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Dating: Help and advice

First time (69) , clueless... please share your experiences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend wants to try a (69) and i'm up for it, the thing is I never gave him or anyone oral and I'm pretty inexperienced, unlike him so how should it go? I don't want to be under so that he doesn't smoother me and at the same time I dont ...

My boyfriend's flat mate treats him like dirt and I'm slowly boiling up inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's flat mates. He has been living with them for 2 years now and they are not very nice people. He only lives with them because he has nowhere else to go. His parents live 4 hours away from the ...

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a male narcissist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a male narcissist? If so, could you share any experiences? Behavior examples? Thanks!...

My boyfriend hates my family because they're FAT!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hates my family and I need some advice on how I can get him to lighten up and be nicer to them. My boyfriend was raised in an extremely wealthy family and also has the perfect body. My family is not super rich and my sister and my mom ...

For the boys: Innocent or not innocent? Tall or short? Athletic or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - i want to know what the guys out there look for in a girl.. do you (guys) like girls that look more innocent or not innocent? do you prefer girls that are tall? or short? do you prefer girls that are athletic or not athletic?...

Is he just joking about? Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - okay, theres this boy i like and he likes me aswell. all week hes been saying hi to me and smiled and the usual stuff. then he said to everyone he really really likes me and blushes when he hears my name. and today he wrote on his hand our names to...

I really really like her and don't no how to tell her or should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - i met this girl at a party and got her number and we went out together and got on really well. i really really like her and dont no how to tell her or should i tell her? i dont no what to say or what i should do, should i ask her out or get to no ...

Should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for 4 years now for the first year we were just friend renting a 2 bedroom apt together. Recently I was let go from my job do to lack of money in the business. I have continued to work for the company on ...

He doesn't seem to want to make love to me as often as he used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. We started having sex 10 months after we started dating, and since then all i want to do is make love to him!... everything was ok for 4 months but now he doesnt feel like doing it as ...

How should I do it? Do you think I should break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - In simple terms - my relationship with my boyfriend, feels like a friendship. I don't know; maybe I jumped to conclusions deciding I liked him, maybe I did at the time but not now, maybe I should have waited to get to know him better. When he a...

Should we just ignore our issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - It seems like no matter how often my boyfriend and I talk about our relationship issues and how to solve them it always turns out that nothing really changes. while we talking he tells me he understands me and all that but few days later usually he ...

Why does he act differently now he knows I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Before, my crush's friends used to act shy and awkward around me. Which I thought was weird because they were all outgoing. But once I told him that I liked him (he didn't say anything but he told my friend that yes, he liked me too), they started ...

I need a job but I don't want to work because my boyfriend is already giving me everything I need!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) - i need some advice and no judgement please, my problem is, my boyfriend is taking care of me,very good care. what ever i neeed he provide, he's on the wealthy side, but i need a job, but i don't want to work because he giving me every thing i need ...

Am I wrong for wanting to start my life with the person I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been with eachother a year and a half and we are also living together(with his fam.)I work and i support him untill he finishes college. He just got a job, so i asked him... "when are we moving out?" he said whenever he ...

His friends say mean things about me and my boyfriend laughs along with them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - well... lets start simple.. im 13 and i recently got a boyfriend (about a month ago),,,and ill just add its not my first he is really sweet and has on his myspace that he loves me and that im his girlfriend and all of that kind of stuff. bu...

Hot supermodel type flirting with my boyfriend so I told her no to friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) - Three years ago I met a girl through my boyfriend's best buddy. She was really fun and nice. She is a hot supermodel type, and from Europe somewhere. She was very open; willing to do anything sexually, which I learned from her attitude and from ...

My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment. I know he loves me but he pushes me away because of his past! One girl that he was with spilt her wrists because she was totally in love with him and he left her. And thats what she did. And he was ...

I slept with other girls but we were not dating at the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - Im in quite the predicament someone please help me. I have been talking to this girl (will call her M) for 11 or so months, she had a boyfriend off and on up until a month and a half ago. We would have streaks where we would talk and spend time ...

How to get my boyfriend's attention back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - How to catch my boyfriend's attention back? Hi! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost six months now and it seems like he does not care when I'm around and he'd rather spend the Friday night with his flatmates. He expects me to so...

When I called him crying he said to me "why are you whinging?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - please help please .. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore , we've been going out 3 years and im nearly 18 and he's turned 20 , he hardly talks to me , we used to talk everyday and now its not the same . I called him just before as I was ...

Everywhere I go I see couples and it makes me feel jealous! How can I stop feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I'm struggling with single life. When I go out with friends, or when I hang around with my flat-mates I always see couples and it makes me feel jealous. Last night, I looked across the room and saw my flat-mate and his girlfriend playing together...

Bad breakup - can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Was with a guy for 10 months - in the last 2-3 months he kept to break up with me sporadically just like that but mainly after we had a trivial fight..he would dump me by txt or by phone call..and we would keep to go back with each other once 3 days ...

Another girl asks my guy out for a meal - he thinks they are friends but she doesn't even know about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi right ok so girls and guys. Girls if you asked a boy out for a meal would you be classing that as asking him on a date? guys if a girl asked you out for a meal would YOU class that as a date? a guy i was with told me a girl liked him she ...

Sex was amazing in the early stages but now we are both feeling frustrated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - i am 21 and my bf is 20 we have been otgether for 2 years and have a child together. i also have one from a previous relationship. sex to bgin with in the early stages was amazing and would last all night for the last 9 months or so he loses hi...

My online guy suddenly wants to go out with me after his other girl dropped him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've talking with on line for abour 3 years, he has always told me he doesn't want to have agirlfriend or a serious relationship, we tried having a coffee together but it did not work really however we take on great just talking on ...

How do I go about asking out a girl I barely know?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - There's this girl at my school, I barely know her and yet I like her. The only things I know are her name and year (She's 2 years younger than me) because we both did an afterschool activity (I think she doesn't do it anymore though). I'm think...

Sometimes I feel that it is all too much, do I still love him or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - do I really still love my boyfriend? I mean don't get me wrong he is a great guy and we love each other but sometimes he can be really annoying. He is my second boyfriend and I'm his third girlfriend. We weren't friends that long before we started ...

He's sooo clingy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Here's the thing. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and let me tell you it was love at first sight and all. Its an amazing relationship. But something is starting to go wrong. He's becoming too clingy. My goodness is it annoying. I mean I see ...

Is he not going to text me for a while since I did the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so there's this guy I met him in a restaurant I always go to. He asked me for my number so he can always have my food ready before I get there. We started talking, and then he kept telling me he liked me and how he just needed to have my number ...

I'm obviously in love, but I want to know for sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this feeling, and what does this mean?...

Am I too trusting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - First off, I have trust issues, I have, as I like to put it, been scarred by women in the past. Never cheated on ( and trust me I know ) but just lied to, and I had to cut the rope. Recently though I've chosen to ignore my paranoia, it doesn'...

She's gonna think I'm hitting her up only for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - Im a student at university and everyday i study in the library because of exams. and theres this girl who i think is really nice that i see there and i would like to get to know her. but recently a group of ppl in the library put on a porn video and ...

He gave her his number. Is he just seeing if I will react to this or is this a sign that he is not serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about three months now. I am 18 and he is 27. We recently talked about our relationship and come up with the conclusion that we are exclusive but we realize that our relationship is limited due to our age difference and ...

I feel my partner is going through a crisis just now... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I am a 31 year old male who has been in a relationship for 8 years. We have 2 beautiful girls age 3 and 5. my fiance told me that she has had and ongoing affair with a man for about 4 months and will not break it off with him. she will not give me ...