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Archived questions from: August, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend of 3 months has lost his home. Should I let him sink or try to help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - I have been dating someone for three months. He has three children whom he pays child support for as well as paying his own mortgage. Things have been going well between us and he has talked about me meeting his kids, which I am hoping to do eve...

Why doesn't my boyfriend just propose to me already? Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our mid to late 40's. Each married and divorced once and we each have 2 children at home. We have been together for more than 2 1/2 years. At the beginning of the relationship during a casual discussion, I told him that ...

I have a HUGE crush on a co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend. We have been together for many years. My girlfriend is bisexual but I cannot admit to her that I am as well. At work, I really like this guy. He makes me laugh and makes me feel good when I see ...

My boyfriend is convinced he is not "BIG" enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

31 August 2013 (F) - Hello dear internet, I have nowhere else to turn and thus I find myself here requesting your genial and honest advice. This is mostly an appeal to men, personally as a woman I don't understand it but anyone who can offer advice I will be very ...

I snooped on her computer and don't like what I found!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4135 days ago

31 August 2013 (M) - a couple of months ago i was visiting my LD girlfriend and i had lots of time alone at her place while she was at school. i snooped into her computer historial out of couriosity and i found she had visited some hook up site afew times for the last ...

Is this just his communication style, or if he's really pulling back from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I'm a well-educated, successful, fun-loving, adventurous, and attractive woman and have had no problem finding dates, when I want them. The problem has been finding guys who are emotionally available and ready for a relationship. The last ...

He's been the perfect boyfriend so why do I dread hearing from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Im so confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for six years, in the beginning we had huge problems, he cheated a number of times and because he was my first love i forgave him. however for the last four years hes been the perfect boyfriend we've gotten ...

Can I make this work or should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - I'm having relationship troubles. My boyfriend and i have been together two years. We were fine until a few months ago. I bought a house and we started doing it up together. That was stressful. Then my dad got diagnosed with prostate cancer and my ...

I said I was confused, he said he was too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - This boy really confuses me... Please help. I said I still really like you he says he still really likes me, yet he broke up with me. How does that work? When I said I was confused he said he was too. What is going on? ...

I'm curious about what my girlfriend meant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

30 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she will always love me for who I am no matter what comes or happens in between....From a female perspective, what does that mean? I'm just curious as hell. Please help............

What are the signs that would show if it is just casual with my coworker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

30 August 2013 (F) - Hey everyone I've found myself in a difficult situation with a guy I like. We work together and have been good friends since I started there about 3 months ago. We had flirted a lot but never let that come in the way at work. One night we ended up ...

Went on a group date and I'm afraid it blew my chance with the girl I'm interested in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - I don't understand my date.My date last night keep sending me messages 3 times in a row after the date. From morning, lunch and just now. I am not attracted to her the way she is into me. I can easily tell she is too much attracted to me. I wa...

Now that school has started that spark is gone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4140 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I started talking at the end of last school year (3-4 months ago.) over the summer we didn't get to see each other a lot because of our schedules but we texted constantly and when we hung out there was definitely that connection ...

I think I'm dating an alcoholic. What can I do to help him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - I believe I'm dating an alcoholic. Is there any hope? He's so great when he's sober. We both like to dance and have a few drinks, so for the last 6 months I've been in a bit of denial I guess. Where as I can stop at 3 drinks all night at a night...

Am I overreacting or being unrealistic? Am I wrong to distrust her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - This will be a long question, thanks to anybody who reads it and tries to help me! I have been dating my girlfriend for about two and half years. We're both strong-willed people but I guess she's probably a little more hard-headed than...

Why does my boyfriend "like" girls on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4138 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - Hello, my bf and I are together more than 2 years. We love each other very much (at least I think so), but what bugs me that he "likes" strange girls on facebook from time to time, the pages like Pretty girls etc. I don´t know why he does that, it ...

He is begging for us to get counselling but I think he's lying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

29 August 2013 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost two years and we have had our share of ups and downs. Lately, we have been fighting because he cannot understand the concept of me telling him no when it comes to the bedroom activities. I don't say no all the ...

My girlfriend has body-image issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 months now and everything is great i couldn't be happier. now two things id like advice on number one when im not with her for a few days which has been regular as I go to my mums w...

I don't understand my ex. Does my ex have issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - My relationship with my ex ended almost 6 months ago as she had been raped 12 months ago. She was able to tell me just a couple details to start with but admitted she had an orgasm. she said she couldn't get it out of her mind or understand how i...

I like my friend but she has a boyfriend. Want to end this friendship but don't want to regret it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

29 August 2013 (M) - Hi, so kind of a long question here. So a while ago I ended up telling one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and that I had very strong feelings for her. Anyway she was super cool about it but said that she only saw me as a ...

My partner is still tied to his family and I am a secret. Did I do the wrong thing by giving up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I am divorced with two children and met another divorced man with three children, a couple of years after we were both divorced. My ex and I are amicable and have successful custody arrangements, although fairly traditional. My partner and his ex ...

Boyfriend wants us to go travelling with his female friend for 2 weeks but I don't want to do this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i are 23 and live together, we've been together 4 years and have lived togther for 3 and a half years! We are happy but do argue evey now and then as couples do! We live about 30 mins away from his parents and friends so he se...

I get physically sick when my boyfriend looks at other women in front me or talks how beautiful women are. What should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - I am starting to wonder if I need to seek professional help as I am concerned about my mental and physical state. My reaction to my boyfriends looking at women in front of me and his fixation with a female co-worker is starting to affect my mental...

I want to approach this amazing girl but don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

28 August 2013 (M) - To make a long story short, So There is this really cute girl in my art class and she sits at the same table as me i see her everyday and i even got her at lunch time but i go sit with her because shes always with her friends and i don't want seem ...

Short men: Have you ever found a tall woman attractive? Would you approach her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

28 August 2013 (F) - This may come off as a strange and unusual situation, so bear with me here. I've heard that many men who are under 6 feet tall feel inadequate about being short and overlooked by women for their tall counterparts. Then there's me. I'm a 6'2" w...

Why do guys take girls for granted in dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Why is it that when a guy wants to date you,he will do everything possible to get you and when you finally accept to date him,for sometime he will reduce the things he used to do when he was wooing you like not calling more often and not seeing you ...

Friend of my ex was put up to break my heart! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, About 2 years ago,I met this guy at my gym we had the same trainer we started talking,hit it off,he asked me out but from the very start I wasn't looking for anything serious,I made it clear to him..he fell in love with me things g...

I'm afraid I'll move in with boyfriend but end up spending most of my time alone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm looking for some second opinions on my situation if that's ok? So I'm 28 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He is 26. He has just asked me to move in with him but I'm not sure if I want to or not. The main re...

I'm worried about boyfriend's immaturity and lack of boundaries

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm trying to figure out if my relationship is good for me or not, me and my boyfriend have had a fair few disagreements, we do usually talk it through sensibly and both feel good afterwards. But there has been one topic that keeps coming...

Is my boyfriends behavior with 16 year-olds daughter friend appropriate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I am a 35 year old women in a relationship with a 38 year old man. We have a good relationship and have been together for about 7 months. Recently, I was at his daughter sweet 16 birthda...

He wanted a break and a week later says he wants to be with me. Is he just playing games?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - I been seeing someone for 8 month everything was good then about a week ago got he say he need a break to sort out what he want but yesterday he said he want to get back together a again he said he want to be with me and that he got sacred that why ...

My g/f makes me wait hours between texts. I don't like her behavior!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4140 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - hi guys. a few nights ago, my girlfriend came home after spending the night with one of her friends. she texted me "heeey" with a smiley face to let me know she was back. and i replied in about 10 seconds or so. then she disappeared for ...

How do I step up my game with guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I've been single for nearly two years, and even though I'm not rushing to be in a relationship again, I can't help but to be a little concerned about how I am seen by men and how I interact with them. Having just graduated fro...

What should I do with an old jealous ex I shared 6 years of my life with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

27 August 2013 (F) - I dated my ex for a little over six years before I'd had enough of his pessimism and serious lack of a sex drive (believe me, I tried everything to keep him happy and satisfied). Honestly, there wasn't a lot of give and take involved. Clearly, he ...

Was she suddenly aloof? If so, why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

27 August 2013 (M) - Hi, I am an older guy, early 40s, messed up some key choices in life. Am single, have middling job, somewhat shy. Not so much experience with women, though trying to get better. In the beginning of summer, a woman from work called me to tel...

My boyfriend's brother has been texting me really inappropriate stuff after I had a fight with my boyfriend. not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - I have been going out with a guy for the pass 7 months we get along well and we like each other. He has been abroad working back home for the pass 3 months he will be gone for 7 months. We are in contact daily and I am going to see him in ...

Is it OK for me to ask a girl to dress the way I like girls to dress when we go out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

26 August 2013 (M) - I would appreciate opinions on how to approach this, or indeed if to say anything at all. I seem to have some type of "fetish" where if a girl is dressed in a certain kind of way, she becomes irresistable to me. Not sluttish, certain types of...

His behaviour has changed and he insults me now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - Hello! I'm really hoping someone can shed some light on this for me. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and at first he seemed like such a gent, hence the reason I wanted to be with him! Anyway, there's been a few peculiar happ...

How soon is too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

26 August 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid! I've been dating my best friend for a two weeks now. We have been friends over a 6 years and now it finally became real relationship. He's 23, I'm 21 and we are crazy about each other. The thing is, I'm a virgin and he is not. In...

Why do I attract more attention from guys when I am travelling, but not when I am in my own country?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4142 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - My questions is why do attract more attention from guys when I am travelling, but not when I am in my country? I travel a lot:3 months out of the year. Sometimes it's for work but also for pleasure. I am always looking forward to my trips because...

Been single for 2 months, met someone nice. Is it too soon to be venturing into something new?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - I am 16 years old and I think for the first time in ages I have met someone nice. So far in my life I've been in two relationships both of which have been violent, abusive and I've just been cheated on and been stupid enough t...

Am I just being paranoid and irrational and needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

25 August 2013 (F) - Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I've dated many guys but I only really fell deeply in love with a couple of them and I did fall deeply in love with him. A long time ago I dated an emotionally abusive guy and he also cheated ...

I fear I am being used and lied to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - I need to know if my boyfriend is lying and using me. The thing is my boyfriend used my computer to go on to Facebook and forgot to log out. I noticed this and automatically went to do so when I saw my name in a concerning way so I read it. I felt ...

My girlfriend won't allow me any space, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4145 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - At the beginning of my first year at university I split with a long term girlfriend who I had been dating since I was 14. We reasoned that it would be difficult to maintain a relationship over long distances especially in what would be a trying and ...

How can I reconcile my idea of love with reality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 August 2013 (M) - Hey folks, this post might be a bit long and unorganized so stick with me please. I'm 23 year old male virgin currently studying philosophy. As you can easily guess, my problem lies with women. I never really had any intimate contact with women, n...

How can I break up if I still have some love left for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - 3 weeks ago my jealous boyfriend and I had a fight, I was in college and I just finished classes so I decided to go home, but I ran into a female friend of mine and her male friend and we started talking, I texted my boyfriend this because I had ...

How to tell your boyfriend he's starting to look unattractive?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - My long term boyfriend (29) has really changed his appearance. He used to have gorgeous hair, wear good clothes and look his age. Recently however, he's started to look older and older! He now cuts his hair so short he's nearly bald looking and says ...

How do I get my friend to stop liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hello dear aunts and uncles :) I go to college and I have a best guy friend there, we understand each other really well, he's nice and one of the best friends in general I've ever had. I suspected he might be into me and recently he confirmed he ...

Do I keep boyfriend? Or stop dating him because I'm falling for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - Hi all, I'm feeling really confused now and advice would really mean a lot to me. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year but I might be falling for someone else. Let's call him B. B knows that I'm attached. But we text all the time, to ...

My boyfriend is trying to stir up drama when all I want to do is talk to him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4143 days ago

24 August 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is on a lads holiday at the moment and last night he dropped me a message that he had to be honest and on his first night he had kissed another girl but it didn't mean anything. I told him I was glad he told me but I wasn't going to ...