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writes:well last year my 2 friends stayed when my step mum and bro's went away and left me and my dad. my dad and her (my friend) have been flirting she will constantly have her boobs out in front (once in knickers and bra...looked like 4 attention) of him also flirting constantly and i came out the bath to find my dad and 2 friends doing 'fake with clothes on' sex moves...but he mainly on this one person (the friend). i was angry and was in a mood, moaned as it wrong and left it. this year the friend was all over him saying hes cute ect.(i was told by other friend she did it more than once but my dad or the friend didnt tell me) i walked in on them (hes 44) (shes 16).other things have been happening like touching each other when im not lookin but i have seen them and stairing (but they always give excuses saying it in my head or says he has not when i know he/ she has). so the other day i voice recoreded when i went 'toilet' and found sounds of....sofa repeatingly squeeking (not normal) and my dad saying 'dont worry shes not coming' (there was more). i mentioned this to my dad and he said its all in my head and he said 'i cannot go out, or my friends carnt stay now' all of a sudden hes asking if shes staying this weekend. i also said 'u wouldnt do it if u cared' he said 'yeah' (i wasnt asking the Q but he answered) and my friend has not spoke to me since the day it sounded like they where doing it (5 days now) i dont know if its guilt or what? (and my dads being all nice now too me when he was in mood when i asked about it)oh and my dad never use to disappear until recently he will leave at like 4 and come and pick me up at 8 ever same 2 days of week and give crap excuses that dont make sence or he changes it and my friend avoids answering questions when i ask about he day....what shall i do i hate thinking it and leaving them together?? i just want to know truth
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2012): I think it was just a one off occasion to be honest. So i would leave it, just don't have her at your house, go round hers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think i will when i see her. And i hate being near them both i just want to say something but i always think i have no evidence so they will say im mad.
I tried that with 'jade' saying i know what u have done but it didnt work how i planned.
And well 'jade' lives with her mum not dad, i could mention it as something like this has happened with 'jade' before with another man. Thats another reason why i was suspicious as apparently she kept going bk untill she got him arrested.
I'm going to speak to my other friend as she knows all this and we will decide if to talk to 'jades' mum.
thankyou x
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reader, N91 +, writes (25 May 2012):
 Yeah, if I were you I'd tell your mum then, I hate hearing of things like this, it's pretty disgusting tbh. You could try to coax it out of him, just say something along the lines that your friend 'Jade' has admitted to it.
Would it be possible to tell 'Jades' parents what you think is going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thats the thing me and my step mum do not get along at all. I could tell my real mum. And i dont think the friend whos doing this call her jade would tell our other mates as jade told our friend she fancies my dad and my friend told me straigh away and jade found out. And they are not going to admit it as i have had few words with my dad and he says its in my head all the time.
Thankyou people for the help x
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reader, N91 +, writes (25 May 2012):
Sorry that was a little hard to read, I know he's your dad but he sounds like an absolute creep.
I think you already know the answer of where he's going, I think it's best that you tell your step mum of everything that you know, or you could even ask him to own up before you tell her yourself, maybe you can get it out of him that way.
Either way, your dad should know A LOT better, a 44 year old man should not be doing inappropriate things like that with one of his daughter's 16 year old friends, just the thought of it is making me shudder.
Be brave and tell your step mum, good luck.
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reader, LovelyLemon  +, writes (25 May 2012):
 It sounds like your father has a very overtly inappropriate relationship with your friend. Probably somewhat illegal even. Your friend is crossing a boundary, but you father is the one who is ultimately to blame, as he is the adult. I know that this is super awkward and probably grosses you out, but you really need to tell your mom. What your father is doing is absolutely not right, and he should not subject a young girl to that, not to mention disrespect you on that level.
Please tell your mother. She needs to know, and will know which step to take next.
Much love and Best wishes
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reader, Martinizum +, writes (25 May 2012):
You already know the truth..the signs are allthere its sad but they will probaly never admit it..in time they will get caught I just worry about your mom..not only is it not easy being cheated on but the girl being 16is deffinetly not cool..i would try to talk to other friends see if they could get it out of her cause your dad will never come clean even caught red handed..this is hard but u fo know the answer..good luck..
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