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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

My LDR boyfriend is so loaded with work we don't have time to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello there! My LDR bf and I are usually quite close, and we try to text each other at least once - even if it is just a "Good Morning" message - but recently, I've noticed a change. We've been going out for quite a while now, and we keep either S...

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

What is happening here? Neither my girlfriend nor I were virgins when we met. So why am I suddenly bothered that someone else before me had sex with her, before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I’m with my girlfriend since almost 3 years and none of us were virgins when we get together. For me non virginity is not a problem at all, but since 1 week the idea of someone other than me inside her started to pop up in my head. I love her fro...

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, ...

How do I make the next move? I'm scared of rejection but when I do meet a woman I don't know what to say to get her interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I've been single for a while now. i'm not looking for a relationship just yet but am looking for casual sex. Thing is, I'm quite shy. I like to flirt with women and find this happens often, I just don't know what to say to take it to the next ste...

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ...

How am I so bad with women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I'm at a place now where I'm rejected 100% of the time. It's mind boggling how awful I am at attracting women. They're put off my me almost immediately and if they're not, I get their number and they stop talking to me. It takes talent to be this ...

I am worried my boyfriend's new job means the end of our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months. I'm very happy with him. He is consistently supportive and thoughtful and treats me so kindly and respectfully. He recently got a new job and it started today. His previous job didn't have ...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had ...

What should I do? He told me that he "fell out of love" with me like a month ago and now it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Me and my fight friend have been friends for almost 2 years, 10 months ago he told me he wanted to date. When he first told me he liked me I was really nervous and not ready. I was young, immature, I had a lot of things going on in my life such as ...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

My boyfriend appears to be attracted to transgender women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2820 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - A few weeks ago I noticed my boyfriend had sent a friend request to a young lady. When I went to her page her pics were mostly of her in sexy lingerie and telling all to visit her on webcam. I also noticed she had obvious breast implants and a ...

His family want us to marry, mine don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I 'was' dating this guy for a little over two years. We have both met each other's families and all was well until last December when his family started asking him to get married. Now the problem is I am in my early 20s ...

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

Is it too soon to sleep with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I need your opinions and thank you in advance. I am 40 dating a guy who is 48 for 3 weeks. We have been on 16 dates already. I know it is too much with some standards but he is just head over heels for me and has told all his family and friends and ...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a jo...

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I ...

How should I deal with moving into an adult relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - There's this one boy who I have known since I was 4 and we've always been good friends and ever since we were about 15 we've been very flirty and make jokes about messing about with each other, sex and stuff like that. Last year he got together with ...

Date expressed a racial preference and it doesn't sit welll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I've been dating this guy for the last few weeks. He fawns over me, is the harmless geeky sort, does everything for me like buy me flowers and get me coffee and text me constantly. He hit on me first and I was surprised he was so enthusiastic. I'm ...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

25 February 2017 (M) - I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I deci...

He's a handsome foreigner, twice-divorced, aged 60. But all is not well in the relationship. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - Hello, I´m a single working mother of two. One is 13yo and the second 5yo. Six months ago I met a handsome foreigner twice-divorced aged 60. After 2 months, he came to live with us. He´s the first man to ever enter my household because I´ve alw...

I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things l...

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I thin...

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2826 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed w...

We are not meeting so often and he is blaming his work!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Hi, Aunts! I've been seeing a guy for 2 months now. We used to talk throughout the day and text and meet often, but of late he initiates contact less. It's very frustrating when "Work has been very hectic" is the reply I receive as an explanatio...

What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Met this awesome but shy guy for the first time in person last week. We met online on a dating site. We had planned to meet after a month or so of texting, as he had a day off from work and I had a day off the next day so it worked for us both. It ...

My best friend hates my boyfriend, I don't want to break up with him for her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love very much, however my best friend hates him and she thinks he's taking me away from her. However I hang round with my best friend a lot more than I do with my boyfriend and she gets very jealous when I'm with him . She ...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2827 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2239 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2834 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

Is it over the top to want my first date ever to be nice and memorable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've never actually been on a date before despite being my early 20s. I'm OK looking and friendly so I've been asked out, I just haven't wanted to as I am a busy girl. Anyway, I've joined an online dating site for fun and got a fair few offers ...

I hope I'm wrong but wonder based on these signs if should I just move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I normally have a really good intuition about relationships and men, but oftentimes ignore it in hopes that I am wrong. I'm sort of hoping that I'm wrong this time around, but I digress. I met with this guy about a month ago. He is older than me...

Why do I allow him to treat me like trash, throw me out and then let him back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2832 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - Hi, I would appreciate some outside perspective on the situation I'm currently dealing with. I started dating someone last year that I had known for about 10 years though granted we were mostly only acquaintances during that time with limited int...

I feel like my boyfriend is making me chose between him and my daughter

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost six years and my daughter recently moved out to go to college and tends to come home in the weekends. There have been several occasions where my boyfriend has made comments about my daughter getting ...

We were on a break for 2 weeks and he got a woman pregnant. I dont't know how I feel about this

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - Hi my question is that I have been seeing a guy casually for about 8 months now. We had quite a big argument about 6 weeks ago and there were was no contact for 2 weeks, then he got in touch, so we started talking again. Whilst we were havin...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

What are the protocols about posting and commenting on the pictures of others on social media? Or am I just being crassly controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - I am coming to social media rather late in life and am confused by the protocols that seem to liberally litter posts with kisses and hearts. So when my girlfriend posts a pic of an event she attended where I wasn't present and someone responds...

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2837 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

19 February 2017 (F) - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...