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Dating: Help and advice

What should I think about my boyfriend, having an on-line profile on a dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Strangely enough i found my boyfriends profile on a dating site a month ago.(me and my friend were messing around and came across him) Im pretty sure hes had that for a while probably before he even met me. i went to look back to see if he deleted ...

Too soon to invite him to a wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so my cousin's wedding is in a month. I mentioned it to my boyfriend and he hesitated..'hmmmm June 19th? ummmm no.' I was like 'ok.' He brought up some lame excuse about his B-day celebration. His B-day is (8) days before the wedding date. ...

I need your views on this. Is he still in love with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Ok my guy and I have been together almost a year, we are engaged and buying our first home together. I'm kinda scared to go on with this because I think he misses the first girl he was engaged to in high school! They were thogether 3 years and he ...

Have I rumbled him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Just started to see a guy that still lives with his ex, they broke up in feb and he cant move out until sept. we have been intimate but he does not want to make it official that we are together just yet. Im quite affectionate and like to send and ...

How can I get these girls to stop kissing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are very happy together, but girls keep coming up to me and touching me and doing other stuff when they know I have a girlfiend. Like today this girl from a different school came up to me and kissed me on the lips!!!! and my gf ...

Should I tell her about this lap dancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend since last September. We get on great and I'm generally honest with her. With one exception - sex. Before I met her, I was single for a year and during this time I visited a lap dancing club and paid for an ...

How can I make myself prettier??? I want to WOW him.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - im looking for advice on how i can make myself prettier. please not i am NOT looking for answers of people telling me beauty is on the inside, or its about confidence or anything like that. i want advice about physical thing i can do. My boyfr...

Girlfriend is sabotaging relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My gf and I have been happily dating for nearly a year. Recently though, she's been out of sorts, crabby, non-loving, and generally miserable. She has self admittedly never been in a good healthy long-term relationship, and in fact, her life has ...

Help! How can I put his mind at ease?

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11 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three months now, but lately we've been having problems. Back when we first kissed, I was officially seeing someone else, so in effect I cheated on my last bf. I broke up with him straight away though, and have ...

Is it possible for a guy to be 'best friends' with a lovely looking girl and not be interested in her?

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11 May 2009 (F) - This is a question mostly for the guys... Is it possible for a v. horny, 24 year-old guy to be 'best friends' with a lovely looking girl and not be interested in her? My boyfriend of 1 year has a friend who moved to another country a coupl...

How to ask aguy if he wants to see each other after sleeping together?

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11 May 2009 (F) - basically , a guy ive been un-ofically seeing, which i get on amazing with though when he actaully meets me.Yet we talk online and text alot.:(i have made most the effort to see him,but he came so he must have liked me to some point) ..Weve been on ...

Will I ever find a guy who really likes me back?

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11 May 2009 (F) - always picking a guy i really like who doesn,t like me but always likes some one eles.i mean a guy i really really like .will i ever find a guy who i really like who like me back.i,ll always be alone by the looks of it ...

Shd I call her and ask how her exam went?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt love her...i cared for her a lot and really struggled a lot to push her away and i have broken all contacts ...she meant a lot to me and it was so painful to dump her ...somehow i have been able to reduce the ...

How to get over a breakup once and for all (worked for me)

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11 May 2009 (M) - Hi, this isn't a question, but a tip, how to get over a bitter breakup Someone suggested it to me and it worked. all you have to do get pen and paper, and start stating every last negative aspect of the person you broke up with. name EVERYTHING....

How can I win back the love of my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - Hi, my ex girlfriend and I have been going out for 1 year 3 months. I have not been the best boyfriend in the world to her. One time at the begging of our relationship sent was planning on sleeping with another guy. We talked about it and I told her...

Why does everything I do go wrong?

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11 May 2009 (F) - The thing is i have been going out with this person for 2year, and we are planning to get married this sumer.There is one thing i don't get, first everything as to go his way cuz i can't do anything about it i realy love him so much, I have to speak ...

How do people keep their LDR going?

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11 May 2009 (F) - Your all probably going 2 think im sad! But ive been with my boy a while now and we see each other evryday. Yesterday he went away to work for 2 weeks and i just feel like i can't cope! Im trying to fill my time and have made plans. I just cannot ...

Do I wait until he asks to see me or do I ask to see him?

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11 May 2009 (F) - after meeting a week ago the most amazing guy i have seen him 3 times we are now into the 2nd week and we have not made any plans to get together again yet but i do know he has a busy week ahead. so the question is do i just wait until he asks to ...

How tall is too tall?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - So, uh, ladies... what height do you prefer on guys? What's gotta be the bare minimum height you like on a guy? And if there's such a thing as too tall, beyond what height would that be?...

If a guy is into you...wouldn't he text you a lot!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - its been just a week and i have been seein a younger guy (14 years) he is so sweet and attentive when i see him and says he wants to see how things go, but when we r not together he is very quite maybe a couple of texts a day, if a guy is into (like ...

I can't stop thinking of this former nephew, (by marriage)!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hello all, Just over a week ago, I was at a funeral for my children's grandmother on their father's side. We have been divorced 7 years now, he's remarried and all is good. So, I was re-acquainted with everyone, including one of my nephew's (by...

I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me...do I come last, in his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I get jealous of anything my boyfriend does with out me! If he texts his friends more than me. Or goes out without me. Etc Things like this. I feel that if he does stuff without me he will want to do it all the time. And i come last! Its like ...

Should I ask him out or wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Okay, so basically. I like this guy who's my friend, but I kind of like him as a boyfriend, we've dated twice already and I am wondering if he likes me back because he always lets me choose the topic of conversation and he's always calling my name ...

He hasn't texted me like he usually does! What's happening here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I know this might sound slightly petty but here goes... Ive been with my boyfriend for eight months. He has a full time job and I'm in six form. He's up early most days for work, and he always gives me a morning text and to see how i am, then h...

I have no more tears and I'm heartbroken! How long should I wait for him to call? .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hi after 2 weeks I have not called my ex boyfriend. I have good days and then I have bad days. I'll briefly explain what happened. I dated my guy for 3 years, there have been good times and there have been bad times. But at the end of the day, we ...

Playing hard to get backfired, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - i've made a big mistake and now i don't know how to handle it. I was with a lad for about 6months but we kept it casual although he would make the effort to speak to me everyday and we got on so well, but because of a previous bad experien...

I went and spoilt it all by saying something stupid....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - i've been dating this guy officially for only a little more than a week, but we've liked each other for a long time. he is very open and affectionate with me and is always telling me how much he likes me. this weekend i accidentally let is slip out ...

Am I the one to blame?

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11 May 2009 (F) - Hi Just wanted a bit of advice, well to see if I am to blame or not!! My b/f and I were together about 6/7 months. He had a bad temper, but thinnking back I don't know if it was my fault. When we first got together he told me he loved me near eno...

Why tell me nothing's changed and we're still seeing each other if he refuses to see me/go out with me/actually date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I've been trying to get over this situation but I'm stuck! I met a guy a few weeks ago. He'd just gotten out of a 6 month relationship a few weeks before he met me, where the girl cheated on him. I knew this and tried to be cautious around ...

Why do men suddenly stop contact, why cant they just be honest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hi, maybe a guy could answer my question or problem. To cut a long story short, my best friend (male) left his partner and children 8 months ago. We have been more than friends now for 4 years. When he left he disappeared off my radar for 2 ...

Do some people just grow apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend of 17 months have been really loved up. I felt as though nothing would ever come between us, my soul mate, I was just so in love with him and knew that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. But as of recently...

I need help with my trust issues...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - help! im a 29yr old woman with a 10yr old daughter from a previous relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend (the 2nd one ive had since the split from my daughters dad when i was pregnant) for nearly two yrs...but i still dont entirely trust him and ...

Should I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - Should I dump my girlfriend? We have been together for about a year now. My problem is I always feel I am the one driving our relationship and organising things for us and doing things for her. My bday was on this sat just gone and she didnt...

How can I build my self-esteem and learn to approach girls I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I go to an all boys school, so I dontb see that many girls. Very often, but in my town there is this girl who I think I love, thing is, I have a really low self esteem and I have only ever talked to her once. We barely ever see each other and I ...

How can I tell if he is interested in being more than just friends?

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11 May 2009 (F) - I am attracted to a man i know through work but im not sure if he is just being polite or if he is actually interested in me. We flirt via email on a weekly basis (not daily though)he usually initiates it and keeps touching on a private joke ...

I'm not sure how long I can continue being punished by him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice please. My bf wanted to know everything from my past, every last detail of who I was with, what I did with them, when, where etc etc. When he asked who I had slept with I lied. Reduced the number mainly as I was ashamed and regr...

Am I overeacting or should I just wait for him to open up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for two months. we met in January, constantly hung out i seriously lost count since then till he asked me to be his girlfriend. within dating him for a month i told him i loved him because i couldnt help ...

Is it me....or him? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years now...we have had our fair share of ups and downs and have split before for 3 months, but started to see each other again because he said that he really loved me and that he has really ...

He hit me several times but I cheated on him....what's worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - He hit me several times but I cheated on him once. Whats worse ?? I cheated on him first month we got together and i continued to like the same guy for 3 months while i was with him. He forgave me and we stayed together. We've been together fo...

I turned him down when he came on to me but now I want to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I need some help. My head is wrecked over this!! Apologies for the length. I'm a girl, and one of my best friends is a boy. I met him about two and a half years ago when he started working for the same company as me. We've always been clos...

What should I do to be friends with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Sorry it's a bit looong.. Well, I have already finished my last year of high school, there are only some exams to take, but I have a minor crush on a teacher (or not really a crush, I just like him). He's 20 years my senior, has a wife and two kid...

I'm sure she still has feelings for me....what should I do to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I have this friend who used to really like me but i was unavalible. Things changed and i started to like her but she no longer liked me and things became wierd between us since we were friends. I still really like her and recently she has...

Is she playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - ok this is the last time. im too confused and in love yet I feel like im doing a pop quiz I didn't study for. so I wrote two other questions I would appreciate if they where read before you continue reading this one. I feel it would help you to ...

Should I give him another chance after he broke up with me and slept with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for almost 5 years and we lived together for almost 4. Recently I moved in with my mom to save money and he broke up with me and immediately slept with someone else. Now he wants to earn me back and says hes done with her. He even ...

Are we really meant to be? Why do we keep coming back to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I will try to make this brief but there's a lot of history ..I have an ex boyfriend who I started dating about 10 years ago the first year or two were rocky...then had some really good times for about four years. The happiest times of my life where ...

I am confused by his behavior and what he says

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11 May 2009 (F) - would you think a guy like that can be trusted?by what he said also said some thing opposite to that"hes not giving any thing away" then he said no girl will have him and laughs next thing he said.i,ll be on the look out for a girlfriend and y...

He doesn't take me seriously

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5360 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - ? continue to see the man I dated last year although there isn’t a relationship between us. When I tell him that I want to see him more and be together he doesn’t take me seriously. Sometimes I try to be more hard and serious so as to make him ...

How can a woman initiate kissing? What else could I do to show I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I am 32 and i am interested in this guy hes 44. I feel 100% safe with him (he knows people in my family-who happens to be in police force-hes not going to hurt me). We were both hurt in last relationship. Thing is mine was my first relationsh...

How can I skip this boring repetitive play?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - I seem to attract alot of attention when i dont try, but when i show an interest..thats when the games begin. so whats the best way to take it from the 'initial interest' and skip this boring repetitive game play? and how can you tell the diff...

I'm not supposed to beloved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I am sure I am not alone in feeling this way, but has anyone ever felt like they weren't supposed to be loved? That it was something that was meant for others but not yourself. I guess it is a different way to feel. I don't know what to think most ...

I'm heartbroken, confused and don't know what to think or do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who is in the middle of his divorce decided to go away for one week to Europe after finding out I had gone on a date several months after we started dating. At that time, December 08/January 09, he had been acting standoffish, distant ...

She's obsessed with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - Hey, this is my second question about my current relationship with my boyfriend, zack.. This month will be two years with my boyfriend... We have been going through some MAJOR up and downs, and plenty break-ups mostly to do with trust issues. I ...

Am I being pathetic or is there something going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

11 May 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend nearly ten months. And everything is perfect. He's so loving and we have up to now not had one argument or anything. When me and my friends get together and have boy talks, i always say how much i trust him and ...

She keeps kissing me, but she has a boyfriend.I can't say no to her.help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 May 2009 (M) - My friend and I have admitted to liking eachother a lot. But she has a boyfriend. I had noticed one time a little bit ago that while we were cuddling (we cuddle and rub noses all the time it's just our thing) we had come very close to kissing. Then ...