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Archived questions from: 16 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know what to do! My girlfriend is rude and very insensitive to me..Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hey there, My girlfriend is always very rude when I want to talk to her about my feelings or stuff that bothers me. She sometimes makes me very sad or angry, and she doesnt seem to care. Today i had a fight with her about this , and she kept...

What if I am missing out on the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Finally moving in a week but not sure if I might be making the right decision. My bf and I had been together in a LDR for 5 years. Our relationship, has gone through a lots of down. He has lied to me on several occasions; and even though he says ...

We're both shy, but I think she might like me. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hello, im only 15 and i really want to go out with a shy girl I told her i liked her and have asked her out inside of our school yearbook later after class she told me she didn't no she liked me and that she couldn't date becasue her parent...

She doesn't believe me! She wants me to prove it! She wants more! What do I do??

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16 May 2009 (M) - ok, idk what to do so i was thinking someone might be able to help. ive been with my girlfriend for 5 months, but she “doesnt believe me” when i tell her i love her. (i do). but its a little more complicated than that, she wants me to show her i ...

It's the "Carrie-Aiden-Big Sex In the City" triangle come to life! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - im currently in a situation that can be likened to the Carrie-Aiden-Big triangle on sex and the city. My 'Aidan' is a boy i've been distant friends with for about two years now, following the demise of his relationship we grew closer and recen...

Should I go? Afterall, he's an absolute stranger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - i met a guy after a night out randomly on the street in town when every one pours out from the clubs. He was very goodlooking and smart - not some tipsy guy. we exchanged numbers and now, a few days on, he wants to meet up for a drink. i want to go ...

I don't know if he cares about me but I still love him after everything.

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16 May 2009 (F) - hey, i lost a guy who meant the world to me a while ago he was my first love and best friend for four years, and he left without saying why. the only one i can think of is that hes moving away, and he is trying to help me let go because he saw how ...

GF problems help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hi well i've been with my gf for 1 year in 2 month. Lately are relationship been having problems. We are actually in long distance relationship we live like 6hr away from each other so we rarely see each other lately. She always talks about how ...

Love gives pain

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16 May 2009 (M) - my girl friend is loving me so much from 6 months but now she is speaking with other boy over the phone i told her i dont like it but she said i'll flirt over the phone only nothing more i love u so much. i had fought with her she is still speaking ...

Girlfriend needs a break because shes afraid

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16 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and myself have been dating for 8 months now, we meet at college and things were going fine. At the start of summer vacation she tells me she needs a break because she afraid of commitment. Shes told me she is eventually going to need ...

Colour, hair and personality...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Do guys prefer blonde girls to black haired girls? Do they prefer them tall or short, tomboy or girly girly type? Do they prefer a heavy girl with blond hair who is short and heavy or black haired who is short and heavy?? ...

She's been with some "big" guys. What if I'm too small for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - My girlfreind and i have been dating for almost 3 weeks but about 5 months ago we dated for about 3 weeks.(because she broke up with me) and weve gotten a lot closer since then. She thinks that sex is very important in a relationship. I love her ...

My boyfriend goes on forever... I can't get him to finish! Help!

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16 May 2009 (F) - This is not a handjob qestion by the way, whenever i give my bf a hand job I never seem to get him to - finish - he does seem to like it judging by his sounds and comments but i can give him a 45 mins hand job - im not exadurating - he precums and ...

I'm 16 and want a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Im 16 and need a boyfriend i know, i dont NEED one. i just feel like a failure for not having one, im not pretty, but i dont think im THAT ugly either - pretty short, brunette, size 10-12 (8 in like mum type shops). I just want tips on how to g...

He thinks I was cheating

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16 May 2009 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend live quite a distance from each other and the nights we are apart which are more often than not we talk on the phone before bed usually around 11pm Last night i had a very bad headache and text him at 9pm to say i was going ...

Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up

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16 May 2009 (F) - I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to ...

Is it too soon to be in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - is this too soon?? im 18 chatted to a guy from the net for over two months to be honest he has always chased me and fancied me more then i did to him..but then i decdied we should meet. first time we met i had my first kiss with him and he to...

My much older boyfriend is engaged to another woman, but I know he really likes ME!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Im 18 and the man im seeing is 34. we are smitten by each other... we see each other nearly every day, send over 100 texts to each other daily and cant keep our eyes off each other. I have never felt this way about anyone before! There is the small ...

Whats the point in dating a guy when his friends all hate you and scream at you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - i feel really really bad. i've been going out with this guy on and off for only 3 months now and we get on great but he's friends really don't like me cause my ex goes to there school. me and my ex had a very bad ending to our relationship. ...

Is this going too fast?

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16 May 2009 (F) - i just had my first date with my boyfriend last night. ive been with other guys but this date tops all of them... we both agreed to take this relationship slow. we started watching the movie and holding hands and the whole lay my head on his ...

Is there a textbook on love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I am now living in another city to work. Every now and then, I feel want to call my gf to talk. When I think about it, I been calling her 2 to 3 times a day, mostly during our lunch time and while she is driving home. We get less thi...

He says I have insecurities but I don't!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I been seeing this guy for 5 months now, we saw alot of each other in the beginning but now he seems to forget to call, i have spoken with him and sometimes when he cant get me right away and we have plans he goes and does something else. he said ...

How can I believe he loves me when he hurt me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this girl for the longest time- we've been through every situation possible and I love her to death. A few years ago, I told her that i was really starting to like this boy. She looked shocked and a bit mad, but said she was ...

He changed after we had sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year and three months. I love him, a lot. He claims he loves me, and he was always so sweet and just felt like I could talk to him about anything. But, we had sex after being together for about six ...

My ex b/f is trashing my reputation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My ex boy friend is mad we broke up so he’s treating me bad..... of course he does this to every ex girlfriend but he been doing this for over 2 months and when I go out with some one else he starts rumors and drama he also convinces my boyfriend at ...

I love him but he doesn't want to commit ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy exclusively for 8 months, I lost my virginity to him, I absolutely love him, but he doesn't feel the same.He says he is confused, he says half of him wants to be in a relationship with me, and the other half wants to see ...

Is this considered illegal?

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16 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, If someone over the age of eighteen (this is in America, by the way) engages in an ABSTINENT relationship with PARENTAL CONSENT from both sides, is it still considered to be illegal? ~Wondering~...

We're already going out, but he hasn't asked me to the dance

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16 May 2009 (F) - How to you get a guy to ask you to the roaring 20's dance and we are in love but how do i get him to ask me in like 5 days befor the 20 of may please help me i don't know how to i'm lost....

What is going on in this "relationship"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I'm African American. So I snogged a co-worker that I was close friends with at a party and his Caucasian friends seemed to have a problem with it. At work everything was as normal and we were chillin out as usual. He told me he did not want a ...

Does my crush like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Does my crush like me or not? please answer Ok here it goes when i came to this school i didnt like or have a crush on him but for the past 2 weeks he keeps looking at me each time i look at him back he looks away but barely he stays eye con...

How do I get the stupid, selfish "beauties" out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - what can i do about the beauties.I have a several girlfriends,they are all lovely and smart.but i can't stop looking for the beautiful girls and even don't care what they thinking what they are,just like talking with them and wishing do anything for ...

He loves me but all I want to do is focus on moving out....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. My ex (who I dated 6 years ago.) came back into my life as friends. And he told me he loves me. I don't feel the same way and I've told him. But he doesnt under stand that I don't want to be with him like that. Infact I don't ...

I love him but I don't know if he's worth it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend i still love him with all my heart but our relationship has been falling apart he says he doesnt want to leave me but i dont understand how is it that he loves me sometimes he says things to me that hurts me or ...

How can I get my mum to let b/f stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - im 17, my bf lives 3 hours awey and train tikets cost quite alot to keep goin bak and forth to see him, how do i get my mum to let me stay at his a few nights or even just one so iget to spend more time woth him ?...