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Dating: Help and advice

I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never ...

Career or baby... what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - okay i know im gonna get some abuse from all angry pregnant teens or parents on this site, but i have a baby shaped hole that really needs filling, but im so torn i really want a baby more than anything but i really wanna get my career sorted first, ...

In the last few months everything has went downhill...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I believe I need some advice. I know the answer to the question but still need something from some one. I will make this simple. I have been with my fiancee for a year, we were friends for over 3 years. Close friends, always hung out together. ...

Engaged but not in love with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I am a 23 year old female living with my 44 year old boy friend for the past 3 years and 5 months. we broke up once for about 7 months just after he engaged to me because i fell out of love with him. Yes i lost all attraction for him. anyway for the ...

Heartbroken, confused and need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Okay, I need some help here and I don't know what to do. For the first time in my life, at 41 I have truly fallen in love. I wasn't looking and a mutual friend thought we would like each other. So 6 months ago I met this wonderful women. We ...

Co-worker crush won't go away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Hi I'll try not to waffle on too much -I'd like some advice to help clear my head up. I'm a 31 year-old man and I am very fond of a 29 year female co-worker. She is a single mother with a 6 year-old daughter and it seems the father was out o...

He invited me for coffee does that mean he fancies me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm Brenda and i'm 37.. been married no kids.. well i have a sandwich business and deliver to various offices, well theres this one guy who is hot - really hot - he has his own office (just him working there) we always chat for ages anyway he ...

Why won't she tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I am confused about why I cannot get an answer from the girl I like about whether or nor she would go out on a "proper date" with me. We have met many times, she has been to my place and vice versa (she cooked for me) and she has said things that...

Dream about friend's g/f..mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - okay first before i tell you my problem, i'd just like to say, i'm a good person, i dont cheat on girls,i'm a stand up guy, nice to all my mates, and they know that. i'd never go out fof my way to hurt some-one. right, last night i had a dream wh...

Why do I become so stubborn and difficult to deal with when it comes to my boyfriend!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok, I am engaged to a wonderful man. We did the long distance thing for a year and a half, and I we have been living with eachother for over 3 months. Its wonderful, but in certain instances, I get upset with him and make it so hard for him to talk ...

Males please-He seems to like me but I'm unsure about how to make the first move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Of course all help and/or opinions will be much appreciated, but if possible a male's opinion would be amazing. There's this guy that I've liked for a while, probably a couple of months now and up until about 3 weeks ago, the most I'd said to...

I see a pattern here..should I be with her? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - my question is should i stay with this women who is separted from her husband and has been for 4 years. this same women has been with another man several times dating back to one year ago and now i ve caught her fancy..ive known of her for last ...

Please help I cant stay hard whilst having sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I am a 18year old boy I am going with my girlfreind now about 6 months we try having sex a lot of the time and 9 time out of 1o when we are havin sex i go soft i dont know what 2 do it is driving me mad and also her mad we have even nearly broke up ...

Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a ...

Is there a word for the male version of pretty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy and hes so nice and when we're together he calls me pretty. the thing is i dont know how reciprocate to that. he is a very good looking guy and i want to say he is but i dont know how to say that. when he says you're ...

I don't feel anything since my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend of a year broke with me in a text and and weeks later decided he wanted me back but i dont want to because he doesnt deserve any other chance with me. Its been months now and i dont think ive got any feelings for him but everytime a ...

I'm a stressed out single mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Where to start? Okay i dated this guy for about 8 months(I broke up wih him twice because i was scared to start a relationship but we put that in the past on Jan. 1st) things were really serious we were getting ready to move in to our apartment we...

Sorted things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - me and my long distance are on a break and its been 3 weeks now, and she whats to see me and work this thing out, and i am going to in 2 weeks time, also she told me that i am the one for her and now one else also the other night she was crying ...

Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going bac...

17 years and counting? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year old mom of two children ages 13 and 8. I started my relationship with their dad at the age of 14. Over the past 17 years a lot has unfolded.. Really bad times... Really good times. I try to sum it up to we were kids and had a lot of ...

Falling for someone I can never be with! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Well this is the short and long story.... I'm in a casual relationship right now, although i really do like him, actually love him alot. The thing is, i'm starting to have really very strong feelings for the company i work for, workshop manager! I ...

What is love then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons ...

Thinking twice about our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for about a month. But some things have happened that are making me think twice about our relationship. I am 20 years old and he is 24. He keeps asking me if im a virgin, how far ive gone etc. I've told him im not that ...

Do girls hate guys who are vain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - do girls hate guys that are vain? i dont walk around thinking im gods gift to every girl but i work out alot, always try and look my best, and look in the mirror loads. do girls find this a turn off?...

We were texting non-stop but as soon as I suggested we meet up he lost interest!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok hope you can help! A friend of mine was out with her boyfriend and she met one of his friends. They got chatting and he asked her did she have any single friends so she thought of me and told him about me. He seemed pretty interested anyway we ...

I think my mates girlfriend fancies me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i know this sounds big headed, but i think my mates girl fancy's me.. she's always texting me and telling me i'm cute, she always wants me around and wen im not in she beggs for me to come in, WE recently had our school prom and she was on my ar...

Do girls like guys that try really hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - do girls hate guys that try to hard? I like this girl, but she's interested in some-one else i think, anyway when i talk to her i just feel like i need to spill my feeling for her? if you get me.. but if i do will she hate it? should i hang ...

How do I accept her past?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i think my other question was rejected so im asking again. ive recently found out my girlfriends ex boyfriend used her for sex and blowjobs... alot, and pretended to love her, she was a virgin before him. im 16 and a virgin and i had always wante...

Why did something so good between us turn so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - This boy that Ive known since september use to text me every day, visit me during shop break, talk to me on the bus, make me laugh, stare at me, touch me a little. My cousin use to talk to him and people were asking him if he liked me and he would ...

He told me initially he wasn't attracted to me..he likes curvier girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please help me. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now that I met at work. We were just friends at first. Then after about 2 months of knowing each other he started giving me signals he wanted more. Our friendship deepened and we ...

Do good looks mean a better life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - do good looking guys have more options of girlfreinds and more freinds and be very popular ...

Are girls not attracted to me because I am a ladies man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - I've been single for about a year now, i took some time off from girl becuase i had exams and thing, and now i cant seem to get one, girl i like dont like me, and i dont know any girls that do. I'm not ugly, i'm funny, and have lots of female f...

I feel like he decieved me and wasted my early youth....should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy seven years ago,and six months into the relationship I asked him when we were going to get married he said soon.The following year in 2004 I asked him again and he said soon.In 2006 we had a break and we got back together in 2007,that ...

Fed up of my boyfriend's friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I'm fed up of my boyfriends friends... Me and his friends don't get on... I've tried everything to sort it out but because of me and my ex (he's at the same school as my boyfriend) had a huge argument when we broke up all his friends obviously are ...

Mr Perfect

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - We Met years ago and so happen to have a thing for each other...So we talked..we both knowing were my heart was really at...We've always been more like friends...That's it and that's all.....And then ....True feelings came about??And Yes I believe ...

Planning on marrying my fiancee but my other girlfriend is pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - morning, i'm a young guy of 33years old. i have a problem with my girl freind.the probleme is this.i have a fiancee in my own town,but i came in this small town for work almost 8 month now and i find another girl freind.before we started...

I think we are falling apart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now Iam 20 and he's 21 we have a 3 year old child together and lately I've been feeling lonely like iam in this relationship by myself we never go out or do anything fun.Were always fussing and everytime ...

Is it a good idea to stay with her even though she cheats or should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - i have a question,,i have a girl friend who ive known for 11 months and i found out she had been doing any guy she could get her mouth on ..or in her vigina.. this was before me..is it a good idea to stay with her, or let her go.. she is a n...

We really hit it off but then immediately after we met up he left me for another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I met a man 10 months ago on the internet and fell in love with him. He had everything in common with me and we instantly hit it off. We spoke for something crazy like 12 hours the first time we ever spoke to each other and it carried on that way ...

Soulmate vs the good guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Two years ago I met a man who absolutely blew me away. He was perfect for me in every way and whenever I saw him, I felt elated, happy beyond words. If there is such a thing as soulmates, he would be mine. Complications arose and I acted ...

Am I being paranoid or is she actually cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - Im not sure if its my gut or im reading into it too much, but is she cheating on me? I read into things way too much. I feel like shes cheating on me, or seeing other guys. The reasons for me thinking this way: She texts me way less than before....

I think I am in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i met this guy 6 month ago. when i met him i told him i had a boyfriend that lives in africa. he accepted it and continued to see me. at the begining i hung out with him for fun but now i started to fall for him what do i do please help....

How do we get our daughter to realise her boyfriend's a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok... here's my problem... my daughter is 19, and has been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years. We've always had our reservations about him, but to keep her happy, we've welcomed into our house, treating him like one of the family. He's repeatedly hurt ...

She is family through marriage....is it considered forbidden love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - My cousin was maried about two years ago and introduced a new family to us. but her husband soon invited his brother and his family to stay at our city. one of his daughters likes me and wants to know if theres is any chances. shes cute but i dont ...

It's very hard for me to not "relive the memory"! But I don't want him if he isnt sincere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - my ex and i dated for 2 years in high school and about 2 years on and off at college (we went to different colleges) and decided that it was too hard to have a long distance relationship and broke it off. We fought a lot, but untimately it was the ...

She's just not "in" this relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - So I have a dilemma with my current girlfriend and I'm not sure what to do. The problem I am having is I am getting a sense she is not all "there in our relationship". We have been going out for almost 7 months now. She says she is in love me and ...

Could my past be getting in the way of the present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months(talking for 4). We talk every day and send each other cute messages quite often. We get together about once a week or so since it's kind of a long distance thing. We recently had a l...

I really need to get over him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I need help, I really need to get over a guy I like, I don’t know if he likes me back and I can’t keep making myself high hopes. And I don’t want to keep waiting for something that might never happen, I thought I was over him, but whenever I see him ...

Why am I not over him yet??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really ...

Waiting, waiting, when will it come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 1 1/2 he is in a relationship, when i bring up him being with just me he says we need to wait at least 2 1/2 years before talking about getting serious, but when i tell him im going to break it off he says he won't ...

Does he like me? Should I tell him I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - i dont know any other way to tell him with out actually telling him that i like him a whole lot. he always flirts BIG time with me, and everyone notices. and he gives me hugs, but when and if he texts me its boring and plain out stupid, and also i ...

Why do I love her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - we got into a little argument, and after we got everything worked out she asked me what my reason for loving her was. i told her bc i cared about her, and that its amazing just being with her. she said that wasnt a reason. shes asked me twice, but ...

Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M) - She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ...

Polar opposites...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 May 2009 (F) - Hello all. I was just curious as to how many people have been part of or are currently part of successful relationships where you and your partner are polar opposites in your political views. I've just started going out with this guy who is extre...