from another branch. Initially we never really spoke much to each other, probably just say a good morning when we would pass by...

Is this fair? our relationship is over because I cheated over tens years ago!!! help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - How do I handle the fact of the man I have loved for 14 years wants to leave because of some things I did over 10 years ago. Even after him telling me that he love me and we were going to get through this together. Now it's I am inconsiderate, I do...

Family Feud and my husband is siding with his sister against me. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I have had a very bad falling out with my sister in law. We never liked each other anyway but the last time I have seen her we had a massive disagreement. My husband sided with his sister against me which added to me being upset. Since then I have...

Should we run away to get married since parents are against it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I m 23 and he is 25 want to get married but my parents are not allowing me we were in relationship from last 11year now we are trying to run away should we do that just because of caste problem my family members are not allowing me ?please help me ...

My fiance is greiving - will our relationship survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

18 May 2012 (M) - Hi. My fiancee and I have been together for about a year and a half and became engaged three months ago. We planned to get married six months from now, in the fall and were excited about making a life together. One month ago, not long afte...