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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I can't see a future for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Ok here it goes, I met this guy about a month ago and straight away we were constantly seein each other and talking and we both knew there was something there. Then i had to tell him i was leaving to go to london in sept and i dont know what w...

Do I disappear until after the court case is handled?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have a problem with the man that I am dating now...the issue that we have come across is that the man that i am dating is going through a nasty custody battle and recently divorced. I have been dating him for about four months now and he has been ...

How do you cope if they don't return your love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't k...

Why does he say he has no money when I'm about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Right, first things first i love my boyfriend very very much and were about to celebrate our 2 yr anniversary however.. He is so selfish and whenever i bring this up he loses it and has a go at me making me feel small and in the wrong. For insta...

Will my lack of confidence with chatting on the phone affect a future relationship with this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have recently begun dating a lovely man, who I really like, and get along with well. We have only be on two dates, which were fantastic, and have plans for more. My question is about communication - we text/email and IM every day, but...

We aren't together but he sure shows signs that he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Ok lets say i a guy showed he liked you, used to stare at you loads and just really showed it and you coul sense there was something there. Then someone got jealous and so turned people against me which made people think i wasnt a nice ...

Love? Or just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - hi so im 20 years old and i've finally met a really decent guy he's really sweet to me he sends me really amazing texts, and when he does i get butterflies! do you think this could be love? or do you think it's just because he's being nice? ...

Should I just kiss him?

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8 May 2009 (F) - ok i kiss my boyfriend and im not sure how i should kiss him again! cause i just went to the carnival and well i was with my b0oyfriend and then he kissed meh and well im not sure if i just go up to him and kiss him or if i kiss him when i leave can ...

My best friend broke us up then she dated him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I can't get over this situation and it drives me nuts, it's been about 3 years and this is the story. I've had this friend (let's call her X) and we'd known eachother since 4th grade. Inseperable for most of our friendship. In 11th grade I started ...

Scared to tell the guy I like my true feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - im 15 and im gay and i really like this guy and weve spent a lot of time together and hes really friendly towards me im not sure if hes gay im a bit nervous to tell him about my feelings im a bit worried about it getting out that im gay i really ...

Left in limbo - he went from being very interested in me to not wanting to see me at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I think I ruined a potentially good thing...did I? I met a guy online (let's call him W) and we had our first date a few weeks ago. It was great and I haven't felt that comfortable around someone new in a long time. He asked me out again and th...

Do guys prefer city girls or country girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I live in the country/farm. I am good house keeper and I can cook,clean and I like doing DIY using hammers and plyers. Would a guy like me or would he like city girl with high heels and painted nails and short skirts who works in office compared to ...

Madly in love with a man who is engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - hi am in the same situation as all of u, i am involved with a man for the past 3 yrs and he is already engaged i am madly in love with him bt he is still with his fiancee most of th e time he spent with me infact when i say i'll leave he come to ...

What is wrong with this woman? I think she has a personality disorder!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I just received this email from my gf. We just recently got back together after a week apart. We were texting back and forth on Saturday and she ended up calling at 4am after knocking on my apartment door at 3am. Sunday and Monday night she made ...

Applied to be his carer...now he is coming on very strongly!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles, This is not a problem, I just please please need your views/advise on the matter because im not sure how to react to this myself. Im a Healthcare Student studying at Uni at the moment. I have a few years yet before i graduate, b...

He keeps asking me if I'm a virgin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I went out on one date with this guy, and then the next day we were talking through text messages and he asked me if I was a virgin or not. I told him I didnt feel comfortable answering that at this stage yet and he said thats ok I dont have to ...

Our relationship seems to be going backwards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a nearly 4 years now and whilst he still makes me happy we seem to be in reverse - we moved in together almost immediately and since then we've taken steps back. Living together turned into living alone which now ...

Is it possible to have a LDR with someone you've just met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago, I met this guy and after chatting non stop for days on end, he asked me out on a date. We went out on a couple more as well. I think it went really well, and he seemed/seems to like me,as he said he thinks im absolutely gorgeous ...

Worried my girlfriend might be in love with an ex-student of her's!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - I've been dating a woman for one year. We've been very romantic together, the lovemaking was always good, we communicate well, everything seems or seemed wonderful. Recently, however, she mentioned how she is being contacted from an ex-student of ...

Is there a nice way of telling him that I want to end things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - For the last 7 years, i have been in a casual relationship with my ex boyfriend. It has been fun and all, but I dont want to contiue on with this relationship as it has become quite empty and meaningless. I do like him very much, but our ...

I want advice on older women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - Hey all I'm 16 almost 17 and I'm talking to this 19 year old... She thinks I'm a bit older - 18. I think she wants a casual relationship thing. I want to know a couple of things: 1. Do other people find that weird? 2. To the women, are you...

Am I ever going to find someone that loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Am i ever going to find someone that loves me? I'm 20 and i feel really sad. i have never had a boyfriend. When i was 6-9yo and 13yo i was sexually abused and even though i know it wasn't my fault i kind of have always felt 'dirty' and as if i...

I suspect that he's talking to someone else and he doesn't know what he wants anymore

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8 May 2009 (F) - i have been involved with this guy for about 4 months already. and things were going good up until last month, he had heard something about me that wasn't true but was having a hard time believing me and taking my word. i kept trying to convince him ...

Twin brothers dilema!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I am having such a terrible dilemma for the past 4 years.My best friend has two brothers. Twin brothers. One twin was bad, always in trouble and gone. The other was sweet, hard working and funny. One summer me and the good brother started kissen ...

Is this guy into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - there was this guy in my class last year i've talked to him and flirted but i guess it wasnt that much of flirting cuz he couldnt see the board and he was a skater boy so he didnt want to wear glasses..so i would always help him out and tell him wat ...

My boyfriend would rather climax watching porn, than satisfiy me, what can I do about this, please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He enjoys porn alot. I mean alot. At first we had sex frequently and he appeared to enjoy himself. I have always had a high sex drive myself. However, when we were first together he did not ...

How can I rectify this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We are in love and have been since the day we met. There has always been a light at the end of the tunnel in our situation but recently (the last month or so) I have been a little pessimistic about ...

Should I wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (M) - So, yeah, I'm in love with this girl (and I don't use that word lightly) and she loves me too. We've loved each other since like 10th grade and we're both Seniors now. For some reason we can never get together...I put in my best efforts and she ...

Help! I think I'm in love with my colleague

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - I've been working for this company for about four months now. I wasn't interested in this man until one day, our system collapsed and our teams were forced to lay down their duties. I haven't made any plans for that unexpected day off. So, I asked...

First love, how to move on when I am still so young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

8 May 2009 (F) - Well first of all I'm 13. I don't know how to get over my ex boyfriend and it's been 4 months.I have a boyfriend that I like very much but I have no idea how to get over my ex can some one please help me???!!!!!?????...