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Archived questions from: 14 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he being self-conscious about the age gap or is he trying to hide something from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So I am dating an older man who is an adjunct teaching piano at a university. I'm 23 and he's 30 and we've been going out for two years. I was over at his place recently and he had to go into school to hear some of his students play in a recital ...

Torn between THREE boyfriends at the moment!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Here is what happened: I'm originally from France but study in the UK. My boyfriend (alex, not real name) of four years is still back in France and we managed to keep that long distance thing going for almost 1.5 years now. Last time I visited him ...

Would anyone EVER date a girl like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - would a guy go out with girl a with big fat face not a round face with short teeth. with long black hair, is short in height and overweight and old. no young good looking guy of 28 years old would date me. when he had a beautiful young girl...

Who should I invite to his birthday celebration? My family or his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I'm planning my bf birthday celebration. I want it to be a surprise! The trip allows 12 guests.. At first I wanted us alone but hey I'm paying for a group so might as well take advantage of it. A 2 hr. trip. Dinner and cruise. His family and ...

Fat joke that wasnt funny!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend I have been dating for 3 months told me he doesnt want me to lose weight as other men might fancy me, after seeing my hurt reaction he laughed it off saying he was joking but at the time did not seem that way...

Should be upset that after 2 years, my relationship was taken away just so that he could get his child back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me only because his child's mother came back around and now the only way he can have custody of his son is to be with this woman. Let me remind you that she took him away from him by getting him ...

Can a man forget the woman they loved so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Can a man one dated for 3 years we shared good and bad times. He is grieving over the loss of 2 family members (brother and dad)who died 2 days from one another. He said horrble things and accused me of things that were not true. During this ...

My friends have warned me about him but I see a different side to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - im 15 and the boy im seeing is 16 we're in the same year though . i need some advice because im being told by friends lots of different things and im not sure who to listen too or who is right. i dont wish to offend anyone in this because im not r...

He had permission to get oral from somone else because I don't like doing it but now I'm having second thoughts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Plz help. Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex. Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to u...

I jumped to the conclusion that he had female company over at our house....did I over-react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i live together,yesterday i had the day off from work,i worked overtime yesterday so i got home around 8pm. I usually leave pajamas in the bathroom so when im ready for them i know exactly where they are. To my surprise when i came ...

How do I tell b/f I'm through making mistakes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - how do i let my boyfriend know that im done with making my mistakes and want to take the relationship furthur?...

Am I really in love with him? What if I am....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - i met my friend at the carnival one day and well we went on rides and her mom talked to my dad saying i was coming over the next day.so the next day came and she brought her boyfriend.when i saw him i couldn't stop staring at him he was absolutely ...

I need a boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - i need help.i know im kid but i know what im talking about.i need a boyfriend.my boyfriend that i absolutely loved dumped me when i moved cn anyone help.can you tell me if i need to go to the skating rink and meet one there please help....

Involved but I think I am in love with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship for over 8 years (not married but feel like it). I love my partner dearly and sex is alright but I still have feelings (not sure what they are) for someone else. The thought of this person gives me butterf...

I don't know whether to pursue this friendship further

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Over the last few weeks I've grown closer to a female friend I've known for a few months. We're the same age and I like to think that we've grown quite close of late which is wonderful, of course. We've shared a couple of affectionate mom...

Break up with Micheal and wait for Brandon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - so i have a boy friend named micheal and me and him were and still are best friend's.. but im still in love with my ex who's named is brandon , me and brandon were together for a month .. right now brandon is datting my best friend alliyah.. brandon ...

Why did he talk about "us" if he had no intention of their being "us"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - hi i hope someone can help. nearly 2 years ago i met a guy on the net and we developed what i thought was a close friendship and relationship even though we are long distance. we have met up a few times and been intimate etc. just over a week ago he ...

He gave me a company email rather than his personal one! What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I'm leaving my company in half a week, so I gave a thank you gift for this coworker that I fancy and told him to keep in contact through an email to see how it goes. However, he got a gift for me a couple days later and wrote the exact same note ...

She's having my baby and says she loves me but then says we are just friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Hi I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months, about a month into the relationship she got pregnant, no biggy we decided to keep it I'm excited about it she thinks thats wierd. thats not the problem though. the problem is she does'nt want to ...

How do I ask him to define the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I met a guy a few weeks ago and we have been dating. However, he has now moved to a different town for work. This was planned way before I met him. Unfortunately, I only met him not long before he had to move. He moved there last week and he just ...

What's going on with this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - why is the guy I am interested in seem so distant? I cant get him to open up, we talk almost everyday on the phone just about everything under the sun except about what it is we are looking for. We have had very passionate sex only twice. he doesn't ...

He's soo nervous around me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and he was like a really close friend before and now things are just akward and he's not a shy guy but when he's around me he gets nervous. Around my best friend he's great u know ...

Are we platonic friends? Or more than a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Thank you for reading this - I am SUPER confused / hopeful about this situation. . . I became friendly with the man who lives next door. We are the same age (30), both are single, and have similar opinions and background. (I also...

15th birthday present for guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So, yeah, My boyfriend's 15th birthday is in a month and I have no idea what to get him for his birthday! I had the perfect gift for him but what I wanted to get him, was expensive and I'm on a tight budget right now so could anyone help me with ...

I don't want him to kiss me! I just want to be alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and at a hard time in life. Iv been dating this guy for 9months. He's 21 and lives with me, my mom, my little sister and my moms boyfriend. When the relationship started I fell in love with him so fast! He was my world but over time I don't ...

How much before it becomes suffocating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she love...

I feel like I have been archived like a business card..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy, Australian, a couple of months ago, we had a great talk, exchanged business cards, and mailed each other on a friendly way a couple of times in the next days. It was before a long holiday where we were both had plans to leave the ...

Does he really have an impossible schedule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - hi im 20 and i starting to talk to this guy who is a few years older that i knew about 5 years ago. we started talking online and decided to hang out well we did once it was such a blast he was a real gentalmen and very very upfront about his ...

I want her dad to accept me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - Ive got a question to anyone that can help me out. My girlfriend and I are meeting this summer for the first time and her dad rejects any guy that tries to be with her and i really want him to accept me for her but i havent got a clue on how to d...

FWB: should I pick a guy who I don't really like or who I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - So there is this guy I like. But I don't like him enough right now to date him. I'm kind of more looking for a FWB. What should I do ?? If I tell this guy I like him but just want to be FWB maybe he will just see me as that and then later on not ...

No luck with relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I was wondering if maybe you could give me some advice. I never seem to have any luck with relationships. I have many large groups of friends and enjoy socialising. I like to think that I'm a friendly, caring and outgoing person w...

Should I tell him I think I'm pregnant or wait until I'm sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I think I am pregnant but not sure. Should I tell my boyfriend what I think, or wait to find out for sure? He knows me so well, he always knows when something's on my mind that it would be hard to keep it from him....

I want a serious relationship with my cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 May 2009 (M) - three years ago i start flirting with my cousin and as the time pass by we both start falling in love.. i want ot have a serious reletionship with her but a dont know how to convence her to kiss me i want some advice to convence her ...

I want to break it up before I continue to cheat but I don't know how...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a year and a half on and off and I think im in love. The problem is that this time around that we have been going out he has been acting different from all the other times we've been together. ...

My boyfriend's soon to be ex wife is causing us problems.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 May 2009 (F) - Hi please can you help me with my dilemma. Me and my partner of 13 years seperated last september and we have 2 children. I have been dating a guy for the last few months who is currently finalising his divorce and he also has three children the ...